Isikebhe sothando, njengoba wazi, kwephula impilo. Impilo iyancibilika emcabangweni ongokoqobo nangokomfanekiso walabo ababesafisa izolo kanye nomusi emaphikweni othando. UTHANDA UTHANDO? Yini ubulili? Singobani, singena enkambisweni yomndeni? Kungani uPhakade uSuva, eseshade, ayeke ukuzibuka? Ake sizame ukuthola futhi sithole isicupho esibizwa ngokuthi "umshado".
Impela wonke umuntu wabona kwi-Intanethi Ukukhethwa kwe-Photocolles "ukuthi osaziwayo bangabukeka kanjani, uma bekungezinkoma ngokwabo njalo ngonyaka, uma bengayifuni ejimini, uma bengayidlanga ejimini futhi bengayidli amaphilisi avimba." UJohnny Depp uvame ukufana ne-oval evulekile, uKeira Knightley ubukeka njengowesifazane - okubalwa ngowesifazane, uJay Lo noMariya Kerry baletha imicabango nge-Opera Dives "ngamakhulu amabili" amakhulu amabili ".
Vele, wonke la mahlaya angaseMelika ahlushwa ukukhuluphala, kodwa kuwo wonke amahlaya kukhona ihlaya elithile. Abantu bahlukaniswe izigaba ezimbili. Owokuqala ugcina isisindo sayo esinesizotha, kungakhathalekile ukuthi abhema - amaphilisi, amaphilisi, ama-hormonal, amadili, acindezelekile. Okwesibili kuhlale kulwela wonke amakhilogremu noma, ukwehlisa izandla zakhe, ukugxusha ikhabethe ngezingubo xxl.
Isigaba sesibili siphethwe ngobuningi ngaphezulu. Umshado usuba yisicupho esikhulu ngaye "ngokuthandeka njengodonga lwamatshe." I-Lateri, i-Flolodous Kipsis, yashada ngempumelelo, iphenduka izintambo zamahlaya ngamafutha okhalweni nezitayela zezinwele ezingajwayelekile. Kubonakala ngathi bakhohlwe ngokuba khona kwezibuko. Bathi: "Uyangithanda ngalutho." Noma: "Indoda enhle kufanele ibe kakhulu." Noma: "I-bass yami ingubhiya engiqhathanise naye uMerkna."
Isihloko sokushintshwa kobuhlungu bokubonakala kubakhathaza abesifazane kwasekuqaleni. Amadoda asekhaya awakafiki ezingeni lapho "yena" efuna ukulandela "kuye" ezingeni le-sequapil, kuyilapho "yena" uzama ukugxuma ezingeni lemali etholwayo "yakhe". Abesifazane bethu bagxuma bangase basebenzise. Amadoda ayaqhubeka nokuqamba amanga. Ngakho-ke, sizobashiya okwesikhashana bodwa.
Isibonelo Sabazali
Umama Kira Knightley ungowesifazane oqhubekayo oqhubekayo. Cha, hhayi fat. Vele uqine, udubule, njenge-ballisakovsky anglicics. Ngokwemithetho yezakhi zofuzo, izingane zingukuqhubeka kwebhayoloji kwabazali bazo. Uma kumama 75 kg, khona-ke indodakazi ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane izobathola. Uma uPapa eyimpandla, khona-ke indodana ingakuhlekisa esokeni lakhe lentsha. Ngeminyaka engamashumi amane, akukho lutho oluyosala kulo.
Yebo, siphila ngezikhathi zobukeka kahle, silindele ukufika kwama-nanotechnologies afakwe imijovo emithathu. Futhi, vuma: Isihloko sokuvuselela kabusha siqhakaze ngomagazini ngobuhle ngosayizi obumangalisayo. Eqinisweni liwela ngaphansi kommese (noma liya ehholo) lincane. Isisindo esimangazayo sigeleza phansi phansi - nakusasele kwangaphambili. Uvame ukubona umama ombalwa - ndodakazi futhi uyakuqonda ukuthi uDcha ngandlela thile uvuthiwe ekuseni. Kuyishumi nesishiyagalombili wacishe wabamba umama ngobukhulu. Kusele ukuthenga ukuvezwa okufanayo okuxakile kobuso, ukudonsa ikhanda emahlombe, kunamathele kancane, ukukhulisa amanoni entanyeni, isilevu sesithathu - kanti i-clone mamashi isilungile.
Ugogo uGogo uthi: "Ufuna ukwazi ukuthi yini umkakho eba khona, lapho izoyeka ukuba ngumakoti, bheka umama wesikhathi esizayo." Futhi yize uKeira Knightley athathe isinqumo sokuphonsela inselelo lokhu okuthunyelwe, kepha amantombazane amaningi emhlabeni amlandela.
Babona ukuthi ubaba wawo we-mugly wakudala ugunda kanjani umama wakudala omubi embonweni oweluliwe futhi emamatheka ngenjabulo. Bacabanga ukuthi: "Yebo, ngizoba nokufana. Sizokwakha endlini yenduduzo, sishanela ama-buns amnandi futhi ngizohlala konke okupholile, emzimbeni. Amadoda ayayithanda. " Hawu.
Izwe lethu alilona uMpumalanga. Amakhazipha angaba banzi - kepha hhayi banzi kunalokho kukaMonica Bellucci. Ngasikhathi sinye, okhalweni kufanele kufundwe ngokucacile ngisho nasezingutsheni ezikhululekile. Shiya isipiliyoni sikamama sedwa. Waphila impilo yakhe, cishe uzofuna ukuba ngcono. Cabanga ngakho ngaphambi kokugwinya ikhekhe le-ayisikhilimu "Vienna Waltz" (500 g, 1200 kcal).
Sleeng Swamp
Lapho sesikulungele ukuwela othandweni futhi sifuna into efanelekile, iziphetho zethu zemizwa zikhiqiza i-dopamine - umuthi wemvelo, lapho impilo ibonakala ikhona umbala nokukhanya. Ngaphansi kwe-dopamine, inhliziyo yethu ishaya ngokushesha, izinwele zingcono, amehlo akhanya, futhi ngisho nezinduna zinyamalala kwenye indawo. Lapho uthando olukhanyayo lungena emgqonyeni wezinzwa, umzimba esikhundleni se-dopamine wethula i-adrenaline, isikhuthazo esinzima. Manje sine motor ehlanya esifubeni sakho. Igazi linamathela ekhanda, lapho-ke ezinhlakeni zokuzala, ukukhohlwa isisu ngo-oksijini. Ngenxa yalokhu, asinaki ukudla, futhi ngezikhathi zokondla ngobudlova nabangane abanobuwula bashayela imfoloko epuletini.
Ubukhulu bentombazane esigabeni sokuqala sothando bungakhohlisa ngisho nokuxabana okungavamile. Kuzomangaza ukuthi kuyini, ngemuva konyaka, impilo ethule yengcindezi yakhe yeqembu lakhe iguqulwa ibe ngumculi waseRussia uKustodeiv. Injabulo yomndeni yeHormone Endorphin igcwele. Uma i-dopamine ingaqhathaniswa ne-cocaine, i-endorphine ifana ne-morphine. Ngaphansi kwe-coke, izinsuku zidadingi, ngaphansi kwamanga ama-morphine kwaphupha.
Amasofa emithanjeni emikhulu, njengoba kwaziwa, kuholela esisindo ngokweqile. Ukuzethemba Uthando Abantu Mutual Holond Hola Hola Indlela Yokuphila Elinganisiwe: Basukume, bahlale phansi, baphumule ngemuva kokudla, bathathe uthando, bathatha uhambo lokuhamba, ngathola khona izivakashi, bafika lapho behleli phansi etafuleni, Baphuza kuze kube phakathi kwamabili, bafisa ukuhlukunyezwa ekhaya balala embhedeni. Futhi ngakho-ke nsuku zonke ngokuhlukahluka okuncane ngesimo sokuhamba ngezinyawo.
Ngesinye isikhathi, ngiphakamisa iso epuletini, umyeni uzothi kumkakhe: "Benizowenza," futhi uzomphendula athi: "Ngiyayizwa."
Akaboni
Izici ezingenakulakala komndeni ezingeyona isisindo ngokweqile, kodwa futhi nenhlanzeko, imithetho yehostela nethoni enhle. Uma umuntu esetshenziselwa ukonakalisa umoya futhi angagodli ukuba yilungu ngaphansi kwephiko likamama, uzoqhubeka nokukwenza, lapho nje engena emndenini omusha. Imvamisa kuyabakhathaza abesilisa. Abesifazane banamasu abo okulwa nokulwa: ubudlova basekhaya, ukuzalanisa okungcolile, ukusakaza izinto ngazinye.
Kuyacaca ukuthi umuntu othandana naye ugeza ikhanda lakhe kaningi kunokushada. Futhi lokho ngokwenza izinwele ezinhle ngokufaka ngowesifazane oshadile akukho mandla noma isikhathi noma imali. Ngesizathu esithile! Sengathi wafuna ngaphansi komqhele ukunciphisa ikhwalithi yempilo. I-OhhHhhhHushki ichaza ukubukeka kwayo okunganakwa kanjena: "Ngenzele konke, ngazama ukujabulisa kakhulu, kodwa akazange abheke izinto zami ezintsha, futhi nganquma ukuyeka leli bhizinisi. Okwani? Angiziboni okwami, kepha angizukuthandana nabanye. "
Kwenzeka ukuthi umyeni wakhe aphoqelele umkayo ukuba aqale. Uveza okubi lapho egqoka lapho egqokisa (uNkulunkulu wenqabela othile uzonaka futhi akhethe). Ukubuka isikwele lapho ehamba ngesiketi esifushane. Uyazisola ngemali kuma-salon. Cha, ngiveza ngokungalungile: Akasoli ngisho nokuthi ubuhle bomkakhe selingcwele futhi baligugu kulezi zikhungo ezibizayo. Ucabanga ukuthi abesifazane abavela endabeni yemilenze bathambile kunesilika, nezinwele zimhlophe futhi zicwebezela. Ukuqonda kwabesilisa kwanele kuphela ku-manicure ebomvu ekhanyayo kuphela. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngubani owaziyo? Unina naye wayenezipikili ezinemibala.
Zibe wena
Enye yezicupho ezimbi kakhulu emshadweni othandweni isifiso sokuba yimi, ngoba kungekudala uzokuthanda. Ngesikhathi sokuthambisa kwamaCavaleries kanye nezinkolelo zentombazane eyodwa ehlukile kwadingeka ukuthi zichithe amakhalori amaningi kangaka ngokubamba umzimba wakhe ngamazinga akhazimulayo, athi: "Konke! Basta! " Akudingeki ukuthi uziqonde ngokudla futhi uchithe isimo se-Vitamin Imbic. Ekugcineni uyathandwa. Angakhombisa ikhekhe lakhe elikhethwe isiketi eside sothuli olude eChalana.
Intombazane isethembe: Kwakungcwele ezigidini zabanye ngobuhle bobuhlakani obungokomoya nobungavamile. AKEKHO ISIBHENISO Ukuthi Amadoda Awathanda Amehlo Awa Awo ngeke amenze. Ulungele ukushaya impahla ebanjiswayo ukuthi iyindaba yakhe yothando ihlukile.
Unkosikazi osemusha uyayeka ukugqoka ama-lens asabisa emehlweni akhe, akhiphe izibuko nge-cosmic diopters kusuka ku-larkwac. I-Anti-Cellulite Thai Massage ayiseyona emnandi, kanye okuthandayo nokunye kusihlwa kuvimba okhalweni olunzulu ngezandla zakhe eziqinile. Kuzoba khona izinyembezi zakhe lapho izinyembezi lapho ikhasi le-orange linqoba amandla othando. Lapho othandekayo wakho ekhula amehlo athi: "Yini le nhlanzi? Lokhu bekungenjalo lapho sihlangana nawe. "
Kuyamangaza ukuthi 'ekubeni nguwe' iningi labantu abafayo lifaka zonke izincazelo ze-transcendental - akukho lutho olufana "nendlela kiya uqobo." Ukuba nokuphumula okuphelele nokuzitholela kwemikhuba kusebenze ebuntwaneni ebuntwaneni ngokuhlangana kukamama, ukushesha ukukhuphuka nokukhuphuka lapho nje i-dyatyatko elimaza noma ecasukile. Kepha umlingani akayona umama. Akazange aqashe fan. Impilo yomndeni akuyona inkonzo yomunye nomunye, kodwa ukubambisana okulinganayo.
Ngodwa, intombazane yedwa - ilungelo lelo linelungelo lokuhlala inyunyana ne-amateur ukuhlala ekhompyutheni kusihlwa kuze kube yizobusuku ezintathu. Uma kungazelelwe inqume ukuthi ukhathele impilo yakhe futhi umzuzwana womuntu kungenzeka avele kuwo, alungiselele ukulungiselela iqiniso lokuthi izintshisekelo zangaphambilini zizohamba njenge-shroud.
Ngesikhathi sokudlala ngothando, ngamunye wethu wakha imodeli entsha yedwa - umuntu ongathanda ummeleli wobulili obuhlukile (ngobulili bayo awukwazi ukuhluza okuningi). Sinamathiselwe ukunqoba igebe phakathi kwe-M no-W ngenxa yokwakha iseli lomphakathi. Kuyavela, sikhohlisa?
Amanga? Ngaphandle kwalokho, kungani senqaba "ukuheha", lapho nje into oyifunayo itholakala, ithathwe futhi yahlanganyela? Amadoda asithanda njengoba ebona okokuqala. Kungani sibeka ingulube?
Umphefumulo omuhle
Kuyafaneleka ukuhlala emcimbini womphefumulo omuhle. Ithi imisebenti eminingi yephrososa lebento besifazane bamthola ngokujulile. Banethemba lokuthi othandweni ngokweqiniso bazokwazi ukubona ubuhle obujulile bobuhle ngaphansi kwezixuku, izinwele ezingathandeki ezingenamthungo kanye nezingubo zokugqoka. Bakholelwa impela ukuthi indoda izobheka emehlweni abo (bedlula konke okunye) kanye nomzabalazo uyawa.
Azikho izintombi ezinjalo zezigidi, kepha namuhla asikhulumi ngabo. Sinesifiso ekilasini labesifazane abashade, bathathe isinqumo sokuthi bashukumise ekuseni - babuyela ezimpandeni, ekunakekelweni kwentsha. Ama-sneaker, i-jeans, ijazi elisikekile, izinwele ziqinile emsileni, ngezimpande ezinde. Ukubonakala okunjalo kokubeletha kusanda kuzala uMamash enkundleni yokudlala. Kuthatha unyaka, enye. Ubusuku obungalali busala esikhathini esidlule, agula izinduku, izinsini ezisacabilika, ngakho-ke isikole esisekhaleni, futhi omama basahamba ezindlini baqinisa izimbotshana zebhande lenjoloba. Kusho ukuthi akusekho ukuthi indlu yonke ikubo - akulona iqiniso lokho. Sekuyisikhathi eside bajwayela ezingeni elisha lemithwalo, shonit emlilweni wamadivayisi emgodini womshado. Manje kungani bezenza babi? Abangewona abahlali? Ukudonswa kwezigqila zokuzwa?
Kunombono wokuthi amantombazane angenayo okuqukethwe okuningi kwangaphakathi alethwa emshadweni. Lokhu akulona iqiniso. Ukusebenza ngezicelo ezingokomoya, kanye nabantu abangenangqondo, bacwiliswa kwalasha ngokunakekelwa komyeni wakhe, balahlekelwe yizocansi. Ngaphansi kokubukeka kwayo okungezona izingcezu, bahlinzeka nge-Ideological: Kusolwa ukuthi ubuhlakani kanye namabhuloho aphezulu akufaki ubukhazikhazi (izithelo zokukhangisa, ukuphela kwesihogo).
Izaba ezivelele zobuvila babo zingazwakala kunoma iyiphi inkampani yabesifazane ehlakaniphile. Ngasizathu simbe, kuza kubantu besifazane, abangakwazi ukushefa imilenze ("nansi eyodwa!"), Nokuthi indoda enjengawo wonke umuntu ngendlela yemvelo, futhi lona wesifazane ngaso sonke isikhathi kufanele ahambe. Akekho ovelele ekukhulisweni okungafanele, mayelana nokungabikho kwesibonelo ebuntwaneni, mayelana noMama obukeka kabi nokuthi ezikhathini zaseSoviet ubukeka kahle - ukuvezwa - wamukelwa.
Singabathumbi besikhathi esedlule. Eminyakeni emithathu engamashumi amathathu edlule, othisha ezikoleni bakhipha amacici egolide avela emantombazaneni futhi babelane ngezitayela zezinwele "zeBitter'Skaya". Saphefumulelwa ukuthi bangaphakathi babuse bangaphandle kwangaphandle, futhi iziketi ezincane ziyizingubo zobungcweti zezifebe. Isizukulwane sama-60-70s - laba bantu ababi ababi abasema-90s okwakudingeka babuyiselwe ubukhazikhazi. Labo abazalwa muva nje, kulula kakhulu ukwedlula kwethu. Banethuba lokuhlanganisa umshado ojabulisayo, umphefumulo omuhle nokubukeka kusuka esithombeni.