Kwenzeka ukuthi abesifazane bangene kuncike endodeni - ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukene. Ngenxa yokwesaba kanye nemizwa yakho, baqala ukukhawulela noma bazame ukulawula isinyathelo ngasinye sozakwethu. Ukubambisana okunjalo kuhlaselwe njalo ukuhlupheka noma ukwehluleka. Inhlangano ejabule ngempela futhi evumelanayo isuselwa kwinkululeko nokuhloniphana. Kodwa-ke, ngenkathi siphila ngaphansi kwethonya lemizwa ephazamisayo okuyingozi, kunzima ukukhuluma ngokuthembana nokusekelwa okuhambisanayo. Isinyathelo sokuqala esibheke komunye nomunye futhi sincibilikisa intukuthelo, umhawu nomona kuzoba ukuqonda kokungabi nazi. Kusasa kungenzeka kungabi njalo. Uma ubheka noma yisiphi isimo, eqaphela ukuthi impilo yomuntu iyigugu futhi ibuthaka, izingxabano nezingxabano ziyachithwa ngokwazo. Futhi uqala kanzima ukwazisa izikhathi ezichithwe ndawonye. Elinye ikhambi elilungile lokuphazamisa imizwa liyimikhakha ehlangene, sibonga lapho lo mbhangqwana uqongelela khona okujabulisayo nokuhlangenwe nakho okuhle. Enye yemicikilisho engiyithandayo yomndeni ukubingelela kwasekuseni komhlaba! Njalo ekuseni, evula amehlo akhe, mina nomyeni wami samukela umhlaba. Lokhu kungenziwa ngendlela othanda ngayo, okubaluleke - kusuka enhliziyweni. Uhlobo lwethu lokubingelela: "Ukuthula, sawubona, ngiyajabula ngawe!". Lapho sivuka, sibingelela umhlaba, ukumamatheka, - konke sekuqala ukudlala ngemibala ekhanyayo! Futhi noma ngabe yisiphi isimo, ukukhathala, noma ukudabuka, ukubingelela komhlaba kuhambisana nakho konke. Sithole lokhu kubingelela lapho ngifunda incwadi ethi "umfana nengelosi" ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kokuqala. Angizange ngihlangabezane nencwadi enamandla yezingane! Kule ncwadi, ingelosi yeza emfana njalo kusihlwa futhi yamfundisa ukuthi aphile kanjani ngenhliziyo evulekile, yafundisa isimilo nomusa. Futhi ngolunye usuku ingelosi yamtshela ukuthi wamukele kanjani umhlaba lapho uvuka ekuseni. Ngakhumbula lesi siko elihle, futhi mina nomyeni wami sawethula ezimpilweni zethu. Ungahle ube nokwehluka kwakho, zama ukukhuluma ngokweqiniso futhi uzwe injabulo ngenhliziyo yami yonke.
Amandla nobuthakathaka: ubuciko ngokwakho
Impilo yowesifazane wanamuhla i-carousel ekhanyayo yemicimbi, imihlangano kanye nemibono! Kepha imvamisa abesifazane bathatha imisebenzi eminingi kanye nomsebenzi omningi, emndenini nasebhizinisini, okuthi, ngaphandle kokuqaphela, bavutha emisebenzini engenakubalwa ukuze bakhathale kakhulu ngokomzwelo nangokomzimba. Amandla amaningi athatha izingane. Badinga ukunakwa, ukunakekelwa, ukucindezela, kwesinye isikhathi ngisho nangaphezu kwendoda. Owesifazane ngokwakhe ngaphandle kokuqaphela, unciphise kuzo, elahlekelwa yena kanye nezifiso zabo. Ngakho-ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqapha ukulingana kwayo yonke imikhakha yempilo, yizwa amasiginali omzimba, zinike ukuphumula futhi uphumule. Zuzimula ngokwalo ukusho ukuthi "cha" lapho ngingenakufuna ukwenza okuthile, futhi ngivumele ukuba buthakathaka uma amandla eMphungweni. Ungavali ukunakekelwa okwenziwe ekhaya kuphela. Hlasa izibopho nomlingani, bese umethemba, ungazami ukulawula - futhi konke kulungile? Kubambiswano, kubalulekile futhi ukugcina ibhalansi. Le ndoda ibalulekile ukuzwa ngowesifazane oqinile futhi ngasikhathi sinye edinga ukunakekelwa nokuvikelwa kwakhe. Owesifazane ukuzwa ukwesekwa kwesithandwa sakhe, kodwa ngasikhathi sinye akwazi ukumbona: uma, uNkulunkulu wenqabe, kuzokwenzeka okuthile kuwe, uthole usizo kimi ukunikeza izingane kakhulu badinga. Ungazikhawuleli emibonweni yowesifazane obuthakathaka noma oqinile. Iba nguwe! Khumbula ukuthi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uthembeke kuwe nezinto eziseduze kakhulu.
Zithande - qiniseka!
Ngobudlelwano obuvumelanayo, abalingani bahlala bexosha indawo eyinhloko yothando olunempilo. Ngempela, kuphela ngokwamukelwa, umlingiswa, umzimba wakhe, eZwini, zonke, ithuba liyakhula ukuze livule inhliziyo yakhe ngempela, lithande omunye umuntu ngokweqiniso, nazo zonke izici zalo. Ukubona "ukubhekabheka kwakhe" - ukwesaba kwabo, "ukuphendula okungalungile" - amamodeli wakho wokuziphatha kanye nezinqumo zokuhlola. Okulula futhi okudingekayo esingakwenzela ukubambisana okuhle ukujabulisa wena. Ukuxhaswa okuthembeke kakhulu kungokwako njengocezu lwendalo yomlingo. Ngithanda wena uqobo ukhombisa izingane zakho. Kungabonakala kumnandi, kepha ukuzithanda, unikeza uthando oluthe xaxa ngaphandle. Uyeka ukucasula kuyo yonke into encane. Ukunakekela izingane akusekho kudinga amabutho amaningi omzimba nangokomzwelo. Unelisekile ngokwakho, okusho ukuthi banelisekile kuwo wonke umuntu nxazonke.
Kunemikhuba eminingi ewusizo yokusiza ukuthuthukisa uthando. Enye yezintandokazi zami, okubuye kube nomthelela ekuvezeni ubuntu besifazane kanye nezocansi, kuyizincomo phambi kwesibuko nokuzenzela ukuzivocavoca. Ngokuzenzela ukuzilibazisa, sizifunda, sibonisa ukunakekela umzimba wakho owuthandayo, uveze ubuso obusha be-sensialtity. Esikhunjeni esomile, faka uwoyela ngongqimba oluminyene. I-Sesame - iza ngesizini ebandayo, inezindawo zokufudumeza. Ukhukhunathi - efudumele, kuyaphola. Into esemqoka ukujabulela inqubo. Dlulisa konke ukunaka emzimbeni, uzizwe njengezandla zakho udlula uthando nokunakekelwa. U-massage nude phambi kwesibuko. Vula umculo wakho owuthandayo, engeza i-droplet ye-aromasla yakho oyithandayo. Jabulela ubuhle bomzimba wakho, usho izincomo. Kwenze ngonembeza nangengqondo. Zama ukungena kwinqubo ngokuphelele, njengokungathi ngaphandle kwalesi siko kukhona okunye ... bese ugeza okushisayo. Musa ukuchitha izinsalela zamafutha ngejeli ngomphefumulo, kungcono ukusonga ithawula. Amafutha amunwa futhi amabala ngeke ahlale ezingutsheni.