Emadolobheni amakhulu, le fomethi yobudlelwano yamukelwa kaningi kunase-Excback. Isigqi somuzi, ukwakhiwa komsebenzi, olande ngezinsuku nezinsuku zezinhlelo kungathi zivumela "ubudlelwano obukhululekile" futhi zibenze bakhange ngokwengeziwe uma kuqhathaniswa nokudalwa komndeni.
Okwesibili kuthathwa njengengxenye yesisombululo sabantu ababili ngokuhlala ndawonye, ukuzalwa kwezingane nokusekelwa okuhlangene, njengokuthi ukusekelwa kanye nokuncika kwabathandekayo.
Ubudlelwano obumahhala buvumela abantu ukuthi balondoloze inkululeko ephezulu komunye nomunye nokuzimela. Kwathi ngokwakhe ukulahla imali yethu, ahlanganyele ekuzilisheni kwabo, aphazanyiselwe ukulahla isikhathi. Izinzuzo ezivela kulolu hlobo lwesisindo sobudlelwano. Kwenzeka ukuthi ngempela imibhangqwana iphile ngempela eminyakeni edlule, bangabangane abahle, abangane bezokuvakasha, ukuphumula, ukuzijabulisa, nokuzijabulisa, nokuzilibazisa, ukuhlala ndawonye, nasemndenini womunye nokwehlukana.
Kepha ubudlelwane obunjalo banamatshe abo ngaphansi kwamanzi. Izibalo zithi ngababili abayi-10, obudlelwano bakabani abangabhalisiwe, ama-akhawunti amacala ayi-6-7 woshintsho, engaphezulu kwengxenye. Emshadweni leliphesenti liyancishiswa: kwabalingani abangu-10 ngababili abalingani abangu-10 kuphela ngababili.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubudlelwane obunjalo buphela ngesifiso somunye wabalingani ukudala umndeni, ubelethe izingane. Engxenyeni ezinzile futhi ezihlala isikhathi eside, eqinisweni, lobu budlelwano bakhelwe esele esele ebuntwini babantu nomunye. Bobabili abalingani ngokusobala basungula umngcele ekuthuthukiseni ubudlelwano babo (iningi kakhulu lenzeka ngokungazi), okungahambi. Lapho uzama omunye wabo, lokhu kuwumthetho oyimfihlo ozokwephula, ubudlelwano bayeka ukuba mnandi futhi uyanelisa.
I-Psychology Yomndeni Ithi isifiso sokwenza umndeni akusona isitembu sesiko kanye nedatha yomlando. Ngaphakathi komndeni onemingcele ehlotshiswe ngokusobala, ilungu ngalinye lalo mndeni lingalisa izidingo zalo eziyisisekelo: ukuthembeka, uthando, ukululama, ukululama, njll lokhu kungenxa yokuthi umndeni ubonwa njengesakhiwo esingavuthiwe lapho Abazali / abalingani bamukele isinqumo esizisekele ukuba ndawonye futhi bedlula izingxabano ezibalulekile nezibhamu zihambisana.
Ebudlelwaneni obukhululekile, le ngxenye eyisisekelo ingekho. Ngisho nobudlelwano bokuthembela kunezinto eziningi "ezingenakwenzeka": Ukungena ngesikhathi noma ezindlini, ukugcizelela ukuzalwa kwezingane, umona noma ukufunwa kakhulu, ukwakha amasu ngekusasa elikude. Konke lokhu kuthinta kakhulu umuzwa wokuthembela nokuphepha. Eqinisweni, imibhangqwana ephila kulolu hlobo lobuhlobo ihlala ixwayisa: Kungazelelwe konke kuzophela manje?
Imvamisa, ubudlelwane obunjalo buphela kulowo omunye wobalingani akhula ekwakhiweni komndeni futhi athola efaneleka kakhulu kulo muntu.
Kodwa-ke, ubudlelwano obumahhala, uma ungazibhengezi isikhathi eside, njengoba ukuhlafuna okudala, kuyisigaba esisebenzayo kubantu abaningi. Ngenxa yale fomethi yobudlelwano, ungafunda ukuhlonipha imingcele yomuntu siqu yomunye, ukumemezela ngezifiso nezinhloso zethu, uthuthukise uhlangothi eceleni, zama amandla abo futhi asebenzise izifiso zawo.
Yize konke lokhu kungenzeka empilweni yomndeni, ikakhulukazi uma ususa inganekwane ephathelene nenqubo, impilo kanye nokuxhomekeka okuminyene kwabalingani abavela komunye nomunye. Kepha ukukhetha kuhlala kungokwakho!
UMaria Dyachkova (Zemskova), udokotela wezengqondo, udokotela wokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholela ekukhuleni komuntu siqu kwe-Mary Khazin Training Center