U-Elena Kushnirenko - Ummeli Wezwe lonke. Wabamba iqhaza ezingxoxweni zokuhlangana kweRussia e-WTO, wasebenza e-UN, manje ezikhathazayo kwenye yezinhlangano zamazwe aphesheya, ufundisa uMgimo.
"Ukuhlaziywa, ukuthuthukiswa kwezivumelwano, ukuxoxisana, ukufunda izinkulumo - konke lokhu kungukuthi" okwami "," kusho u-Elena. "Kepha ngolunye usuku, ukuphela kwangiyisa esikhungweni seshashalazi." USchukina, lapho ngathola khona imfundo eyengeziwe ngesiyalo esithi "Ikhono Lokukhuluma". Ku- "Pike" Kwakunabafundisi abamangalisayo, umkhathi, kwakuyinto ehlukile ezweni elihlukile: Ngabona engifundazweni ukuthi baba "abanye abantu" ngemuva kokufunda amavesi afundwayo, amavesi okufunda, ukuthuthukiswa kwenkulumo .. . Futhi bengifuna mina, ukuze wonke umuntu abe nethuba lokufunda ukukhuluma kahle, zama kwezinye izindima, ukudalula amathuba abo okudala - ngakho-ke kwavela umhlangano wokudala "oqondayo".
"Okokuqala, ngizoxoxa indaba embi, eyayenza umbono ongafinyeleleki kimi. Ngakho-ke, omunye umngani wami uyisimangaliso esinempilo, esihlakaniphile, esikhangayo esinamehlo aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, obizwa ngokuthi "umuntu ophilayo weminyaka," wasebenza kwinkampani yamakhompyutha. Imisebenzi yomngani wami - izoyibiza ngokuthi uStanislav - yehle ukwenza izinhlelo zekhompyutha zikhuphuke futhi kwesinye isikhathi zicebisa abasebenzisi. Ngesinye isikhathi, ikhanda lacela uStanislav ukuthi aye emkhakheni we-chamomeliles yasensimini futhi achithe umhlangano wababelwa ama-accountants amaningana. "Okuhle, akunankinga," kuphendula uStenanislald aphendula futhi, "kuphendula uStenanislald aphendula futhi," kuphendula uStenanislald aphendula wathi: "Akunankinga. Ukucula iculo, kufika "emkhakheni wamakhaza", kungena ehholo futhi kubona ukuthi awekho amantombazane amahle ambalwa, kodwa indoda embalwa yabesifazane abangu-10. Wethukile, washeshe wafunwa "ekhaya, kunina," kodwa kwakungenzeki ukubalekela ngokushesha, kepha ukuphela kwento ayiveze ngaleso sikhathi - lesi isicelo sokuthi "uxolo, wena Ungakwazi ... imizuzu emihlanu ... ukulungiselela ". Wasuka ehholo, waya endlini yangasese, wazibona ngokwakhe: "USanislav, Well, ungumuntu, ungakwazi, ngeke utshele labesifazane ukuthi bangayisebenzisa kanjani ikhompyutha." Kubuyile, ngabheka amehlo abesifazane, ebele ukukhuluma nendoda, kwaba kubi kakhulu, wayengeke akwazi ngisho nokukhumbula, futhi ngani, afike kuye nakanjani, izandla zazothuthumela wanyamalala. Wacela ukumnika eminye imizuzu emihlanu "ukubhema." Abesifazane ngokusobala baqonda ukukhathala kwesimo, kwavuma ngokuthile. UStanislav waphuma ehholo, wahlala phansi emgwaqweni omkhulu emgwaqweni omkhulu, waqala ukuzincenga: "Masihambe, siye kubo, ngitshele. Isigamu nje sehora - futhi ukhululekile. " Ngiyaxolisa, ngiya endlini yangasese. Eseqoqe yonke intando ngenqindi, izinyathelo ezibukhali, ezinqumayo zabuyela ehholo, ngaphandle kokuphakamisa iso emphakathini, zabeka emaphepheni, okwathina kuphela ayenamehlo, waqala ukufukula: " Sawubona, ngijabule kakhulu ngokuthi ... ", kodwa nangu wahamba ngezinyawo kamuva kwamehlo akhe, wabona ukuthi wayengeke esakwazi ukuwudlwengula ngokwakhe, wabamba isikhwama sakhe futhi waphelelwa yisikhwama sakhe.
Kwakukade kwenzeka kanjani isiphetho sikaStanislav (esingakashadi) - ngizokutshela ngokuzayo, futhi manje ngizokusho nje ukuthi ngemuva kokuthi "i-furora ekhiqizwayo", waya ezifundweni zobuciko.
Ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi ngamunye wethu angakhumbula udaba olufanayo empilweni yakho. Ngakho-ke, ungakunqoba kanjani ukwesaba inkulumo yeningi, noma ngabe kuwukusebenza ngaphambi kwezithameli eziningi noma ingxoxo nomuntu ongumqondisi "owuthandayo"? Kuthiwani uma unomusha ongokoqobo "umzuzu" ngaphambi kokungena "ekheji ngehlosi"?
Khumbula okwenzeka kithi lapho sesaba okuthile? Silwa nokwesaba, wonke umzimba uvaliwe, sihamba nobunzima, "eZobu Profum Smofum" - Siphefumula ngejubane elikhulu, sishintsha ijubane lenkulumo, sishintsha ngokwethu, asinaso emphakathini.
Ngizonikeza izibonelo ezimbalwa zokuzivocavoca ezisebenzisa abantu ngobungcweti bomphakathi ukuze banciphise ukwesaba, injabulo.
Into yokuqala okufanele yenziwe ukususa iziqeshana zomzimba, zizwe umzimba wakho. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukwenza ukuzivocavoca okuningana. Kubukeka sengathi ngokungenangqondo, isethulo sami sokukwenza ngemizuzu emihlanu / umqondisi obizwa ngokuthi sibuze ukuthi sihambe, hlobo luni lokushaja esingakhuluma ngalo? Kepha asikhulumi ngokushaja ekuseni, kepha mayelana nokususwa kwe-clamp cork, ukususwa komphumela okhubazayo wenjabulo, okungasivumeli ukuba siphefumule, ingabe ukunyakaza, akuvumeli ukucabanga nokukhuluma nokukhuluma.
Ngakho-ke, ukuze kususwe i-clamp bomzimba, lahla ukwesaba futhi uthole ukuzethemba, udinga ukuthola indawo lapho uzozithola khona ngaphandle kwamehlo angaphandle, lapho ubungeke uwuphazamise ukugxila kuwe futhi wenze izivivinyo eziningana.
(a) "peschinki". Sukuma, uguqule okokuqala ngezandla, imilenze, ngawo wonke umzimba, kube sengathi ususa umusa.
(b) "Phonsasa ukwesaba." Thela endaweni, kube sengathi ufuna ukunyakazisa konke ukungena ngaphakathi.
(c) "Mill". Ungancoma izandla zakho njenge-windmill, noma, gxuma, ushaye i-peary engacabangi, ngaleyo ndlela "otgonit" kusuka ngokwakho ukwesaba.
(d) "Geza izandla zakho" - ujantshi ngezandla, iminwe - izandla zakho akufanele zibanda, zimanzi.
Ngemuva kwalezi zivivinyo, kufanele uzizwe ufudumele, umzimba kufanele ube "othambile", uphumule.
Ngisanda kubukela isithombe esinjalo: ihholo lekhonsathi kubo. I-Tchaikovsky, ngemuva kwalezi zigcawu kukhona umlingisi odumile osevele evele, mhlawumbe ngamashumi amahlanu, anawo, ngokulandelana, okuhlangenwe nakho okukhulu kwezinkulumo zoMphakathi. Ngakho-ke, lo mlingisi wagxuma, wenza umgodi ngezandla zakhe, washaya i-peary engacabangi. Futhi konke lokhu akwenza ngaphambi kwenkulumo, okwathatha imizuzu emihlanu!
Uma, ngokwesibonelo, asehhovisi futhi awunalo ithuba lokugxuma noma ukugeza izandla zakho, ungahlala esihlalweni, uqonde emuva ngakwesokunxele, bese uchofoza lapho ehlombe kwesokunxele. Futhi izikhathi eziyishumi neziyishumi nanhlanu. Lo msebenzi, njengoba uthisha wami etshela, enze abantu ababambe iqhaza kwithaba bezokwehlisa umoya.
Into yesibili iyadingeka ukuyenza - ukubuyisa umoya wakho. Lapho sikhathazeka, ngokushesha nangokuphefumula ngokweqile, sithuthumela izwi, ngokushesha, sithule futhi sikhuluma ngamandla. Kungenzeka yini ukulalela umuntu onjalo? Hhayi! Sidinga ukuzola umoya wakho. Uma siphefumula futhi siphefumula ngokujulile, sizokwazi ukunciphisa noma siqede ngisho nesimo esishaqisayo.
Nazi izivivinyo ezimbili ezinhle zokuphefumula ezingenziwa ngaphambi kokusebenza:
(a) "ibhola lomoya". I-inhAles ijule esiswini, kube sengathi uyiphola ngokuqinile impova imbali, futhi e-ebongale kancane futhi kahle infletha ibhola le-Air Eminary. Imvamisa lo msebenzi uyaphindwa kasishiyagalombili.
(b) "Ukuphefumula ngesikolo." Ehale, ukuzikhuluma ngokwengqondo ngokwakho: "Kanye, amabili, amathathu, amane," kancane kancane agcwalise isisu ngomoya. Ngokuchithwa kwezihlanu, eziyisithupha, eziyisikhombisa, eziyisishiyagalombili zibambezela ukuphefumula kwazo. Emva kwalokho, ukukhuluma ngokwengqondo: "Kanye, ezimbili, ezintathu, ezine, ezinhlanu, eziyisithupha", kancane kancane zigobela umlomo. Imvamisa lo msebenzi uyaphindwa kasishiyagalombili.
Ngemuva kokwenza lezi zivivinyo, unomzimba wamahhala, izwi lamahhala, uyakwazi ukucabanga nokulawula isimo, usukulungele ukukhuluma / ingxoxo enzima. Uqala inkulumo yakho - futhi uyindlovukazi!