UDkt Science of the University of Calgary Chitter chitter, "Izingane azivuki ngosuku lokuzalwa lwazo lweshumi nantathu ngoSuku Oluhlalayo Lokuvuthwa. Ngisho nezingane ezincane ziyazi ubulili, kepha kuphela ngesimo esihlukile. " Ngempela, inqubo yokuthomba yengane iqala ngokoqobo kusukela ekuzalweni - ngokuthinta isifuba sikamama nokuzimisele ukugqoka ukuhamba. Ngobudala, ubulili buyathola amanye amafomu ngokususelwa ekutholeni kolwazi oluvela kwimvelo esondelene nencwadi ekhethekile. Njengoba esephenduke umzali, kufanele uqonde ukuthi yini okufanele yenziwe futhi okungafanele yenze ukukhulisa ingane ekhanyiselwe futhi engayinkimbinkimbi.
Ukuvuthwa kukaPaul kuqala ngokoqobo kusuka ekuzalweni
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Ukuqala kokuthomba
Masinyane nje emva kokuzalwa, ukwazi kwengane akukavalwa yimithetho yokuziphatha emphakathini, azoba yiyo eminyakeni elandelayo. Odokotela bathi kaninginingi ukuthi isifiso sengane esifundweni somzimba waso asidingi ukubonwa njengokuphambuka ekukhuleni kwayo. Ngaphansi kweminyaka engu-4, izingane ngokwemvelo zithinta izindawo zazo ezisondelene, ngisho nakubantu; isifiso sokuthinta umama webele noma abanye besifazane; Gcina ngokucophelela izidumbu zabanye abantu lapho ingane iwela ezindaweni zomphakathi. Ungatsheli ingane ukuba ifundele yona futhi ibuke abanye - inxeme, uma kungenjalo unqatshelwe ngumzimba wakhe kusukela esemncane. Kungcono ukuphendula imibuzo yemvelo yokuthi kungani izidumbu zabafana namantombazane ziyehluka. Uma ungakwazi ukuchaza ngokwakho, funa usizo ezincwadini - manje kunezincwadi ezinhle impela ngalesi sihloko sezingane zeminyaka ehlukene.
Shiya indawo yangasese
Lapho eneminyaka engu-4-6 ubudala, izingane zibonisa isithakazelo esithe xaxa kubaphathi babo bezocansi, kodwa abakakuqapheli lokho akubiziwe. Ungavumeli ingane ukuba itadishe, kepha chaza ukuthi yini okungafanele yenze lokhu nabantu. Okungcono kakhulu, uma utshela nge-anatomy yokwakheka kwezitho zangasese zowesifazane kanye nowesilisa ngokwesibonelo semidwebo ye-schematic futhi uchaze izisekelo zemfundo yezocansi. Isibonelo, ukuthi angazithinta ngokwakhe, noma abantu abasondelene kakhulu phakathi nezinqubo zenhlanzeko nodokotela ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa. Yebo, kuyisihloko esinzima, kepha ukuvala amehlo akho nethemba ngesimangaliso. Ngokusho kukabani, cishe ama-20% amantombazane no-5-10% wabafana bangaphansi kodlame ebuntwaneni. Kungcono, uma udlula kuwe futhi uchaze imithetho yokuphepha yezingane.
Uma kungenjalo ukulungele ukukhuluma ngokwakho, nikeza ukufundela le ncwadi kanye nengane
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Funda ukukhuluma kahle
Ukuchaza imibuzo yokushicilela, zama ukukhuluma ngokwemvelo futhi ungakhombisi imizwa ekhanyayo. Hleka imibuzo yengane noma ukuhlekisa ngesihloko sokuvuthwa - hhayi umsebenzi omuhle kakhulu. Lapho eneminyaka engu-7-16, izingane sezivele zinesifiso esithe xaxa esihlokweni sokuthomba, okuboniswa njengemidlalo ngesihloko socansi - ojwayelene nawo wonke umuntu "nezinye. Lapho eneminyaka engu-13-16, izingane ziqala ukukhombisa ngokusobala intshisekelo kwabobulili obuhlukile. Ungesabi ukuqala ukukhuluma nengane esemncane yokuthi kungani abantu beya ocansini, ukuthi bangavimba kanjani ukukhulelwa okungafuneki nokuthi yiziphi izimiso okufanele ziqondiswe ekuqaleni kwempilo yezocansi. Ngokusho kweNational Ingane Ehlukumezekile Ukuxineka kwezentengiselwano, enghlolweni yakamuva yentsha yaseMelika, izingane ezingama-9 kwezingu-10 zathi kuzoba lula ukubahlehlisa umsebenzi wezocansi futhi zivikele ukukhulelwa okungafuneki uma "ngokukhululekile nangokwethembeka zikhuluma" nabazali bazo kulezi zihloko.
Ingabe unayo imfundo yezocansi nengane yakho ngezincwadi nasezingxoxweni zomuntu siqu? Bhala umbono wakho kumazwana angezansi.