Ngisho nowesifazane ophumelele kakhulu futhi ozethembayo angabhekana nomuntu ozoba nazo ngazo zonke izindlela ukumcindezela intando yakhe futhi exoxa. Lapho umfazi enomanalisela umuntu onjalo, umlingani onamandla obhubhisa ubuntu bakhe, okugcina kungenza owesifazane ancike endodeni enobuthi. Siqoqe imishwana yamadoda "eBelling", oseduze kwakho umuntu ozama ukwehlisa intando yakho ngokucindezela. Uke wezwa efanayo ebuhlotsheni bakho?
"Ngingumbhangqwana ophambili, ngakho-ke uhlala ezindimeni zesibili"
Cishe indlela ethandwa kakhulu yokugomela kusuka kunoma yimuphi umuntu ongaqinisekile - "Donsela phansi," njengoba ebona, owesifazane ophumelelayo. Lolu hlobo lwamadoda luvame ukutholakala, ngakho-ke kulula kakhulu ukungena kubo maqondana nabo. Impumelelo yowesifazane wayo uqobo ishaya ngendlela emangalisayo ngokuziqhenya, okuyindoda ebuthakathaka ayinakubekezelela. Umphumela wobuhlobo obunjalo, njengomthetho, uba yigebe, ngoba akubona bonke abesifazane abazethembayo abakulungele ukukhuthazelela isimo sengqondo esinjalo ekhelini lakhe.
"Owesifazane wangempela akaziphathi kanjena"
Enye indlela yokuletha umlingani ophumelele ngokwengeziwe ukumemezela ukuthi akuyona indawo ebhizinisini. Njengomthetho, indoda iqala ukuletha isibonelo sabangane bayo noma abangane babangane bayo, ngombono wayo, bahlanganyela ezindabeni zabesifazane ezijwayelekile, imvamisa sikhuluma ngokuphathwa komnotho. Akunandaba ukuthi uzama kanjani 'ukufundisa owesimame ngendlela eyiyo, "kaningi kakhulu, izitatimende ziba yinto etholwayo yokugcina ngaphambi kwegebe.
Ungavumeli ukuncishiswa
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"Ungazami ukuqonda, awuyena umuntu"
Isisho esingathandeki kakhulu ukuthi cishe wonke amadoda azama ukuzibeka ezitebhisini eziningana ngenhla komngane wazo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, noma yimuphi umfazi ophumelelayo ezwa okungenani kangako endodeni yakhe kuphela, kodwa futhi nasemibuthanweni efanele. Njengoba kungadabuki, kepha abesifazane abafuna ukufeza impumelelo ebhizinisini kufanele bafakazele ukuthi indlela yabo yokusebenza ayisahlukile kwabesilisa.
"Ngeke ukwazi"
Imvamisa ungezwa umusho ovela kumuntu obona kowesifazane wakhe hhayi i-cathedron, kodwa imbangi, uma yena ngokwakhe abeka imigomo yokuvelela. Emazwini akhe akukho mbono, ngoba kudingeka akwenze ulahlekelwe ukholo ezinsukwini zami, shiya imizamo yokufeza lokho oyifunayo, bese kuba ithuba lakhe lokufuna okwakhe. Ungavumeli muntu, ngisho nendoda yakho ethandekayo isgxeka obala izifiso zakho.