- U-Anna, izingxoxo eziningi zahamba ngokuhlukana kwakho nge-grachevsky. Futhi nokho: Isiphi isizathu esiyinhloko?
"Ngempela, kwakukhona izingxoxo eziningi, futhi uwoyela emlilweni wathela abezindaba. Babekhuluma kakhulu nge "Treveason" - okusolwa ukuthi ngashintsha, futhi washintsha, akulona imbangela yesehlukaniso. Izizathu zivame ukuba ziningi, kepha izinkinga ezibaluleke kakhulu futhi ezimbi kakhulu hhayi kuphela ukuthi, kepha eminye imindeni eminingi yilapho udonga lokungaqondi kanye nezinkinga zikhula, ziqongelela njenge-snowball. Kuyadingeka ukukwazi ukumemezela maqondana nobuhlobo ngasikhathi sinye, okungeyona kunjalo. Ngaphandle kwalokho, le bhola leqhwa iwela ekhanda lakhe, futhi ngokuzumayo kuvela ukuthi kunezimangalo eziningi komunye nomunye. Akukho ukuthembana nokucasuka. Ngalezo zikhathi ezinjalo, imininingwane ebaluleke kakhulu ibonwa njengeqiniso.
- Amahemuhemu okusolwa ukuthi aphule athandana nomuntu omncane, futhi wawungowokuqala ukunikela umyeni wami ukunciphisa ...
- Lokhu akulona iqiniso. Eqinisweni, isehlukaniso sasinesinqumo sobabili. Amahemuhemu amaningi aqakathekileko: Futhi uBoriya wahamba kumuntu omkhulu wamantombazane, othandekayo wamantombazane amancane. Futhi noma yikuphi ukuxhumana kwami nabamele ubulili obuhlukile kwathathwa njengokukhaphela, noma ngabe ngikhulume ngokuhlanganyela kubasebenzi. Babesho ukuthi nginenye insizwa. Ngeshwa, konke lokhu kwathinta impilo yethu ehlanganyelwe. Futhi, ngokumangala kwami, ikakhulukazi eBorola. Unomsindo othukuthele, eBhombisa amabhizinisi akuwona unyaka wokuqala, kepha wasabela nje futhi ungakulungele. Uma ngisho nangeminyaka eminingi yokuphila, amangamulelo athuthukile kanye naye, khona-ke akanayo. Njengoba ngangingacasuki empilweni yomndeni - angikaze ngitshele muntu ngayo. Kepha manje sengingangitshela ngokukhululekile ukuthi ngithumele izincwadi futhi ngibika amantombazane amancane, waphikisana nokuthi batholwa ngeBorea. Ngakhombisa ngezikhathi ezithile. Futhi ngikwazile ukuthola amabutho ukumelana nalokhu. Ngikhumbula umyalezo weza: "Kufanele sihlangane." Ngihlangane - le ntombazane yangitshela, ngibheke emehlweni, yonke imininingwane mayelana nokuthi kwenzekani lapho iBorya lapho ngikhulelwe khona lapho ngikhulelwe lapho ngikhulelwe khona lapho ngikhulelwe lapho ngikhulelwe khona. Ngazama ukuvala amehlo ami futhi ngaqonda ukuthi abantu "abalungile" bagcwele. Futhi kimi kwakungukushaya kangangokuba uBoria wasabela kumahemuhemu afanayo ekhelini lami. Bengicabanga ukuthi indoda yami izoqala ukungivikela futhi ingakholelwa amahemuhemu nePeres. Konke kwaba esinye isitini ngesehlukaniso, futhi samukela lesi sinqumo mathupha.
- Ukunquma ukuhlukanisa kuwe ngobunzima?
- Impela kunzima. Ngaleso sikhathi, ngathola ezinhlangothini ezahlukene: abantu abaningi bangifulathela. Futhi umbuthano wami wokuxhumana uvame kakhulu abangane borina, ngoba bonke abathandekayo bami bahlala, ikakhulukazi eKharkov naseSt. Petersburg. Ingane eneminyaka enonyaka ubudala yahlala ezandleni zayo: Awudingi muntu, akukho msebenzi, akukho ukuqina, futhi inhlabathi iphuma ngaphansi kwezinyawo - khona-ke kwakunzima kakhulu. Isimo 'sowesifazane wangaphambili kaBoris Grachevsky "awwwwtha kancane, ngaphandle kokubuyiselwa emuva futhi uSmirk ebusweni babanye. Futhi-ke, igagasi le-Yellow Press, ukucaciswa, ukuphelelwa yisikhathi esedlule. Ngiqhume phakathi kwabameli, ngifuna umsebenzi, kanye nokuhlaselwa kwengqondo kuzo zonke izinhlangothi nengcindezi evela ku-Bori. Kwakungukufa okuncane, yize ngangineminyaka engama-28 kuphela ubudala. Kepha kwakuwukuhlangenwe nakho okunjalo ukuthi ngangikukhuni impilo. Ngiyazisola ukuthi ngamthanda kakhulu le ndoda kangangokuba yalahleka. Ngisho umama wami wathi: "Ungumuntu wokudala, udinga ukuzithuthukisa, futhi indoda yakho izokuthanda kakhulu! Unithuthumelani phezu kwakhe, kanjani ngengane? " Futhi ngavuthina! Le mpahla yomlingiswa wami ukuncibilikisa kumuntu othandekayo, akhohlwe ukuthi kunenye impilo, ngaphandle kobuhlobo. Futhi leli yiphutha elikhulu, futhi angisoze ngamvumela futhi.
"Le ntombazane yangitshela ngibheka emehlweni, yonke imininingwane ngalokho okwenzeka, lapho kwakukhona uBoris lapho ngikhulelwe."
Lilia Charlovskaya
- Ukhuluma ngani?
- Kube nokuhle konke okuhle: ngoba angizisoli ngalokho okwenzekile. Ngiyajabula ukuthi sine-vasilisa emangalisa kangaka, futhi kwaba kuhle kakhulu ukubonga kuye. UBoris uyindoda ethokozisayo, wangifundisa kakhulu. Ngifunde okuningi nge-cinema - esebenza "e-Uralash", lapho ngangisebenza khona cishe iminyaka emi-4, ngangiyazi umhlaba wama-crankshers, ngangisesiteji esifanayo nabantu abasebenza kule mboni iminyaka engama-40, futhi yi Udumo olukhulu kimi. Futhi ifilimu "yophahla", lapho ngasebenza khona futhi ngangiseduze kwe-Boris, shiya okulula empilweni yami. Lesi akusona nje isithombe nje, kepha umsebenzi oguqula impilo. Kwakulapho lapho ngangisondele khona ngangijwayelana neBorea, futhi ubudlelwano bethu obusebenzayo baphenduka uqobo.
- Ubani indodakazi yakho uVasilisa efana nokuningi?
"Ngingasho ukuthi ubukeka njengobaba, yize kukhona okuthile nokwami: noma kunjalo, lapho sihlangana, kungabonakala ukuthi uyindodakazi yami. Ngivela kimi ngisuka eVasilisa Uthando lokudansa, kusuka kuPapa - amandla okulalela umculo nomphakathi - uthanda ukuxhumana nabantu. Futhi ngaze ngakunika iqembu le-kindergaren. Ngiyabona ukuthi kuyathakazelisa kanjani ukuxhumana nezingane kanye nezwe elisizungezile. Iyakujabulela futhi ithuthukise ngejubane lomsindo: Kubukeka sengathi akanaminyaka emibili ubudala, kepha owesine.
Vele, izinhlobo zofuzo zizithatha ezazo, futhi uyingane edala kakhulu: vele ukhuluma futhi ufunda izinkondlo. Ngendlela, ngasikhathi sinye unyaka nesigamu, futhi, simemezele ngokuphelele izinkondlo enkulisa enkulisa. I-Vasilisa Loops ngentokozo, idonsa. Wazigqoka, uqhamuka nazo zonke izinhlobo zezigqoko futhi uzibeka ekhanda lakhe, ngasikhathi sinye kwakwenza uCoco Chanel. Futhi lapho ngibuza uVasi: "Futhi ungubani?" Uyaphendula: "Chanel, Chanel". Kuyo, ubuhlakani abukho nje, kepha buglit. Ngokuzayo, ngicabanga ukuthi kuzoba umdanso, umculo. Ngendlela, uVasya asevele ethanda ukudlala upiyano futhi naye uqobo acele "ukudlala upiyano."
- Ngabe uvumela uBoris Grachevsky ukubona ingane?
- Nginazo zonke izindlela "ngoba" lokhu ukuxhumana. Akunandaba ukuthi ubudlelwano bethu buye bakhula kanjani, kubonakala ngathi kimi ukuthi uVasilisa uyingane edinga amandla owesilisa. Akayona intombazane eyanele kuphela onkulunkulu nogogo. Unentshisekelo emhlabeni wonke, futhi kubalulekile ukuthi ukuqala kwabesilisa ekukhulisweni kukhona, ngakho-ke ngisekela kakhulu ukuxhumana kwawo. Ngeshwa, hhayi kaningi lapho bebona, ngoba uBoris ube nesikhathi esiningi sokuxhumana nendodakazi yakhe, kube sengathi ngifuna. Sonke simatasatasa, futhi lokhu kuyaqondakala, kepha ngikholwa ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uzoba nesikhathi esengeziwe samahhala. UVasilisa ubaba uthanda, uhlala ulindile. Sithanda ukufezeka ngeVasya ukuthi yenzeke kaningi!
Imvamisa, imihlangano ibanjwa ngaphansi kokuqashwa kwami: bachitha isikhathi kimi ekhaya. Futhi ingane ikhululekile ukuhlala emkhathini ojwayelekile. Yize mathupha kunginika ukungakhululeki kwangaphakathi, kepha ngenxa yakhe ngangikulungele ukuya kulezi zivumelwano, ukube nje wayemuhle.
- Ngabe ususizile oshade naye ngaphambili ngendlu? Ngabe ikhokhela i-alimony?
- Kunemithetho ethile lapho impahla etholwe emshadweni ihlukaniswe uhhafu. Futhi lapho kunengane encane, umlingani aphoqelekile ukuba amnikeze indawo yokuhlala. Futhi njengoba sinendodakazi encane kakhulu, washiya indlu yakhe, nefulethi, nendodakazi yakhe yathola izindlu, lapho ehlala khona nonina - kusho umthetho. Yile ndlela konke kwenzeka kanjani, hhayi ngaphandle kwezinkinga nange-angular, kepha sonke sanquma ngosizo lukaKati Gordon. U-Alimony uhlala ekhokhelwa ngaphandle kokubambezeleka. Ubaba uziphathe kahle kakhulu!
Ngokuka-Anna, u-vasilisa omncane wangaphandle ubukeka efana kakhulu neBoris Grachevsky.
USergey Ivanov
- Ingabe unayo impilo eyanele?
- Kubukeka kimi sengathi akukho mqondo onjalo. Uhlala ulahlekile. Singamantombazane! Angihlali ngokufana kwendoda yangaphambili. Uma imali ihlala, bese ihlehliselwa uVasilisa. Ngithola imali uqobo futhi nginikezela umndeni wethu.
- U-Anna, manje usesimweni sentombazane yamahhala. Kuyini kuwe?
- Isimo sentombazane yamahhala asisebenzi kimi, ngoba ngiyintombazane ematasa, futhi anginaso isikhathi sokuhlela impilo yomuntu siqu: konke ngisebenzisa umsebenzi nengane yami. Singasho ukuthi nginesimo: "Umatasa", ngoba manje sekubaluleke kakhulu kunomndeni, umsebenzi kanye nokuthuthuka - engikwenzayo. Futhi ubuhlobo nabobulili obuhlukile bukhulisa umlingiswa osebenzayo kuphela, engijabule. Ngemuva kwempilo yomndeni, ngifuna ukuziqaphela futhi ngifeze impumelelo ethile, futhi sisuka esivumelwaneni.
- Yini izinhlelo zakho zesikhathi esizayo?
- O, nginezinhlelo ze-napoleonovsky! Ngizama ukungaphumuli. Lapho kuvela ukuphuma, ukwethuka kwami kuyaqala. Kubukeka kimi sengathi ungenza izinto eziningi, uthole imali. Ngifuna ukuthuthukisa. Angizithandi izinsuku ezingenalutho. Vele, kulokhu engingayichitha nengane, kepha njengoba ngingumama wesisebenzi, khona-ke ngicabanga ngekusasa. Ngifuna ukufeza okuningi, futhi ngisebenzisa umzamo omkhulu. Uma ngingenakufaka izinti emasondweni, futhi zizosekela ngokokuziphatha, ngizoshintsha izintaba. Amandla ami anele kakhulu kangangokuba ngikwazi ukunikela ngedolobha. Ngifuna ukwenza okwengeziwe. Ngilwela kuthelevishini ukuyoya kuhlobo lomsebenzi olubi kakhulu. Ngifuna ukubuyela emisebenzini eqondisa futhi ngiyokhonza enkundleni yemidlalo yaseshashalazini. Yize ngiqonda ukuthi kulokhu udinga ukukhulisa okuncane, kepha sengikulungele, bese konke kuzolunga.
Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, uNyaka Omusha uzoshesha, futhi ngifuna ukumgubha embuthanweni womndeni, enze iholide elihle liye ku-vasilis, ukuze amkhumbule impilo ...