Ezikhathini zamuva nje, uzwa ezinhlangothini zonke: "Nginenkinga yonke", "umyeni wami unenkinga - unengqondo nje," wayesenobuhlakani "," emsebenzini no uzakwabo "njalonjalo.
Nomaphi lapho inhlabathi ivela khona ingxabano, kuseyinkinga edinga ukuxazululwa, futhi kungcono ukugwema. Kuhle - ukuza esimweni esinjalo futhi kuxazulule inkinga ukuze amaqembu womabili anelisekile - ukuthola ukuyekethisa. Ngikutshele ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani.
Imizwelo
Ngabe uyathanda uma umemeza kuwe, ungalaleli, uphazamise futhi ugobe umugqa wakho? Ngicabanga ukuthi umlingani wakho uyakujabulela nalokhu. Ungacabangi ukuthi unamandla, uhlakaniphile, kunjalo. Nqamula imizwa futhi uthathe isimo songxabano esinondida, futhi i-vesati yakho ayiyona isiphukuphuku.
Ukukhala kwengxabano akuxazululwa
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Ingabe kunenkinga?
Uma ubheka ingxabano ngokuzolile, kungahle kube yilapho inkinga ayifanele "amaqanda kwesobunxele". Kwenzeka ukuthi umuntu uqobo uze ashiye endaweni ekhona.
"Uphelile, akangithandi, akabalulekile ubuhlobo bethu, oh, kahle, ngiyakuhlela." Futhi konke lokhu kuvela ekhanda lomyeni wakhe, kunamathele emgaqweni ngenxa yengozi.
Ngokwakhe zakhuphuka nazo, ngokwakhe kukhubeke
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Uye wasungula, ngokwakhe wazenzela inkinga, ngokwakhe wakhungatheka, wahlela ihlazo. Vumelana, kulokhu, ibinzana eliphathelene ne- "Spring Excaperation" liyavela. Cabanga okuncane, okuzolile okwengeziwe futhi okuhle.
Isikhathi sengxoxo
Ngiyethemba uyakhumbula ukuthi kukhona "izikhova" kanye "nokulandisa"? Kuye kokuqala kungcono ukungakhuphuki ngezingxoxo ezingathi sína ekuseni - ngena ngaphansi kwesandla esishisayo. Njengomthetho, "izikhova" engxenyeni yokuqala yosuku ziswayipha isikhathi eside, vuka, ngakho-ke wonke umuntu uyabacasula futhi mubi. Ngokwesibili, akusizi ngalutho ukukhuluma eduze nobusuku. Abanawo amandla okucabanga nokuxazulula okuthile.
Ingxoxo
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Isikhathi esifanele sezingxoxo yihora nesigamu ngemuva kwasemini. I-interlocutor ephelele inomusa. Kuphakathi nosuku lokusebenza, lapho "izikhova" sezivele zijabule, futhi "ama-lark" awakadinwa.
Yebo, uma nje ubona ukuthi umuntu ucasulwa okuthile, khona-ke ukumkhuphukela ngezingxoxo kuleli cala - leli yithuba le-100% lokugijima lingxabano, futhi uyalidinga?
Siyini isizathu?
Sijwayele ukuqonda ukungqubuzana okuqediwe, kepha mhlawumbe kuyadingeka ukuhlaziya imbangela yakhe ukuba iqale? Njengoba usuthole, ngokuzayo lapho ungakwenzi lokho, inset.
Ikhanda linikeze umsebenzi, futhi ucabanga ukuthi akufanele wenze lokhu? Ngokulandelayo bhalisisa ngokucacile izibopho zakho zomsebenzi nabaphathi futhi uvumelana kusengaphambili: Ngizophrinta amadokhumenti, kepha akukho ndaba yendodakazi yakho.
Izingxabano zingaxwayiswa kusengaphambili
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I-Folk Wisdom ifundeka: Ngaphambi kokuthi uye kokubhukuda okuhlangene, uyavumelana ogwini, bese kungekho zingxabano.
Shiya okwedlule esikhathini esedlule
Intukuthelo endala, kwenzeka, khumbula indlela engafanele, futhi siyethula ku-interlocutor. Okwani? Okwedlule akusashintshwa. Kuyadingeka ukuthethelela nokukhohlwa, hhayi ukwengeza ilangabi lempi futhi. Ukuthi iphutha lakudala lizoholela ezinkingeni ngokuzayo - asikwazi ukubikezela, ngakho-ke alikho iphuzu ekukhathazekeni nalokhu.
Phila lapha futhi manje
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Qala ukuhlala lapha nalapha, funda ukujabulela umzuzu, bheka umhlaba kahle, bese kuthi izingxabano eziningi zizokudlula.