"Ngoba unjalo nani nami?" - Uzibuza lapho uthola ngokufika komngane owayevele wangaphambili. Ukukhashelwa komuntu osedumile kulabo abahlala bethembekile kwabanye, basinda akulula, kodwa mhlawumbe. Ngeshwa, lesi simo sizohlala enkulweni yakho ngempilo yonke, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uzoba lula ngempela - imininingwane izokhohlwa, ukuxhumana kuzosulwa futhi kusomisa isimo kuphela futhi womisa kuphela isimo. Siyethemba ngokweqiniso ukuthi lokhu okuqukethwe kuzokusiza ukuba uyeke icala futhi uyeke ukuzwa izinzwa zakho.
Susa Icala
Ukuphendula umbuzo osekwe ngenhla, sisho ngokuqinile: Awunacala. Khohlwa ngamazwi alabo abathi "bahlale besola" izinhlangothi zombili "akunjalo. Impilo ayilindelekile futhi i-multifaceted ukuthi ngathi ngamunye wethu angaba kalula okuthile okungalindele okungenani, noma ngabe siziphatha kahle. "Intombi" eyodwa izama ukudlulisa umyeni, abanye baxoxa ngemuva kwabo, okwesithathu bafuna ukufaka esikhundleni sebhodi yezinyawo emsebenzini - futhi lezi zimbali kuphela. Kubalulekile ukuhlukanisa izenzo zakho kubantu ongabazi - awunacala ekuziphatheni komngane, okuwona unembeza okwanele nokukhuliswa ngokweqiniso ukukutshela ngokweqiniso ngomona nangesifiso sokuyeka ukuxoxa ngomona nangesifiso sokuyeka ukuxoxa. Uma ungakwazi ukukubona lokhu, khona-ke inkinga ilele ekuzethembeni kwakho - sebenza phezu kwayo ehhovisi lezengqondo.
Ngenkathi uxoxa ngemuva komhlane wakho, uqhubeka ngaphambi kokuhleba
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Ngiyaxolisa kumuntu ongenampilo
Lapho ungalungile, abantu abangazivezi, futhi abakukhapheli, nezimiso zabo zokuziphatha, bayadunyiswa futhi banakalise ubuhlobo nalabo abambalwa ababathanda ngobuqotho. Kubukeka ngabo ukuthi baphume kulesi simo nabenzi baphumelele: Yebo, bazophawula umphumela wesikhashana, kodwa ngemuva kwesikhathi sabo, bazokwazisa ukuqwashisa ngesenzo esinamahloni. Ngikholwe, akubangabi nabalazeli abangafisi le "Kara". Ngakho-ke nje okuthunyelwe komuntu ongenawo amandla anele omlingiswa okukhuluma nawe okungenani ngokuqondene nesandiso esedlule.
Thola abangane abasha
Ungalahli ukholo kubantu: Bonke abantu balungile, abanye bake bake bakhubeka ekujuleni komphefumlo, ngakho babize futhi manje abakwazi ukubhekana nezinkinga zengqondo ngokuzimela. Uzothola nezintombi zami kangcono kunalabo abayazisayo inhliziyo yakho enomusa nokuthembeka kwengqondo. Ukuletha ukuqala kwalesi sikhathi, kuvame ukuya kumaqembu kubangani, abhalise esigabeni sezemidlalo noma ukhumbule umdlalo wentsha yakho - ukudweba, ukudansa, ukufezeka nezinye izinto. Abantu ubungani babo buqala ngentshiseko mutual komunye nomunye, ngokuzayo kulula kakhulu ukulondoloza ubuhlobo obufudumele.
Funa abangane ngentshisekelo
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Musa ukubamba intukuthelo kumhlubuki - ukuqwashisa kuzofika kuye kamuva, futhi kuze kube manje kuphela usebenzise amandla okuvusa imizwa engemihle. Phefumula ugcwele amabele futhi uphile ngenjabulo, ngoba wena ngokwakho kufanele ube ngumuntu oyinhloko wempilo yakho, nabantu abaseduze kwakho.