Iqiniso lokuthi wonke umuntu uhlukile njengoba ukuzalwa kuyaqondakala kwabaningi. Kepha abanye beza kulesi siphetho ngameva ukuzigomela, inzondo kanye nokungahambi kahle kwaphakade. Kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi ngobulili obuhle, imizwa engokomzwelo futhi ephilayo. Hlobo luni, ngokwengqondo kobunye, kungenzeka yini ukuthuthukisa umkhokhiso ngaphandle nokuthi ungawenza kanjani umuntu wesifazane, ngizotshela okunye.
Psychology of ukuhlukile - Ithiyori
Umbuzo wobunye bomuntu siqu wacatshangelwa ukuthi awukho umqondo owodwa wokukhanya. Iphakanyiswe ngabamele izindawo ezahlukahlukene zesayensi nezikole (hhayi ezengqondo kuphela). Imibono ehlukahlukene ikuvumela ukuthi uyibone kusuka ezinhlangothini eziningana.
Owokuqala ungokomzimba. Emvelweni, azikho amaphethini afanayo esikhumba noma nge-retinal. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubuchopho bezokuxhumana be-neural bahlukile. Futhi bahlukile, hhayi umuntu ngamunye. Umqondo wokuqala ubanzi kakhulu kunowesibili. Ukuqwashisa, lokhu kungaphendulwa kwisingathekiso. Ababili eduze kwesihlahla esikhulisiwe sohlobo olulodwa banobuntu babo. Ngokuhlaziywa okuningiliziwe, umehluko ohlukile uyatholakala - Ukuthela izithelo, uhlelo lwezimpande, izindandatho zonyaka.
Uhlangothi lwesibili lombuzo lufuzo. Imikhuba eminingi ikholelwa ukuthi ubunye (ikakhulukazi ama-neurons of the Brain) afakwa ekuthuthukisweni kwe-intrauterine. Isimo sokwenziwa kwaso kuzoba yisipiliyoni somama esinqunyelwe emzimbeni we-genome, okungukuthi, okwenza ukuthi kube nokwazi ukwakha i-phenotype (umgomo wesakhiwo sobuchopho) ngokususelwa ku-genome yokuqala.
Wonke umuntu uhlukile kusukela azalwa
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Esikhathini sangemva kwesikhashana, indima ebalulekile ekubonisweni kobumbano idlala imvelo, umndeni kanye nomphakathi. Lolu uhlangothi lwesithathu lombuzo. Izingane eziqaliswa izigaba zawo zisekelwa futhi zikhuthazwe ngabazali bazo, zibonisa ngokwengeziwe ukuhlukahluka kwazo kunontanga, imindeni yayo edinga ukunganakwa.
Ukuqinisekiswa kokungezwani ecaleni lokuqala kuhlotshaniswa ngokungalingani nemizwa ejabulisayo, uthando oluvela ezinhlelweni, lukhululeke futhi lukuboniswe kwezenzo. Icala lesibili ligcwele ama-Psychotrams, ukushushumbiswa, umthwalo kanye nokwesaba ukusebenzisa ubunye bawo.
Noma yimuphi umbono ngaphandle kokuzilolonga ufile. Ngakho-ke, lesi sigatshana esilandelayo se-athikili sizoba isiluleko sendlela yokuvusa ubunye babo ukuvuka ubunye babo futhi uliveze kahle.
Ukusuka emcabangweni ukuze uzijwayeze - izeluleko zesazi
Njengoba sesivele siqonda, abantu bahlukile kusukela ekuzalweni. Kodwa izici eziphinda zisebenze kabusha zingavimba ukuthi zingabonakali kahle. Ngiyaphinda ukuthi kubaluleke kakhulu kwabesifazane. Ungaba kanjani sesimweni esinjalo? Impendulo ilula - landela izeluleko ezilandelayo.
Ungaziqhathanisi nabanye futhi uthathe zonke izinqumo ngokwakho.
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Okomfanyana , yeka ukubheka abanye bese uziqhathanisa nabo. Kudla okungakhiqizi namandla. Kungcono ukufeza okuthile okuthile engikuthandile kumuntu (inwele ethokozisayo yezinwele, kodwa kuphela uma kusondela ebusweni bakho, ingubo enhle njalonjalo), futhi isebenze.
Komzuzwana , ungajahi imfashini (emikhubeni, ukubukeka, amagajethi nokunye). Imfashini - ILady Chardious futhi iyashintshwa. Ukudlala naye kwikhabethe, ungalahlekelwa mina nokwahlukahlukana kwakho.
Okwesithathu Khohlwa ngamagama athi "Imvamisa" futhi "ngokungajwayelekile". Amashothikhathi anjalo kungenzeka asungulwe ngokukhohlisa okufihliwe. Unganikezi.
Kuvela emkhandlwini wesithathu okwesine . Zama ukuzethemba futhi wenze izinqumo ngokwakho, hhayi ngaphansi kwethonya lomuntu. Umuntu ozethembayo azimele ngakho konke okubambekayo futhi kuphazamisa, - umbono womunye umuntu, abanye, i-caverz nokunye.
Okwesihlanu izeluleko zami - uzimele ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngezinqumo zakho futhi uphendule impilo yakho ngokwakho, futhi ungabethembi muntu.
Umuntu ozethembayo futhi ozimele ongaziqhathanisi nabanye futhi akazixoshele imibono ye-ephemeral, ekugcineni kufika ekufezeni lokho okwenzelwe yena, futhi kuqonda ukuthi ukukhombisa kanjani. Akuyona injabulo yini?