Ngo-Okthoba 9, 2018 weza inyanga entsha yenyanga noma inyanga entsha. Ngalesi sikhathi, kuhle ukuthatha ipensela ezandleni zepensela futhi uhlaziye okwenzeke kuwe ngenyanga edlule, kanye nokwenza uhlelo lwesenzo ngezinsuku ezingamashumi amathathu ezizayo.
Uma wenza lokhu ngokufika kwenyanga entsha, ngeke ukhohlwe ngezinto ozifezile, ngoba ngikhohliwe - kusho ukuvezwa, futhi uthole isisusa esibi sezenzo ezengeziwe.
Kepha uhlu ngokwalo akuwona umsebenzi ophambili. Ngemuva kokuthi uchaze uhlelo lwesenzo ngenyanga ezayo, fundani ngokucophelela yonke into nesibonakaliso, owenzayo - "wena", "ngenxa yendoda", "ngenxa yomphathi". ..
Phakathi kwalokho oklenukile, ngikuncenga ukuthi ufune lokho ngenyanga ezayo uhlela ukuzenzela wena. Ukuze kucacelwe, ungahumushela kumaphesenti. Iqiniso ngukuthi imizamo ebekelwe yona ezimweni eziningi yimbangela yokudumazeka okuzayo. Ngitshele kungani.
Inyanga entsha - isikhathi sokwenza uhlelo lwesenzo ngenyanga phambili
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-Yinhloko Kungani ungangenzi okuthile kwabanye - akunakwenzeka. Imicabango yakho ngempilo yomunye umuntu ayisho lutho ngisho ne-akhawunti. Noma kubonakala sengathi uyazi ukuthi kungcono kangakanani, kulula futhi kusheshe ukudlula ngendlela yomunye umuntu, awusenzi, njengoba iBrithani lithi, "Hamba ezicathulweni zakwamanye amazwe."
Okwesibili. Iningi labantu abaphendula "ngezinsizakalo zabo" abalindele ukubonga, kwesinye isikhathi eziphansi, kwesinye isikhathi bayanconywa. Futhi cishe awukaze ulindele ukuthi awuhambelani nalokho okubuyisayo. Yini ekulindele ekugcineni? Kulungile, ukudumazeka.
Okwesithathu. Intshisekelo yezinhloso ezibekwe ngaphandle, inezinkomba eziningi njenge-analgin. Siphatha izimpawu ezimbalwa, futhi izimo eziseceleni okungenzeka ngeke zifunwa.
Okwesine. Ukwenza noma yini "hhayi eyakho", ngokuqinisekile uzokwehlisa. Kungumbuzo wesikhathi. Kuyasiza futhi ukuthi ungahamba kanjani ekutholeni amasayizi angama-45 ngobude obungamasentimitha angama-27.
Cabanga, kufanelekile umdlalo wekhandlela? Kungahle kube yilapho amacala onikezele amaphesenti angama-20- 40-80 esikhathi sakho esiyigugu, kulowo ukuphela kocingo aphenduke ngokungashintshi.
Ngeke ngikwenze uzenzele ugcwalise "thina ngokwethu" lonke uhlu, yize, beka isandla sakho enhliziyweni, kungaba yisixazululo esisebenzayo kakhulu.
Futhi mayelana nokuthi ungagxila kanjani ezifisweni zakho, funda lapha.