"Yebo, vele uyibambe eFrendleZone," intombazane elandelayo iphikisana nawe, ekholwa ukuthi owesilisa nowesifazane bangamazwe amabili ahlukene, ahambisana nohlaka lobudlelwano bomuntu siqu. Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi intombi yakho ayilungile kangako - Usosayensi uMfula iBleshka wase-University of Wisconsin waxoxa nemibhangqwana engama-88 yabangane abahlukahlukene, ebanikezela ukuba baphendule imibuzo. Ngokwemiphumela, la madoda ayethambekele ekuboneni ezwelana nezintombi zawo kunalezo. Nginqume ukubhekana nombuzo futhi ngabela imithetho 'yokuziphatha okuphephile' nabangane babantu.
Nquma ngentokazi yakho
Lapho nobabili ningekhona ukunambitheka komunye nomunye, kuba lula ukuxhumana. Ngakho-ke ungahamba isidlo sakusihlwa uphuze ingilazi yewayini, ungacabangi ukuthi ukwanga nocansi kulandele. Kungcono ukuxoxa kahle nomngane wakho ukuze nakanjani aqaphele ukuthi awunalo futhi awunakuba yikusasa elihlanganyelwe. Konke lokhu kwenzeka lapho ungowabantu ababili abazimele abazimele abahlonipha ilungelo lokukhetha okunye nokungafuni kwabo ukonakalisa ubungani bozwela. Yebo, futhi uma kukhona abalingani bezinhlobonhlobo ezingaba khona ezizungeze imicabango yakho, akunakwenzeka ukuthi bagxile komunye njengendawo yokudumisa.
Vumelana ekuqaleni
Ungaqali ubungane nomuntu uma uqonda ukuthi wethulwa kuwe. Ngakho-ke uwucasule kuphela esikhathini esizayo, lapho imizwa yakho iphuma ngaphandle, futhi izoqhubeka nokushaqeka ngoshintsho esimweni futhi izophoqelelwa ukuba iyeke ukuxhumana nawe. Ukuqala ukuxhumana eduze kunokuba ujwayele nje, kubalulekile ukudingida wonke ama-nuances wobungani bakho ukuze aphinde aqinisekise ukufana kwezinhloso. Ake ngiqonde ukuthi akukhokubalwa okuvela kuye, ngaphandle kwendlela yamasiko, njengokuvula umnyango noma kusiza ngokubeka ijazi, ngeke uthathwe.
Xhumana nenkampani kanye nensizwa yakho
Ushaye umngani onesoka
Ababili baqonde ukuthi ubudlelwane obuqinile obuhle, awuhleleli, uzokholisa umngane kulokhu. Kungenzeka ukuthi le nsizwa ibe ngumngane omuhle womngane wakho oyokujabulela ukuchitha isikhathi sakho samahhala. Yiba neqiniso futhi uzizwe ukhululekile ukukhuluma ngokuthi umthanda kangakanani umlingani. Akudingeki ukhathazeke ngalokho umngane azozizwa njengamanje: Uma ungenandaba naye ngokwezocansi, khona-ke okuphezulu azobhekana nakho - injabulo kuwe nendoda yakho.
Oxhumana nabo bomzimba omncane
Hug umngani wakho ukuze uFarewell - lokhu kuyinto ejwayelekile yokuziphatha. Kepha qabula esihlathini noma akuvumele ukuba uzikhulise ngesandla - futhi. Lawula ukusebenza komngane wakho: Uma uzizwa ungakhululekile noma okungenani ungabaza, kusho ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle ngokuxhumana kwakho. Ungathathi izipho nemibala ngaphandle kwesizathu, futhi uma umngane ethi, lokhu kungenxa yemizwa yakho enhle, ukhulume naye ngokweqiniso ukuthi kungani ungayithandi imodeli enjalo yokuxhumana.
Thola umbhangqwana wakhe
Khiqiza umngani wezintombi noma abangane bezintombi. Lapho nje ethola uthando lwakhe, ukuxhumana kwakho kuzovalwa kancane - lokhu kuyinto evamile, njengoba abantu bakhetha ukuhlanganyela izindaba nabalingani futhi kuphela ngaleso sikhathi nabangane. Kodwa-ke, kuzokukhulula ekukhathazekeni nasekutheni kunesidingo sokucabanga ukuthi umuntu uqinisile ngokuxhumana, hhayi ngethemba lobudlelwano obuzayo.