Vele, isinqumo sokuba ngumama kufanele simiswe futhi sizithambekele. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ingane ayigcini nje ngokuthi injabulo engenamkhawulo, ukuhleka kanye nabazali abanelisekile, imfundo - umsebenzi onzima hhayi wonke umuntu okonakala, kepha akusho lutho ukuthi injabulo yokumamatheka idinga ukushiywa. Sizotshela ngezizathu ezintathu ezenzelwe ukukukhuthaza ukuthi uhlele ukwanda komndeni.
Ungaphinde uphile isikhathi sobuntwana
Ukuvela endlini yengane kuzophenduka ngokuphelele indlela yakho nokubukwa komhlaba. Ungathola ngokuphelele "ngokusemthethweni" ukuwela emhlabeni wobumnandi bezingane ababengatholakali kuwe selokhu kwaguqulwa esikoleni esiphakeme. Kanye nengane, uzokwazi ukuthola amakhono angazange asolwe ngaphambili, ukubamba iqhaza emicimbini yokudala noma ukumane uchithe isikhathi nengane nabangane bakhe lapho omama abavela khona. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungahle ukwazi ukucabanga kabusha ngesimo sakho sengqondo kubazali, uma ngaphambilini wake waba nezinkinga ekuqondeni. Kungani ungazami?
Ungaphila kabusha isikhathi sobuntwana
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Funda ukwazisa ngokwakho
Ngisho nangaphambi kwesikhashana ingane izovela empilweni yakho, uzobonakala ukuthi unganciphisa izintaba - ube nesikhathi sokuba nayo yonke indawo. Kodwa-ke, kungukuthi kufanelekile kuphela ekukhathazekeni ngengane, njengoba uqala ukuqonda ukuthi izinsizakusebenza zomzimba azinamkhawulo, futhi ukushiswa kungokoqobo impela. Uzofunda ukusabalalisa umthwalo, ucele usizo lapho kudingeka khona futhi, ekugcineni, lalela izidingo zomzimba wakho, uma zingakwenzanga lokhu ngaphambili.
Sonke asikahle
Vele, noma yimuphi umama afuna ukuba yinto engcono kakhulu enganeni yakhe, eqinisweni, owesifazane uvame ukudumazeka, kodwa kulo mzuzu ongathandeki kukhona okuphilayo okukhulu - uyabona ukuthi akukho okulungile, kungenzeka funa. Ukuthatha lokho ongakwazi ukukukhokhela nje ukuze uphile futhi ungakhathazeki ngoba ushise iphalishi, futhi indodana yentombi isivele isikwazi ukubopha izintambo, futhi okwakho akukabikho, kube lula kakhulu impilo, okusho ukuthi akusekho okuhlangenwe nakho okwedlulele kanye nokuphelela okungenampilo.