Indoda ingakhanyisa ukuzethemba nokungaziphathi kahle, kepha ngisho nangokwezifiso zohlobo lwamadoda zibonisa ukungaqiniseki kokungaqiniseki kokungaqiniseki lapho kuziwa empilweni eseduze. Iphansi eliqinile lincike kakhulu ngombono ngokwalo njengomuntu othanda kangcono lapho owesifazane engakuvezi ukuthandwa kwakhe ngamakhono akhe, aqala ukungabaza amandla akhe. Sinqume ukuthola ukuthi, yibuphi ukwesaba kwamadoda abhekana nakho kaningi.
Ngaye, akwamukeleki ukwehluleka
Imvamisa, ngoba lokhu kwesaba kungenzeka kungabi yisizathu, kepha le ndoda isivele yakwazi ukuyenzela ukuthi enye yezinto zothando zesikhathi esizayo zingaqeda ukwehluleka. Imvamisa, lokhu kwenzeka nabesilisa ngaphambili kwalokolwa kokwenqatshwa kwabesifazane embhedeni, ngakho-ke wonke amabutho awo afuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi le ndaba ayiphindi.
Ungaqeda kanjani umbono obonakalayo?
Njengomthetho, uma umuntu ethukile, uyabonakala ngokushesha. Owesifazane osontena wakhe usobala ngokwesaba impela ukuhlupheka kwe-fiasco, kuyadingeka ukukhombisa ubumnandi futhi ungagxili kulokhu. Zama ukuphumula indoda yakho ngokubonisa ubumnene. Noma ngabe izinkinga ezine-potency zingokoqobo, ungazami ukunikeza izeluleko, qiniseka ukuthi uthintana nochwepheshe - hambisana nomlingani ukuze umnikeze ukwesekwa.
Ungakugcizeleli lokhu kunathi
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Wesaba ukuqeda ngokushesha okukhulu
Ngokusho kwezibalo, indoda ngayinye yesibili endaweni eyodwa noma enye iphuzu lesikhathi libhekene nokubulawa kwabantu ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Uma lokhu kwenzeke ngakunye, okuphezulu kabili, akudingekile ukukhathazeka ngokuqondile, indoda kuphela edinga ukuqondakala ukuthi kungani isimo esinjalo ngokwenziwe senzeka, futhi sinikeze ithuba lokuphumula kancane.
Futhi uma isimo siphindwa?
Ukuze uthole umbhangqwana oqhubekayo, ukwanda ngaphambi kwesikhathi kungaba yinkinga yangempela, ngakho-ke ukwenza sengathi angenzi lutho okwenzeka esikhathini eside. Sizama futhi ukuthi singagxili efomini eliphelele, umsebenzi wakho ukusiza umlingani ukuxazulula inkinga kwifomu elibuthakathaka, zama ukunikela ngosizo lwendoda yakho, ukusekela umbono wakho ukuya kuchwepheshe ndawonye.
Buyisela ukwesekwa kozakwethu
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Indoda ayibekezeleli uma owesifazane esanelisekile
Omdala yile ndoda iba, kulapho acabangi ngokwengeziwe ngokwaneliseka kwakhe, kodwa futhi nowesifazane ubhekene naye. Kwenzeka ukuthi umuntu obuthakathaka futhi owesabekayo wehla ukwesaba kwakhe kowesifazane, wamangalela ngobulungiswa, uma ehluleka ukuletha umlingani ophakeme, kepha indoda evamile ihlala ifuna ukuqiniseka ukuthi umfazi wakhe wahlangabezana nemizwa efanayo njengoba yena .
Ungaqhubeka kanjani?
Njengomthetho, lokhu kwesaba kuvinjelwe kwabesilisa abangenamaphiko abesifazane abangenamaphiko - uhlobo lwe- "qhwa leqhwa." Amadoda kubalulekile ukubona intshisekelo emehlweni akho. Njengoba uvame ukungakwazi ukudumisa indoda yakho, ikakhulukazi uma unokuthile ngempela. Nakanjani uzokwazisa.