Abazali baba ngegunya lengane kusukela ngesikhathi sokuzalwa. Babelana ngolwazi lwabo hhayi kuphela nge-inciasis yabo, kodwa izingane zikuthola ngenjabulo kuyo yonke imikhakha yokuphila - kusuka kumuntu uqobo. Isifundo seNew York Times Study sikhombise ukuthi amadodana avame ukuwukhetha lo msebenzi kababa nezikhathi ezi-2 kaningi - umsebenzi kamama kunabo bonke abanye abantu abathanda indlela yabo. Amadodakazi anelungiswe kakhudlwana - izikhathi eziyi-1,8 zivame ukukhetha umsebenzi kamama nezikhathi eziyi-1,7 - umsebenzi kaYise. Nginqume ukuhlaziya i-psychology yalesi sinqumo futhi ngisize isizukulwane esincanyana futhi nabazali babo benze isinqumo esifanele.
Ungacindezeli ingane
"Uma sikhuluma ngendlela abazali abaxhumana ngayo nezingane ngomsebenzi kanye nokuqondiswa kwekhono, khona-ke kuphela okudingeka ulalele izingane. Bayeke baye kwimibuthano, bakhethe abakuthandayo. Uma ingane iphonsa amakilasi, khona-ke akuyona nje yena. Ngasikhathi esithile, usazothola ukuthi yini ethakazelisa nokuthi yini azobe elungele ukuthuthuka njengochwepheshe, "osomabhizinisi bakholelwa futhi umbhali wephrojekthi ka-Anna Sinalev's Career. Izazi zezengqondo zinamathela emibonweni efanayo, zikholelwa ukuthi kusukela ebuntwaneni ukufundisa enganeni ngentshiseko ukuthola isipiliyoni esisha nokuntuleka kokwesaba amaphutha. Ingane yakho akufanele ibekezelele bese iya emakilasini angawathandi. Ukuthobeka nokuphikelela ngesikhathi esingenamsebenzi - kude namakhono amahle kakhulu kumholi wesikhathi esizayo.
Isazi sesazi.
Isithombe: U-Anna Sinaleva
Yabelana ngesipiliyoni sakho
Uma ubona ingane phakathi komsebenzi wakho, ungaphuli amaphupho akhe ngamazwi wokuthi usebenza kanzima kangakanani. Kunoma yimuphi umsebenzi kukhona amathuba futhi udidekile, ngakho-ke kuzoba lula ngaye ukuhlala ekhaya kusofa. Kungcono ukuvumelana nomhlahlandlela osontweni osontwa kwengane enkampanini yakho: Mkhombise indawo yakho yokusebenza bese udala umbuthano wemisebenzi yangempela, landela osebenza nabo kusuka eminyangweni efanayo. Uma ukukhuluma kwakho sekuvele kuneminyaka eyi-15-16 ubudala, kungahlelwa nge-internship yesikhashana - Prakthiza ekugcineni umqinisekisile ngesifiso sokuya ezinyathelweni zakho noma wenqabe unomphela lo mbono. Ngendlela efanayo, ngesicelo sengane, ungadlulisela i-Internship enkampanini kaPapa noma izihlobo eziseduzane nabangane bomndeni. Ababanzi kuzoba nohlu lokukhetha, okuwumbono ongeziwe wobungcweti obuhlukahlukene izinyosi futhi kuzoba lula ukukhetha inguqulo yokugcina.
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Khohlwa ngamaphupho akho
Ingane akuyona iphrojekthi yakho, kepha umuntu ohlukile okufanele akhe impilo yakhe. Imicabango yakho yobuntwana ngomsebenzi we-Skater Skater noma iphupho elingabonakali lokuthunyelwe kommeli enkampanini ephezulu yile ngqo, hhayi amacebo wengane. Isazi somsebenzi siguqukela nathi ngombono: "Ngikholwa ukuthi izingane kufanele zikhethe lokho abazithandayo, futhi akunakuba nabazali abafanele abazenzenga umsebenzi wabo noma imibono yabo. Ngokwemvelo, kunezimo lapho, ake sithi, abazali noma ogogo kwakungudokotela futhi ingane izibona kulokhu. Yebo, khona-ke le yinto eyodwa. Kepha ngeshwa, ngeshwa, futhi ukuze abazali babeke amaphupho abo angenakuqhathaniswa. Nginesibonelo esinjalo, njengoba abazali bentombazane bebekwa ukuthi babe ngumculi we-opera, lapho engafuni ngokuphelele, futhi kamuva waba nenguquko lapho eqonda khona ukuthi wayesechithe amandla amaningi futhi akafuni ukwenza i ibhizinisi elingavunyelwe. Eqinisweni, kwavela ukuthi kwakuyisifiso ebusheni bakamama wakhe. "