Vele, kuyadingeka ukusebenza ekwakhiweni kobudlelwano obuvumelanayo. Kodwa-ke, ngisho nakulokhu, izingxabano nezinkinga kungenzeka, okufika ephuzwini elithile: ngokushesha nje lapho ukuxhumana nomlingani kuphenduka ukufana kokugqilazwa, kungahlala isikhathi esingakanani kule modi . Sizonikeza izibonakaliso ezine zokuthi ubudlelwane buchaziwe.
Uqala ukulahlekelwa inkululeko
Vele, ngaphandle kokuyekethisa akunakwenzeka ukubambelela ku-pair isikhathi eside, kepha isinqumo esenziwe kufanele sikuhlelele nobabili. Uma usesimweni esikhula sivuselela umlingani wakho, ngenkathi ukwephulwa kwezintshisekelo zakho noma ukuphikisana nezimiso zakho, lokhu akusekho ukuyekethisa, kepha ukuhanjiswa kwakho. Lapho nje uqonda ukuthi ukuxhumana kuqala ukugqashuka kusuka ngaphakathi, uyeka ukujabulisa kulokhu, mhlawumbe umane nje awunalo umusi futhi igebe kuleli cala kuzoba yisixazululo esihle kakhulu.
Imvamisa ukubonisana kodokotela wezengqondo kuletha ubuhlobo
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Uyekile ukuzwa injabulo ngenkathi usebudlelwaneni
Ngaphezu komsebenzi waphakade kanye nokuthuthukiswa kobudlelwano, inyunyana yothando ifaka inzalo evumelana ngayo nezintshisakalo zomuntu zesibili zengxenye yakhe yesibili, injabulo yalokho osekusondele. Ukuxabana kanye nentuthuko kuzohambisana nanoma yibuphi ubuhlobo, kepha akufanele 'kungapheli' nokubhubhisa. I-voltage eqhubekayo enkampanini yomlingani iyisibonakaliso esifanele segebe eliseduze.
Kunzima ukuhlala eduze
Kwabangane nezihlobo, ungumbhangqwana ophelele, kepha ekhaya uzama ukuhlakaza emakamelweni ahlukene, ngoba usele ngedwa kuwe, ayibekezeleleki. Ngesikhathi ebudlelwaneni bakho, izimo eziningi ezingemnandi zingenzeka, okwadala ukudideka nokungathandi komunye nomunye. Cabanga uma ungakwazi ukusiguqula isimo, mhlawumbe uqhubeke ubuhlobo asasenangqondo?
Ubudlelwano akufanele bube bungene
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Awunawo amandla okuqhubeka lobu budlelwano.
Imibhangqwana eminingi ayiphelelwa yithemba, futhi uma inkinga yobudlelwano obubhubhisayo ingenakuxazululwa ngokwayo, iya kulabo abanekhono kubuciko esisiza ukulungisa amaphutha nothando lokunqoba inhlekelele. Ngokuvamile, ukubonisana kwezazi zezengqondo ziletha ukuthula ebudlelwaneni bombhangqwana, kepha kwenzeka ukuthi vele nzima ukusiza ubudlelwano, ikakhulukazi uma umuntu ovela kubalingani ehlupheka nge-pair. Khumbula ukuthi uzizwe kanjani ngaphambi kokuthi ungene kulobu budlelwano? Uma isimo sesishintshile saba sibi kakhulu, ingabe udinga inyunyana ebhubhisayo enjalo?