Vele, indoda ethandekayo isilungele ukubekeka ukushiyeka okuningi kwengxenye yakhe yesibili, kepha abesifazane kufanele babuyekeze ukusebenza kwabo uma uqala ukubona ukuthi umlingani wakho akaxazululwa ukwenza isinyathelo esibucayi ebudlelwaneni obukhulu ebudlelwaneni.
Awazi ukupheka
Namuhla, abesifazane akudingeki ukuba babe nobuciko be-Cultinary ezingeni labapheki abavelele, futhi noma kunjalo, noma yimuphi umuntu uzoba muhle uma okungenani uvame kaningana ngenyanga ezosondelana nawe. Kunenombolo enkulu yokupheka okungekungenzima kangako ukuphinda, ngokwesibonelo, akufanele ubhaka inkukhu ngemifino noma ulungiselele ilayisi ngokudla kwasolwandle. Indoda ngeke ihlale ingenandaba nowesifazane ongamangaza hhayi embhedeni kuphela, kodwa futhi nasekhishini.
Uhlala ukhalelana
Vuma, wena ngokwakho awuthandi lapho umuntu ebonakala eduze kwempilo, futhi ecabanga ukuthi kufanele wazi ukuthi konke kubi kanjani kuye, nasempilweni yakho. Imizwa efanayo ibhekene nendoda, eduze kwalapho kunowesifazane ongenelisekile njalo, olungiselelwe ngaphandle kwekhefu ukuthela okubi ngaye. Uma kunzima kuwe ukugcina imibono engemihle nawe, funa usizo kuchwepheshe ozokusiza ekutholeni isimo esidabukisayo.
Uqhathanisa umuntu nomuntu wangaphambili
Kumuntu akukho lutho olubi ukwedlula ukuqaphela ukuthi ulahlekelwe kwamanye amadoda emehlweni owesifazana naye. Izikhumbuzo ezingapheli zokuthi uchithe kahle isikhathi nomlingani wakho wangaphambilini, nokuthi ukudicilela phansi ngalezi zindlela kuzokuqeda amandla kangakanani endodeni, kuze kube manje. Noma ubudlelwane bakho besikhathi esedlule bebuhle impela, akufanele ubike lokhu kumlingani wakho wangempela, futhi ngokuqinisekile asikho isidingo sokukuqhathanisa nothando lwakho lwangaphambili.
Ukulawulwa njalo
I-SMS-Ki njalo ngemizuzu eyishumi nombhalo: "Unjani?", "Ukuphi?", "Uyofika kuphi?" ingakhipha noma ngubani. Uma wazi kahle ukuthi indoda yakho iqhubekile yini ebhizinisini noma umhlangano nabangane, akufanele ulale ngezingcingo futhi muhle (ngombono wakho) imiyalezo. Ngale ndlela, ngeke uzuze noma yini ngaphandle kokuphendula okungalungile kusuka engxenyeni yayo nesifiso sokuphunyuka kuwe ngangokunokwenzeka.