Umzimba wethu uxhumana nathi nsuku zonke, noma ngabe singayizwa. Izimpawu zakhe azihlukile kangako: imizwa, ubuhlungu nokuvuvukala, ukukhathala, ukozela noma ukuvuswa. Lapho inkhulumomphendvulwano enomzimba ibambezeleka ngokuphelele, isikhathi sokugula siyeza.
Kepha emzimbeni wethu kunendlela eyodwa ephuthumayo yokuletha umyalezo kithi ukwazi - amaphupho. Ngamaphupho, umzimba ungakhuluma nathi mayelana nokuhlangenwe nakho okudukelwe futhi uwe emangqamuzaneni ethu.
Ukulala kungumhlinzeki womyalezo ovumayo womzimba, njengoba, ngokwesibonelo, esimweni sephupho lethu lanamuhla:
"Ngibe nephupho lokuthi ngihamba nohlobo lwendoda ethile, futhi nganginentombazane yengane enamampunge ngamehlo ampunga. Ngijabule kakhulu ukuthi nginentombazane nokuthi inamehlo, njengomama. Ngemuva kwalokho intombazane iphenduka entuthwaneni, futhi ngiyesaba ukumlahlekelwa, ugijimela amashidi amhlophe amhlophe. Ngemuva kwaloko - bach! "Futhi ngisesibhedlela ngiqamba amanga, udokotela uyeza athi ngenxa yeminyaka ethile izizathu zezithelo zimenyezelwe, ngiphakamisa ihlazo bese ngithi azinacala lapho. Ngigijimela kudokotela wekhanda ukusho ukuthi ngeke ngiphathwe lapha, ngize, kodwa kukhona ithuba, futhi ngiya egumbini lokugcina futhi ngicabanga ukuthi ngikhishwe izisu ( . "
Nginomama ezinganeni oxhumana naye okhethekile, ngoba umzimba wakhe, ukushaya kwenhliziyo yakhe kanye nesizinda sempilo yakhe esiyaziyo kusuka emizuzwini yokuqala yentuthuko esibelethweni
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Masinyane ngizosho ukuthi sikhuluma ngowesifazane osemusha kakhulu, akanazo izingane okwamanje, ngoba ukuhunyushwa kobunzima bokubeletha lapha akulungile.
Kepha kusobala ukuthi ukuxhumana nomama kuyabonakala, ngoba intombazane engxenyeni yokuqala yokulala "ibukeka njengomama." Nginomama ezinganeni ukuxhumana okukhethekile, ngoba umzimba wakhe, ukushaya kwenhliziyo yakhe kanye nesizinda sempilo yakhe esiyaziyo kusuka emizuzwini yokuqala yentuthuko esibelethweni. Ngokuphikisana nanoma yiluphi uhlobo lwemfundo enobugovu noma olukude, sinokuxhumana nomama ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwethu. Ngoba empilweni yephupho lephupho libukeka ikusasa elikude, ngingacabanga ukuthi iphupho liphathelene nokuxhumana nonina.
Ingxenye yokuqala yokulala yindodakazi enamehlo kamama, eyaphenduka intuthwane, esikhundleni sesingeniso. Ukuqonda ukuthi: "Masikhulume ngomama." Ingxenye yesibili yokulala izithelo eziqandisiwe kanye nokuhlanzwa okudingekayo. Ukuphika okungokoqobo nokuthukuthela okwenzekile nodokotela abangafanele.
Kuzinkomba ezinjalo, njengezengqondo zezifo, cabanga ngomongo wokuzalwa kwengane. Isibonelo, ingane yazalwa ukuba iphinde inda ekulahlekelweni kwengane yokuqala, eyafela e-Intrauterine. Incwadi ethi "Ingane Efakazelwayo" kaMaurice Poro ibhalwe ngesiphetho esinzima sezingane ezinjalo. Lezi zindaba eziyi-19 zezindaba nama-biografiphi wezingane, kubani ezakha imithwalo esindayo - gcina abazali babo ngenxa yasizi nasekulahlekeleni izingane ezedlule.
Kwenzeka ukuthi ingane ibelethe ukwenza abayisikhombisa futhi inqume ukungabaza komunye wabo noma bobabili okungaba ngcono ukuyihlukanisa.
Buza le ndaba ukubukeka kwakho
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Ukukhulelwa Okuhle, ingane ebilindelwe isikhathi eside yazalwa othandweni naseningi, emsebenzini wami - kunalokho iRarity kanye nokunethezeka. Imvamisa ngizwa izindaba ezinjengaleyo ngaphambi kokuba ingane ngaphambi kokukhalipha kwakhe kokuqala yayithwala umzali othile futhi, okokuqala, kubuhlungu bomama nomlando.
Konke lokhu ngibhala ukuze amaphupho ethu abuze umlando wawo wokubukeka. Okuhlangenwe nakho ukumisa ingane - labo? Yimuphi umuntu wesifazane emndenini wakhe ogijimayo futhi engakholelwa ukuthi lokhu kuyenzeka kuye? Mhlawumbe le midwebo yangena emaphusheni kanye nenkundla ejwayelekile yomndeni wamaphupho ethu ngokuphelele komunye umlobi, ngokwesibonelo, omama.
Kanye nesici esisodwa. Ukulinganisa izithelo nokuhlanza okwesibili kungahle kube nezimpawu hhayi ukukhulelwa kwangempela, kepha kungokomfanekiso. Bangakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi othile, owashona ngaphambi kokusuka kokuhlanya futhi ahlele kokuthile kwangempela. Futhi ukuhlanza okuzayo ukubulawa kokukhohlisa okusazovela le phrojekthi futhi kuthuthukiswe. Kepha sekuvele kwenye indawo. Ukusuka emkhakheni wemisebenzi yempilo ingamaphupho asetshenziswa noma cha, futhi njengoba kuza nalabo abangabonakalanga emhlabeni njengezenzo zangempela.
Shiya iphupho ngokucabanga, okuyimikhombandlela yokucabanga esondele kuye.
Futhi amaphupho akho? Izibonelo zamaphupho akho Thumela ngeposi: [email protected]. Indlela, amaphupho kulula kakhulu ukuwaveza uma encwadini eya kumhleli obaluleke kakhulu uzobhalela izimo zokuphila ezandulelayo, kepha okubaluleke - imizwa ngesikhathi sokuvuka Kuleli phupho.
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin