"Yizenzele eyodwa!", "Uyinkosazana nenkanyezi!" "Zethembe!" - Iziqubulo ezifanayo ziye zashaywa zibuze. Imibhalo yezengqondo ayifundwa ngakho, amafilimu nezingoma ezithandwayo nazo zincono ngakho. Kubukeka iningi lethu liphila ngokwalezi zingcingo, ngezindlela ezihlukile zokuqinisa ubuqhawe bakho. Ungakwenza lokhu ngosizo lwezinto ezinophawu, ungaxoxa ngokwakho ukuthi ngingumuntu oyedwa, ngoba umzimba wami ubukeka ngendlela ethile. Ubuhle banamuhla nobuhle bemfashini kunikeza amathuba amaningi kulokhu. Ungafakazela le fomula ngosizo lomsebenzi ophumelelayo. Futhi ungahlala phansi ekhaya ukuqinisekisa umyeni wakho. Ingabe wayezonikeza owesifazane ukuba angazibeki? Impendulo isobala. Kepha eqinisweni kunzima kakhulu ukubona izingxabano ezifihliwe lapho inani lomuntu siqu nokubaluleka kubuzwa imibuzo, futhi kuyadingeka ukuvikela noma ukuhola. Lokhu kungqubuzana kusenesikhathi, kwakhiwa isikhathi eside. Imvamisa, ngokwehla kwezinkumbulo zezingane, ungathola ukuthi umuntu ufika kanjani esiphethweni sokuthi akukho lutho olufanele.
Ezintweni zemfundo, njengokudla akufuneko, kepha ngamahora nezindlela. Lapho-ke ingane ifika esiphethweni sokuthi izidingo zawo azinandaba. Noma ku-windings: "Awusoze wazi ukuthi ufunani," futhi ekuphathweni kwazo zonke izici zokuphila - ukusuka ethoyilethi ekukhetheni abangane, nasekufundeni amadayari akho ngabazali lapho ebusheni, futhi okuningi kulokho. Ngeke ngithi yonke into, kepha izindlela eziningi zemfundo kanye nemibono yemfundo yakhiwa ukuthi inani lengane lihle kakhulu lapho lizalwa, kodwa ngokuzumayo liphuma engxenyeni, ngokwendlela esebenza ngayo. Lapho ingane izalwa, ibalulekile, kepha khona-ke kufanele enze okuthile ukuze akufakazele. Inani likhishwa ngabazali nangesizathu esithile somuntu mathupha alilona ingane.
Imvamisa izindlela zokufundisa kanye nemibono yakhelwe eqinisweni lokuthi inani lengane lincike ekutheni aziphatha kanjani
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Usuvele usebudaleni Kulula ukubona ukubaluleka kwaso emehlweni abanye, ngenxa yalokhu, awukwazi ukuqaphela ukungavumelani kwakho nokunganeliseki. Kulula ukwethemba iqiniso lokuthi abantu abangizungeza nothando, abakwazi ukuba nephutha. Uma ngidinga abathandekayo bami, khona-ke ngingumuntu obalulekile.
Kunengqondo kubonakala kuyinqubo. Kepha okuyingozi ngombono wayo. Lapho inani lomuntu siqu likhona kuphela emehlweni abanye, indima yalaba banye iyakhula ekuqhubekeni kwejometri. Ungaphelelwa yimiphetha amanani akho kumanani nezifiso zabanye, futhi nje uphile impilo yomunye umuntu ukuze emehlweni omunye umuntu kuboniswa njengomuntu okhetheke kakhulu futhi obalulekile. Futhi kulokhu, abukho usizi olukhethekile, uma kungekho ukukhathazeka - ngokujulile, ukuthi mina ngokwami ngingemi lutho.
Ngezansi ngibonisa isibonelo sephupho, okuthi, ngombono wami, kungenxa yalokhu kutholwa okunikeza iphupho.
"Ekhishini, efulethini lobuntwana bami sihleli nobaba. Uyafaneleka kancane. Kodwa-ke, njengoba njalo ebuntwaneni bami. Futhi ngokuzumayo ngentshiseko ekhethekile futhi ugcizelele ngawo wonke amagama, uthi: "Uyazi yini ukuthi akuyona indodakazi yami yokuqala? Ungowesibili! "Ephusheni, ngimangala kakhulu ngephupho, yize ngivuka ngokushesha, ngacabanga ukuthi lokhu akuyona imfihlo. Ngiyazi ngakho, ngoba indodakazi yokuqala yabazali bami yashona ngokuzalwa kwengane. "
Ngiyangeza ukuthi ngazi okuncane ngesimo sempilo yalolu phupha. Ubaba wakhe uyisibalo esibalulekile sothando nothando. Futhi uyazisa ukuthi awusiyo sokuqala, ubili. Ngamanye amagama, naka ukuthi uziphatha kanjani. Usehlelweni lwesibili empilweni yakho. Kwabanye abantu, ungajaha ngokuvamile awunazinombolo, kepha akumangazi yini ukuthi awukho endaweni yokuqala?
"Akumangazi yini ukuthi ngokwakho hhayi endaweni yokuqala?"
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Mhlawumbe, iphupho kuzofanela likhumbule imiyalo yezokuphepha evela endizeni, okuyingaye yaqala kuze kube manje empilweni yakhe: "Uma ukucindezelwa kwenzeka kwikhabethe, i-Oxygen Masks izokuwa. Okokuqala, faka imaski ngokwakho (okungamukeleki kulabo abasesithunzini sempilo yabo), ngenxa yalokho - enganeni. " Ngivela kimi ukuthi le formula isho hhayi kuphela ezimweni ezikhethekile nezisezinhlekelele zokuphila, kuyinto nsuku zonke futhi ayidingi "isiphithiphithi".
Futhi amaphupho akho? Izibonelo zamaphupho akho Thumela ngeposi: [email protected]. Indlela, amaphupho kulula kakhulu ukuwaveza uma encwadini eya kumhleli obaluleke kakhulu uzobhalela izimo zokuphila ezandulelayo, kepha okubaluleke - imizwa ngesikhathi sokuvuka Kuleli phupho.
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin