Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi abesifazane abaningi balala futhi babona ukuthi indodakazi ivela kanjani, khona-ke bayokwenza yonke imizamo yokukhula kuyo uma kungeyona inkosazana, bese kuba yintokazi eyeqisayo. Madoda kulokhu futhi akuhlali ngemuva futhi, uma intombazane encane ivela emindenini yayo, ingeyalo ngendlela ekhethekile - nge-treapition. Kubalulekile ukuthuthukisa umuzwa wokumangalisa enganeni, okuzosungula ukudalulwa kobufazi ngokuzayo.
Uma uhlela inhloso ukunikeza intombazane konke okuhle, okulungile nesidingekayo, elinye lamaphuzu abalulekile kuzoba ukuthuthukiswa kwemithetho yokuhlonishwa emphakathini. Ukuze wenze lokhu, zama ukuba (noma ube) nomuntu onjalo, ngoba izingane, ikakhulukazi esemncane, zithatha isithombe sabantu abadala, zisikopisha kukho konke. Khombisa ukuthi abantu kudingeka bahloniphe, babe nomusa futhi baphendule ngokulinganayo. Chaza ukuthi esimweni sokuhambela imicimbi, kufanele uvumelane futhi ubukeke okufanele.
Abesifazane abaningi balala futhi babone ukuthi indodakazi yakhe ivela kanjani
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Umuntu obaluleke kakhulu empilweni yentombazane ngumama, ngakho-ke abesifazane abanendodakazi abakhule, kubalulekile ukulandela, yisiphi isibonelo asikhonzayo intombazane. Khuthaza isifiso sakhe sokupheka okuthile noma ukubamba iqhaza kwezinye izindaba zasekhaya. Ungathukutheli, uma kungenjalo konke kuhamba kahle. Okokuqala futhi umuntu omdala akahlali esebenza. Khombisa ukuthi kubalulekile kuwe ukusiza, ukunxebezelwa ukubamba iqhaza lapho kulungiswa isidlo sakusihlwa wonke umndeni. Njengoba usuthole ukuvunywa kwakho, intombazane izoqala ukubonisa inkuthalo eyengeziwe futhi nakanjani izothola impumelelo ngokungazenzi lula okwenziwe ekhaya.
Naka imidlalo, zama ukubamba iqhaza kuwo futhi uqondise ngobumnene. Uma udlala amadodakazi kamama wakho, abonise ngokungakhethi imodeli efanelekile yokuthi udinga kanjani ukuphatha umndeni wakho. Izimfuneko ezifanayo ziye zethulwe kubaba, ngoba indlela angokamama, ngezinga elikhulu ithinta ukukhetha kwe-satellite yesikhathi esizayo.
Khombisa ukuthi ungawuphatha kanjani umndeni wakho
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Funda intombazane ukukhombisa ububele, ikhono lokuzwelana nokusiza lapho kunesidingo. Futhi futhi - isibonelo sangasese siyaphoqelelwa. Ukuze kucacelwe, thola isilwane, vumela ukuthi intombazane ngokwakhe izama ukuthatha ingxenye yokunakekelwa kwezilwane ezifuywayo.
Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi uqaphele amathalenta afihliwe engane ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Bukela intombazane - mhlawumbe kunezinto ezibonisa ngazo intshiseko ekhethekile. Kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi izinto zokuzilibazisa zezingane nezintshisakalo zishintsha ngesivinini esikhulu, ngakho-ke zama ukumboza izindawo ezimbalwa zezintshisakalo zawo ukuze ungaphuthelwa okubalulekile.
Kubalulekile ukuqaphela amathalenta afihliwe wengane ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka.
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Kodwa-ke, khumbula ukuthi intokazi yangempela ingakhula kuphela emoyeni wothando nokuhloniphana. Njengomama wentombazane, isibonelo sowesifazane angaba yikho, nobaba - uhlobo lwamadoda, azohlangana naye esikhathini esizayo. Qala ngokwakho - futhi intombazane yakho nakanjani izoba yintokazi.