Mhlawumbe, ngamunye wethu wayenentombi, eyahlanya ngokuthi "kubi", futhi mhlawumbe bekunguwe? Amadoda enza njengoba afuna, ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuheha okwengeziwe, noma kunjalo, ngasikhathi sinye, umuntu onjalo angaba yingozi nje lapho uthatha isinqumo sokuqhubekela ebudlelwaneni obuseduze kakhulu. Unganquma kanjani ukuthi hlobo luni lwebhizinisi lombhede olungcono lokungabi nalo? Sizamile ukuthola.
Indoda ayithathwa njengemithetho
Ngomhlangano wokuqala, futhi umhlangano wesibili, owesilisa owenza konke njengoba nje efuna kuye angahle abonakale emnandi kakhulu: akufanele abonise lutho kuye uma othile engakubheki noma acashe khona esitolo. Kodwa-ke, insimu yegumbi lokulala yindawo lapho kuneminye imithetho. Cabanga nje ukuthi uma ungathandi okuthile noma kuzolimaza okuthile, indoda enjalo ngeke inake amazwi akho ngokuqhubeka nezenzo zayo.
Ukwehluleka kwakhe akunandaba
Yebo, indoda ephikelela ifinyelela indawo yakho, ihlala idonsela ukunaka, kepha ngasikhathi sinye, lokho kuziphatha kungakhuluma ngokuthambekela kobudlova - lapho uhlala wedwa, konke kungaphela kahle, konke kungaphela kahle. Uyakudinga?
I-egoist yesilisa ngeke icabange ngemizwa yakho
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Kuletha ubuhlungu bakho
Awukavamiswa egumbini elilodwa lokulala, kepha vele uyazi ukuthi isithandwa sakho esingahle sicabange ngezinhloso ezibucayi nezinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zokuthobeka embhedeni. Ochwepheshe bezengqondo bayazethemba, uma owesilisa enokuhlupheka okuwile, kungakhuluma nge-pathology engeke iguqulwe. Qaphela.
Akathandi ukuba phakathi kwenkampani
Vele, akuwona wonke umuntu okhetha ubumfihlo yi-maniac engahle, ngokwezengqondo, okunjalo "izimpisi ezinesizungu" ezivame ukuba zibe yimibhede embhedeni, ezingakhathaleli imizwa yabesifazane babo, okuyiyo kungaholela emiphumeleni yokukhalela.