Indoda iyakuqabula, usondelene futhi futhi konke kubonakala kukuhle ... Kuze kube yinto engazelelwe noma yenze okuthile okushaya isifiso sakho sokunganaki noma ngaso sonke isikhathi ngaphandle kwengubo. Icela amaphutha ajwayelekile amadoda axosha amantombazane futhi akwenze ugijime ngokushesha okukhulu.
"Yebo fu, ngizobe ngidla lo mlomo"
Ngokusho kocwaningo olushicilelwe ngumagazini "sex & Marital Therapy" ngonyaka ka-2015, ama-36% abesifazane afinyelela ama-orgasm kwinqubo yokugqugquzela, kanti kuphela ama-18% angaphansi kokungena kwamanzi, okungukuthi , ukukhuthaza kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane. Ngakho-ke, amasu akhohlisayo anjengokushaya i-clitotis ezandleni zomlingani noma ubulili bomlomo ohlangothini lokuthola kungasiza intombazane ifinyelele i-orgasm. Umlingani owenqaba ukwenza lokhu kukhombisa umfazi angawunaki umzimba wakhe - yikuphi ukukhanga ubulili ngemuva kwalokhu esingakhuluma?
"Hhayi-ke, cha, imizwa ngeke nakancane ..."
Lapho unakekela izivivinyo zempilo yakho yokuzala kanye nokuqasha njalo ku-Gynecologist, futhi umlingani wakho ugxile kuma-AVOs futhi awunikezeli ukuthi angasebenzisi izindlela zokuvimbela inzalo ngokuvimbela, akumangazi ukuthi ubulili bakho ngeke bubekwe ekuqaleni. Siyethemba ukuthi kunoma yimuphi umuntu ozanele, ukuya ocansini kufanele kuphazanyiswe ngalesi sikhathi ku-foreplay - wena kuphela onesibopho sokuphepha kwakho. Ngisho ne-Snal Stis ibhekene nabantu abaningi ngokuqala kwempilo yezocansi, kungenzeka ukuthola amasonto ambalwa - Ngabe usukulungele ukwethuka sonke lesi sikhathi? Siyaqonda ukuthi izingxoxo zazo zombili izindlela zokuvimbela inzalo zikufanelekele kuwe ngaphambi kokuthi isenzo sobulili sengeze kuye uthando oluncane, kodwa ukuba khona kwezifo ezingelapheki ngeke zikususe. Nakekela kuqala ngawe nangemizwa yakho, bese kuba nabanye.
Ukuvimbela Ukuvimbela Ukuvimbela Ukuvimbela - Indlela Ethembeke Kakhulu Yokuvimbela Izifo
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"Baby, Lungela Ubusuku Baseshisayo"
Njengoba kuphawuliwe emiphumeleni yocwaningo lwe-STAR ngo-2005, isikhathi esiphakathi socansi olungenayo luyimizuzu engu-3-7 - njengoba ungabona, akukho mbuzo wenkulumo ongahambi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abahlanganyeli bezinhlolovo baphawule ukuthi isenzo sokuya ocansini esihlala isikhathi esingaphezu kwemizuzu eyi-10 singabonakala sinde kakhulu. Ukubonakaliswa komuntu uqobo kwinqubo yocansi kunesidingo samadoda amaningi ukuthuthukisa ukuzethemba. Ngalesi sizathu, ibinzana elifana nokuthi "Ngingakwazi okungenani izikhathi eziyi-10 ubusuku bonke" noma "akekho ongishiyile anginelisekile kimi," vumela ukuhleka kwamantombazane okuhlangenwe nakho kwamantombazane, kepha nokho akufanele kube yinhlekisa. Zama ukuchaza umlingani uma uyayithanda, futhi ungahlangane naloboya ukuthi akufanele azame ukusebenzela ukugqoka - kungcono ukuphumula futhi ube ngokwemvelo, uma kungenjalo uzokwelula.
Khuluma kancane futhi wenze okuningi
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"Ngigeze namuhla ekuseni - kungani abanye?"
Awusoze wazi ukuthi ngabe namuhla ukuya ocansini kwakho kuzokhawulelwa kuphela ukungena kuphela noma ukuya kucansi ngomlomo. Vumelana, kuzoba namahloni uma ngalesi sikhathi umlingani uzozwa iphunga elingathandeki noma ukunambitha. Okubi kakhulu, uma bembiza nge-vomit reflex - kuzosho ukuphela kobudlelwano bakho. Thatha umkhuba ukuze ungene eshawa ngaphambi kocansi noma ukugeza ngaphambi kokuphuma endlini uma ungakahlali nomlingani. Hlonipha lowo muntu olala naye, futhi ungawuhlethile ukuzethemba kwakho ekukhangeyo ngenxa yobuvila.
"Ake sibheke i-movie sindawonye"
Into yokugcina engabonakala ithokozisayo amantombazane amancane, kodwa abesifazane abadala nabanolwazi bayocisha - lezi ziphakamiso ezifihliwe zokulala. Kunoma ikuphi ubudlelwano oqukethe imishwana yakho, ukumboza imishwana yakho efisa ukuthi uzophuza iwayini bese ubuka i-movie noma, ukuphuza kakhudlwana, phuza itiye bese udlala imidlalo yebhodi, ungakufanele. Thembeka ngozakwethu esizayo futhi usize ngobumnene kulokho ofuna ukuya kuzo ezingeni elisha lokuxhumana. Ngakho-ke amantombazane azojabula ukuzwa izincomo ngokuheha kwazo, ezocansi futhi azizwe imizwa yakho ngamehlo akhazimula nokuthinta ithenda. Lapho nobabili nidala, ungaphatha kalula izinto ezinjalo futhi ngokweqiniso ukhulume ngalokho nalowo nalowo olindele ukukuthola ekugcineni.
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