Kubonakala sengathi izinkinga zingase zivele ngokufuna umbhangqwana namuhla, lapho kunezicelo eziningi nezinsizakalo zokuqomisana, lapho izigidi zabantu abanesizungu ezifanayo bazama ukuthola umlingani? Kepha inkinga ayinyamalali noma kuphi: Usachitha kuphela kusihlwa. Siyini isizathu? Sizamile ukuthola.
Awuzihloniphi
Ukufeza inhlonipho kusukela ohlangothini, okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukuthi uqale ukuzihlonipha. Emndenini uzokwakha, uzothumela imingcele futhi uvikele izintshisekelo zakho. Uma ukuzithemba kwakho kungu-zero, uzibeka engcupheni ubudlelwane obuyingozi, obunobuthi, lapho umlingani wakho ezobe evelele khona. Isimo sakho esihle uzosithatha njengomuzwa, ngakho-ke umbono wakho awusoze wabhekwa ngenkathi ungenasifiso sokuzivikela.
Ebudlelwaneni akukho ndawo ye-egoism
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Unezigaba kakhulu
Uma ujwayele ukuhlukanisa umhlaba ngombala omnyama nomhlophe, ulindele ukuthi umlingani wakho ajabule nawe, akufanele. Njengomthetho, owesimame, njengendoda, kukhona umuntu othile okufanele akwenze ujabule, kepha iqiniso ukuthi injabulo yangempela iyakwazi ukunikela nomuntu oseceleni kwakho, kepha uyakwenza akuboni njengezikhathi zesibili. Zama ngokucophelela ukutadisha okukuzungezile: Makungabi "nenkosana" emaphusheni akho lapho, kodwa ngokuqinisekile ngeke kube nongenandaba nawe, indoda efanelekayo.
Ufaka umuntu
Uma kuphakama izinkinga ngombhangqwana, njengomthetho, iwayini lilele kokubili, kepha kunzima kithina ukubona ukungaboni kwalo, yingakho ingcindezi kumlingani iqala lapho leyo ndlela ingahle ithande. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ngeke sikwazi ukulawula futhi silungise umuntu omdala, kuphela uma kungeyena thina. Umphumela wengcindezi yaphakade imvamisa igebe.
Ugxila kuwe kuphela
Ngobudlelwano obuvumelanayo ayikho indawo ye-egoism, abaningi bakhohlwa ngayo. Umkhuba wokulalela kuphela izifiso zakhe, unganaki umbono nezidingo zengxenye yesibili - indlela eqondile yokuqhamuka nezinsuku ezinesizungu nobusuku obunesizungu. Funda ukunaka umuntu ochitha isikhathi esiningi eduze kwakho.