Ongahambi nje ngabantu ukuze bagcine izibopho zabo zomshado. Akuphathelene nezicelo ezinhle kakhulu zokuthethelela, izipho ezithandekayo, ukuthembeka kanye nothando lwaphakade uthando Swirls.
Konke lokhu kuyimizamo yokuqinisa ukuxhumana nesithandwa. Kepha zikhona ezinye izindlela kubalingani abazinzile, ezivame ukubambitha abasebenza ngokuzithoba ezisetshenziswa ngokungazi.
Ekwelashweni komndeni, lezi zindlela zibizwa ngokuthi ukuqiniswa kobudlelwano. Elinye i-geometry siyakwazi ukuthi ngemuva kwama-dots ama-3 ungahlala ubeka indiza. Lawo maphuzu ama-3 ahlala enza ukuqina okukhulu kune-2 Lapho ubudlelwano phakathi kwabalingani bukhazimula, noma inhlekelele elandelayo yempilo yomndeni yayamiswa, futhi abashadikazi abazi ukuthi bayiveze kanjani imizwa yabo, okuhlangenwe nakho, okufisayo, baphendukela kumlamuleli phakathi kwabo.
Nakhu kaningi Izibonelo zalezi zindlela:
munye. Imalimbako . Lapho umkhathi ubonakala kubili, futhi abashadikazi banzima kakhulu ukuthola incazelo ngalokho abakwenzayo ndawonye, balungiselelwe egoli kude. Kulokhu, imali ebanjiswayo ilungele kahle iminyaka eyi-15 - 20. Umthwalo wezezimali usiza ekuhluphukeni izimpilo zabo, asuse bobabili abashadikazi abalinde ngaphambi kwempilo ende, bavela ngaphezulu, izingxabano kanye namahlazo kudingeka bashiywe ukuze bafezeke le nhloso ekude kakhulu. Okufanayo kusebenza ekutholeni amakhethini adinga ukulungiswa konyaka.
2. Sebenza. Indlela eyaziwayo yokubhekana nobunzima obuqoqiwe ukuveza intukuthelo yakho, ukuphelelwa yithemba noma ukucasuka embhedeni onokuthula ". Ngeshwa, ukubalekela emsebenzini noma i-Workolism kungenye yezindlela ezivame kakhulu ukuxazulula ukungezwani phakathi komuntu. Futhi ngezindlela eziningi akusebenzi. Iqiniso ngukuthi ibanga likhula phakathi kwabalingani. Kwenyusa ibanga, kulapho kunesidingo esikhulu sokuphunyuka ekuhlukanisweni kodwa emsebenzini, okusho ukuthi ibanga liyakhula. Ngakho-ke kwakhiwa umbuthano ovaliwe.
3. Ukudalule kanye / noma izifo ezinzima . Imvamisa ngababili lapho kunesivumelwano esingekho emthethweni ukuthi ubudlelwano buqine kuphela lapho kunomuntu okhathalelayo, kanti omunye wale ndaba. Lapho kunezingane ezikubili, zizithola zinakekelwa ngabazali bazo. Lapho izingane zikhula, omunye wabalingani uyamenywa ngokungazi ngenxa yendima yokukhathazeka. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kwanele ukukhombisa ukungasizi ngakukho: ukuphuza noma ukugula kakhulu.
ezine. Izihlobo eziseduze . Lokhu kungenye indlela. Ukuqinisa ubudlelwano nabanye, ukuxabane ngokuphepha futhi uthole ubuhlobo, ezihlokweni zomndeni "Dweba" omama, obaba, ogogo, abafowethu, izinkinga ngesizukulwane esidala ziba yingqikithi yezingxoxo zomndeni . Lokhu kuvumela ababambisene nabo ukuthi baphazamise esihlokweni esiphephile kunokuba bakhulume ngobudlelwano babo.
ezinhlanu. Abathandi kanye nezesibindi . Le ndlela ayimi ngokungafanele ekugcineni kohlu, yize idumile kakhulu. Konke ukushisa ngokomzwelo maqondana nomunye kukhishwa ebudlelwaneni bothando ohlangothini. Yikuphi kaningi kubonakala sengathi inkosikazi isondele kunomfazi. Noma isithandwa sizwela kakhulu futhi sinakekela umyeni wakhe. Ezimweni ezingavamile, kuyenzeka, kepha empeleni unxantathu wothando yingoba muhle kakhulu, okhonza ama-anesthesia amnandi ngokukhungatheka.
Angisho ukuthi lezi zindlela zimbi, zingafanele noma zimbi. Ngamunye wabo unawo intengo nemiphumela yawo. Kuyinto eyodwa okufanele ukhulume ngezinkinga nemizwa yami, enye ukuzama ukunqoba kwalasha okwavela lapho kuvukela umbuso. Funa izindlela zokuxhumana nomunye, ngaphandle kokusebenzisa abalamuli abangafuneki.
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin