Ukuhlaziywa okuncane ukuze uthole ukuthi utshala imali emcabangweni wokuqonda. Isibonelo, i-Frank Pate of Companion: "Ayini ama-curves akho emilenze!" Noma "Ubukeka njengoScareCrow!" Esikhundleni salokho, udonsa ngobuhlakani kanye nokuntuleka kwemfundo.
Ukuqonda ukuntuleka kokuqhekeka, okungukuthi, ngaphandle kwakho kuyafana: awudingi ukufihla noma yini, ungazami ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi ngempela.
Sonke sisuka kwisikhathi esizayo "masingathuli emehlweni", nabesifazane, ukuthi yini okufanele bacashe lapho, kunesici sezinga eliphakeme kakhulu. Bengifuna ukuthanda umuntu noma ngithole izinzuzo - futhi masichume "umsila." Kodwa-ke, ngelungu lenkulumo kaFaina Ranevskaya: "Ngaphansi komsila ngamunye we-peacock, imbongolo yenkukhu ejwayelekile ayihlale kunjalo."
Kubukeka sengathi othile uzoba mubi kakhulu eqinisweni lokuthi uhlotshiswe kancane noma utshelwe i-interlocutor hhayi kukho konke okusekhanda lakho, okungukuthi, polytemerili. Yebo, iqiniso lendaba ukuthi akekho-ko, ngaphandle kwakho. Okwesikhashana, mhlawumbe isikhathi eside kakhulu, leliqhinga lizosebenza, futhi liyohlala likhona abantu abangabhalwa ngalo.
Uma ubamba futhi uzilawule ngesikhathi sengxoxo, awukhulumi ngalokho okucabangayo - uhlukanisa lokho okungaholela ku-neurosis
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Kujwayelekile kakhulu futhi imfashini ngandlela thile manje i-neurosis ikhula kusukela ebuntwini obuhlukile. Uma unqamula futhi uzilawule ngesikhathi sengxoxo, awukhulumi ngalokho okucabangayo - usuvele uhlukanisiwe. Igama elithi "umzenzisi" lizikhulumela: Unobuso obuhlukile kusukela ekuseni kuze kube kusihlwa. Ukuze ulondoloze isithombe esiyisibonelo, udinga ukuqaphela ngaso sonke isikhathi, shintsha isikhathi - ngengozi "ukungagqoki" akuwona ubuso. Imisipha yakho isebenza njalo kagesi. Ikakhulu "ukuhlupheka" kobuso nentamo. I-Heathecse evame ukwenzeka kulabo abavame ukuzibuza.
Ukuqondile. Ikakhulu uma inkampani osebenza kuyo, noma umndeni ohlala kuwo, unamathela kwimodeli yokuphatha evumelana. Futhi uzobe udweba, uthule noma kubi, akusilo iqiniso ukuthi ukhulume - umzenzisi.
Ukukhuluma ngokona, ngeke ngikuphathe ngokuphelele ukukhombisa ububi bakho. Induku futhi ungagobi. Vele ufunde injabulo ukuze uthembeke kuwe nabanye abantu. Ungavumeli ukuba ungaphandle, ngaphandle kwangaphakathi.
Futhi mayelana neqiniso lokuthi abantu abaseduze kwakho bavame ukukhombisa kwakho, funda lapha.