Ngokuya, ukutolika kwamaphupho, kuyadingeka ukuchaza hhayi isithombe esibonakalayo kuphela, kodwa futhi nesimo lapho kuhlala khona amaphupho. Lokhu kugcizelela futhi umbono wokuthi amaphupho asisiza ukuba sibone impendulo yethu ejulile kulokho okwenzekayo nokukubona okuhlangenwe nakho kwawo kanye nokusabela kwayo ngokwenzekayo, futhi kaningi ukwenza izenzo ezidingekayo.
Kepha ephusheni lanamuhla ezenzweni ziye emuva, futhi uzobona ukuthi kungani.
Ukulala kuphupha kowesifazane osekhulile owayevele wabona uphawu iminyaka eminingana: ebusuku, futhi eminyakeni yamuva nje ntambama, ku-staticsed poses, ebekade enomunwe. Ukubuya kokuzwela kuza kabuhlungu, njengokungathi "wakhonza" unyawo: Kubuhlungu, isikhathi eside futhi kunikeza izinhlobo ezahlukene zokungakhululeki, kepha umuntu ophilile ngokwengeziwe wethusa ukulahleka kwesikhashana kwengxenye yomzimba yonke.
Lona wesifazane, izimpawu zakhe ziphindwa ngokwengeziwe, ziphupha nokulala:
"Ngine-romance ekhanyayo, enothando ne-revy general enokuxhumana okuningi, amalungelo. Kunamandla. Ngesikhathi sokunye okukhethekile, ulahlekelwa yizandla zombili phezu kwakhe, zisesibhedlela naye, zilungiselela ukuhlinzwa ukuze kunikeze izingxenye ezisindile. Izandla ziyaxoxa. Sixoxa ngokuthi sizophila kanjani - ngemuva kokuqamba amanxeba kuye: sizokuya e-Europe, sikhuluma ngeqiniso lokuthi ngiyaxolisa ngezandla, vele , kepha sindawonye, le mpilo ayiguquki. Bese kuthi-ke impilo yakhe icela ukuhlinzwa, ngilindele ikusasa. Uhlelele ukuhlinzwa ngekusasa. Phezulu kwetafula. "
Uma ucabanga ngomongo owedlule, umyalezo usobala. Okujwayelekile ngokuxhuma, Somandla - nguyena uqobo kanye nesimo sakhe sengqondo emzimbeni wakhe: onamandla, onamandla, onamandla. Umzimba onjalo nalowo uyamthanda.
Isiqephu sokulala ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa, lapho yena kanye nonke abalahlekelwe yizo zombili izandla bakha amapulani ngekusasa - Lokhu kukhombisa ukuhweba kwabo iqabunga lelo mpilo kusethuli!
Ukuphela kokuzumayo kokusebenza kweqiniso kuyiqiniso layo ekwethulweni komzimba wakhe. Kulula ukuthanda futhi uthathe umzimba, onamandla, onamandla, uphilile. Umzimba onjalo nesithombe esinjengathi wonke umuntu.
Kepha indlela yokulungiselela iqiniso lokuthi umzimba uagata, ulahlekelwa amakhono, ushintsho futhi uphathe inkumbulo nakho konke okuhlangenwe nakho okwedlule. Ungakuthatha kanjani umzimba onjalo obona kubi kakhulu futhi uzwa, kungenzeka kubukeka kubi, imibimbi, yomile, uyagula? Ingabe ukulungele ukubheka nokuhlalisa empilweni yakhe ukuthi umzimba wakhe ngaphandle kwakhe uzokhathala, uhambe kancane kancane? Ngabe ubona izinwele ezidabukisayo kanye nemibimbi lapho isikhumba esinwebeka sasikhanya ngaphambili?
Le yinselelo enkulu kumuntu - ukubona ukuthi impilo inempilo. Iqiniso eliphakeme kulokhu kuvula umzimba wakho. Ukulala amaphupho ethu ngokuthi kungazelelwe kungazelelwe futhi ngaphandle kwesixwayiso kungawuhlambulula isithombe sakhe njengowesifazane oqinile, onamandla onamathemba amade.
Futhi ngasikhathi sinye, ukulala akuyona isibikezelo esimnyama, esiphoqelekile ukuba sifezeke. Kungcono ukuboniswa komnyombo wokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe nokucabanga ngawe. Mhlawumbe manje iphupho liyesatshiswa ngokulahleka okuza nobudala. Ngasikhathi sinye, impilo yakhe ingaphambi kwempilo yakhe ngaphambili: esikhundleni sazo kwesinye isikhathi amandla amancane, ukuvuthwa, ukuhlakanipha, okuhlangenwe nakho, ukuqwashisa ngenani lokuthi kwenzekani. Lesi isiqalo esihle kakhulu sendalo yempilo yesikhathi esizayo.
Futhi amaphupho akho? Izibonelo zamaphupho akho Thumela ngeposi: [email protected]. Indlela, amaphupho kulula kakhulu ukuwaveza uma encwadini eya kumhleli obaluleke kakhulu uzobhalela izimo zokuphila ezandulelayo, kepha okubaluleke - imizwa ngesikhathi sokuvuka Kuleli phupho.
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin