Ungahle ube nobuhlobo obumangalisayo, nokho ukuba embhedeni, izinkanuko zothando zishintsha kakhulu. Kukhona ukungalingani kwezocansi. Izizathu zokungaqhathaniswa zingahluka ngokuphelele, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zabela izinto zengqondo, ngokomzimba kanye nokuziphatha esizokhuluma ngazo, futhi sizame ukuthola izindlela zokuxazulula inkinga.
Ngabe ukungalingani kwezocansi kubonakala kanjani?
Noma yiziphi izinhlangothi ze-libido ezivimbela impilo ejwayelekile yocansi zingabangelwa ukungahambelani nocansi. Kungavezwa lapho kungekho khona i-orgasm, ukuheha okubuthaka noma ukwexeka kwenqubo uqobo. Imvamisa inkinga ixazululwa yinkulumo elula yemiphefumulo enengxenye yayo yesibili, noma kunjalo, kunezimo lapho kudingeka ukungenelela kochwepheshe.
Yiziphi izinto ezivimbela ukuhamba okujwayelekile kwempilo esondele?
Imfundo
Abantu abaningi abavele bahlala abantu abadala abasaphila ngesinkwa sombono wabazali. Ukukhuliswa okuqinile kakhulu, okungazange kunikezele engxoxweni yempilo yomuntu obuseduze, kuholela ekubuthakathaka kweLibido nokulawulwa okuqhubekayo kwezifiso zalo.
Zizwe ukhululekile ukufuna usizo kudokotela wezengqondo
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Umehluko we-Freciaments
Lokhu kungenzeka zombili ekuqaleni kobudlelwano nangemva kwesikhathi esithile ukuzoqeqesha. Futhi uma ngemuva kocansi kokuqala, abalingani bayaqonda ukuthi abanakufanelana nje, bese beshintsha umugqa wokuphila nomlingani ojwayelekile ngeke abe lula. Imizwa inempahla ethakazela, okufanayo kuyasebenza kulokhu kuphambuka.
Ubuvila
Vele, ubudlelwano obuvumelanayo, kufaka phakathi embhedeni, kungumsebenzi onzima. Uma omunye wabalingani engasafisi ukuqhubeka nokusebenza emkhathini othile, igebe lisondele kakhulu.
Ukukhishwa okuhlukahlukene
Akunakwenzeka ukusho okuhlukile kokuphazamiseka komzimba. Kuvele kungenakwenzeka ukuthola indlela eyakho, futhi ukuhambisana ngokobulili akusizi ngalutho ukukhombisa ngokubonisana nochwepheshe omuhle.
Nginganqoba kanjani izinkinga embhedeni?
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthola imbangela, ngemuva kwalokho ungaqhubeka nokuxazulula inkinga. Zizwe ukhululekile ukufuna usizo kudokotela wezengqondo noma udokotela wobungqingili, uma unomuzwa wokuthi akunakwenzeka ukuxazulula inkinga ngemizamo yakho.
Imvamisa, izinkinga zocansi zivela ebusheni, lapho ubungozi bokuthola ulwazi lokuya ocansini olungaphumeleli bukhulu, ngemuva kwalokho umuntu ebheke ecansini angahlanekezela ngokuphelele, kanye nomuntu angathola izinkinga zangempela, njengokungenwa yiLibido nasekunciphisweni yokuthola i-orgasm.
Zama ukuthola ukuyekethisa ngengxenye yakho yesibili, ake sithi umlingani odinga ukuya ocansini nsuku zonke, angahle athole ukuvumelana okungaphansi komoya futhi avume ukusondelana ngokucindezela okwengeziwe. Uma inkinga ilele e-physiology, ngaphandle kochwepheshe kanye nokwelashwa okufanele, akudingekile ukukwenza. Ozakwethu abakhathele nje futhi balahlekelwa yintshisekelo ecansini ngenxa yezimo zangaphandle, kufanele bazame ukuguqula impilo ebukhonzweni ngosizo lwamathoyizi noma ushintsho lwe-banal decimory.