Ngiyazi amahlaya amaningi, lapho sikhuluma khona ngabesifazane "ngaphansi komugqa" kusihlwa nokuthi bangawazi kanjani amadoda ekuseni. Iningi lomkhakha wanamuhla wemfashini kanye nobuhle bususelwa esifisweni sokuhlehlisa ukubukeka. Lapho-ke izingubo kuzoba lula ukuzithengisa - kuzokulungele wonke umuntu, futhi bambalwa abantu abacabanga: "Ngabe kufanelekile?"
Kunemibono eminingi ebekiwe yokuthi owesifazane kufanele abukeke kanjani: egqoke izingubo, zinezinwele ezinde, njll. Inkinga entweni eyodwa - wonke umuntu wesifazane ulungele okuthile, futhi akuhambelani nemibono evunyelwe ngokuvamile. Impela ubone abesifazane abalungele kakhulu izinwele ezimfushane, futhi grey zinikeza ubuhle. Futhi emabhulukweni, babukeka njengowesifazane kangangokuba lokhu kungaba nomona.
Nginamathela emcabangweni wokuthi wonke umuntu muhle ekuhlelweni kwangempela " Ngakho-ke, ukusebenza namakhasimende alo, akuvamile ukuthi ngiphakamise ukulungisa okuthile ngokubukeka, okuhlukile yisibalo (kwesinye isikhathi) futhi, ngokwesibonelo, elambile. Ngisho ne-asymmetry yobuso ingemvelo futhi yinhle. Kubalulekile into eyodwa - hhayi ukonakala okunikezwa yimvelo, futhi kwenzeka kaningi.
Kunenganekwane yokuthi bonke abantu badinga ukulethwa ngesimo kuya ku-oval. Kwesinye isikhathi kubukeka kwanele, kepha kuvame ukulungiswa okunjalo kunomphumela ophambene. Isibonelo, ubuso obusondelene boxande buvame ukwelulekwa ukuthi balungise izinwele zezinwele nezinwele ezinama-curls athambile emathempelini, zibushelelezi "amakhona". Eqinisweni, ngocele izinwele, isilevu, esisindayo, siba nesikwele ngokwengeziwe. Noma ubuso obuyindilinga buvame ukweluleka ukulungisa amacici amade. Futhi lokhu kugxile kungalungile, ngoba, kufakwa amacici anjalo, udala amafomu ahlukile ahlukile. Kusho ukuthini? Ngokuqhathaniswa koMbunjwa Wokuqondisa Okuqondile, ubuso bubukeka buyindilinga ngokwengeziwe, kungadala umuzwa wokuphelela ngokweqile. Umucu mpo unciphise isibalo, kepha ubuso, uma bungakhiwa emigqeni ecacile, kwenza kube luthambile, okuzoholela nasekutholeni ukuphelela okungekho.
Ngakho-ke, umthetho obaluleke kakhulu lapho ukhetha izingubo nezesekeli kungukuhlukahluka. Ngokuphikisana nesizinda sezinkwa eziyindilinga, umugqa uzobukeka ucace futhi uqonde, futhi, ngokufanele, kunalokho.
Musa ukushintsha lokho onakho ekuqaleni, funda ukulandela ukubukeka kwakho. Imvelo akuyona iphutha: ukuthi ubuso bakho kanye nobuso bakho bubukeka kanjani, uxhumeke kakhulu nomlingiswa wakho. Ukushintsha nokubukeka okulungisayo, ufaka imaski yomunye umuntu futhi ungozini ukuthi angihlangane nomuntu wakho, ngingene emsebenzini wakho futhi ngiphile impilo yomunye umuntu.
Karina Efimova