Wake waba nalesi simo? Cabanga: Ubusuku obusebusika beqhwa, nisenkingeni enhle yabangani abaseduze abahlala endaweni encane efudumele ematafuleni ambalwa, emafasiteleni enziwe ngokhuni, kude nethebula lakho lokusula izinkupho endaweni yomlilo, ekhoneni, ebholeni. Isitsha esishisayo siyadliwa, isikhonzi siletha i-Tea / Glan Wine / ingilazi yewayini, wonke umuntu uncike emhlane wezihlalo (izihlalo) nezingxoxo eziqotho ziqala. Futhi lapha kulolu moya omuhle kakhulu, uqala ukutshela indaba ethinta inhliziyo yokuthandana nenkosana emangalisa, esezoshintsha impilo yakho yonke. Indaba idlulisela wonke umuntu kwi-coland efudumele yolwandle i-Indian Ocean, konke, i-hopping umoya wayo, vele usondele umzuzu wethimba, futhi nje osondela kulo mzuzu "oh, uMasha, Yebo une-blouse njengoNanny indodakazi yami. " Sonke sake saphendukela kuye. Esesibili sokuqala, awukwazi ukuqonda lutho, bese imicabango iyashanela: "Kukhanya! Wayehlanya ngokuphelele? Kungani akwenze? Ngiyakuzonda! ", Imizwa ithintekile, umlingo kanye ne-euphoria wanyamalala.
Bangaki abantu empilweni abayizinto ezixakile, ezingelutho abasifaka ekugcineni lapho kuthathwe ukulingana ngokomoya? Futhi ungaphendula kanjani imibuzo enjalo? Ungaphendula kanjani ukuze uzizwe uthayizwe futhi ucasule?
Iminyaka eminingana, kanye nozakwabo nozakwethu benza "ama-Ches" emadolobheni nangezikhathi zezwe lethu elikhulu, benza izingxoxo, imihlangano nabamele amabhizinisi, izingqungquthela. Futhi ngandlela thile, ehleli endaweni yokudlela eseMagadan, ukubulala isikhathi ngaphambi kokusuka, saqala ukukhumbula izingxoxo ezinhle kakhulu nezimbi kakhulu, ezazikhumbula abantu, imibuzo esizithandayo, lapho kwakujabulisa khona ukuphendula nangokuthi, kanye 'Sisontekile' kanjani, siphendula kulemibuzo.
Ngakho-ke, ngemuva kwesikhashana, kusetshenziswa amakhono akhona wokuhlaziya, inzuzo yabo bonke abaxoxisana, saphetha ngokuthi, empeleni, yonke imibuzo ingahlukaniswa izigaba eziningana:
- Owokuqala, kufanele ngithi, isigaba esihle kakhulu, kepha esincane - imibuzo echazwe ukuze ifunde noma icacise okuthile. Yeka ukuthi le mibuzo ihle kanjani! Uyakuqonda ukuthi ulalele futhi uyabona ukuthi utshela okuthile okuthokozisayo. Ngasikhathi sinye, uma uyazi impendulo, uzophendula ngentokozo enkulu. Futhi uma ungazi? Yini okufanele uyenze kuleli cala? Ukungasho amagama athi "Angazi", "Angazi", "Hhayi isihloko sami," hhayi ukuthelela igebe ulwazi, kepha ukukhuthaza okuncane kamuva: "Ngizobona okuthile bese ngiphendula," "Kuhle kakhulu Umbuzo engizoxhumana futhi ngiwuphendule. " Kukhona enye inketho - ngokuzethemba, ukukholelwa kulokho okushoyo, uthi "emuva", "inganekwane."
- Isigaba sesibili esiyingqayizivele semibuzo - imibuzo ecelwe ukuheha kuphela ukunakwa. Vele intombi, engiyitshele ngayo ngenhla, yabuza umbuzo wami ngalokhu. Yini okufanele yenziwe ngabantu abanjalo? Mina, ngokwesibonelo, i-coquetty yasonta futhi yaphendula: "Kuyiqiniso, ngine-blouse emangalisayo ?!" Futhi washesha waqhubeka nendaba yakhe. Yebo, ungabopha intombi bese uthi: "Ngikuthanda kanjani!" Noma, ngokwesibonelo, ukuthi: "O, uyini uNanny wakho!", Kepha kulokhu, unake ekugcineni ungaya kumngane noma "shiya" esihlokweni. Lolu hlobo lwemibuzo lucelwa ukuba 'baphumelele' ukuba khona kwabo. Isibonelo, umlingani wakho ukucacisa ubukhona bawo ngaphambi kokuhlala eduze kwekhanda, ubuze impendulo lapho kungenzeka ukuthi ifunde khona kumusho wakho wokugcina. Ungayenqaba kanjani impendulo? Vele, udinga ukufaka isimo somuntu "omuhle" omangalisayo lowo mbuzo futhi uphinde uphinde uphinde ukhulume.
Isigaba sesithathu semibuzo siyesabeka kakhulu lapho umuntu ethakazelisa ngokuphelele lokho okhuluma ngakho, futhi ufuna nje ukukuhlazisa, abonise ukubaluleka kwawo, ukuphakama kwawo. Isibonelo semfundo enjalo: ingane yomdlali odumile, umqondisi uza kuhlelo lwe-TV, futhi yena uthi: "Kepha ubaba wakho usevele wathola isikole, futhi waze waqeda isikole ngababili - lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi Imvelo isezinganeni zokuphumula? ". Noma esinye isibonelo. Umhlangano webhizinisi kufanele uqale. Umlingani uza futhi esikhundleni sokubingelela athi: "Hhayi, ubusuku obubi behhovisi lakho, futhi ngubani okucebisa ukuthi ujezise lelo phaya? Usebenza kanjani lapha? " Yini okufanele uyenze nalaba bantu? Nakhamit ukuphendula? Nweba futhi uhambe? Ungaphenduli? Kepha uma ungaphenduli, khona-ke imizwa izophangwa, bese ekhanda lami kuzoba nesikhathi eside ukwenza izimo ezihlukile, njengoba uzophendula, kodwa lokho okungenzeka. Ngicabanga ukuthi kunezindlela eziningi zokuphendula. Owokuqala no-ke, ngokwesibonelo, kimi, okulula ukusho ukuthi: "Yebo, ngivumelana ngokuphelele nawe, ihlazo eliphelele", "Uyaqonda ukuthi kunzima kangakanani kimi, ukuthi ngenzeni?", "Angazi Ngize wazi nokuthi uzokuphendula ini. " Ungaxhumana neseduze nangokungaqondakali ukuthi uthi: "Ngiyabona, bayacasulwa, benza okuthile okungenani." Kukhona enye inketho - ukuhumusha yonke into ibe ihlaya, kepha lapha usuvele udinge ukuba nohlelo lwezinzwa oluzinzile kakhulu.
Njengombukiso wokuzijwayeza, umthetho osisekelo yikhono lokulalela nokuzwa umlingani wakho, futhi, kunjalo, ukuthakazelelwa.
U-Elena Kushnirenko, othweswe iziqu zobungcweti "bokubikwa kwenhlekelele" ye-Theatrical Institute. B. Schukina, Creative Workshop "Intelligent"