1. Umama udinga ukuphumula! Kubaluleke kakhulu. Akudingekile impela ukuba sekulungweni lokulwa okugcwele kuwo wonke amahora angama-24 ngosuku - akwanele isikhathi eside. Sebenzisa ngisho izinkathi ezincane zesikhathi ukuze uphumule - imizuzu eyi-10 njenge-Stirlitz, ukulala - futhi kuyasebenza. Ungazishayeli. Uma kungekho ithuba lokufudukela kothile ekuhambeni okusondelene nezingane noma uhambo oluya emtholampilo, funda ukuphumula nezingane. Ngokuvamile, "ihora elithule" lingcwele. Futhi ngezingane ungageza, ufunde ngaphambi kokulala. Yenza ukuphumula ngokwesiko okufanele kulandelwe.
2. Bandakanya ubaba kwinqubo. Akudingekile ukukhombisa ubuqhawe nothile ukufakazela okuthile, ngoba isinqumo sokuqala ingane yesibili owamukele ndawonye, futhi udinga usizo nokusekelwa. Ngakho-ke, udlulisela umyeni wakho eminye yemisebenzi yabo yokunakekela izingane. Isibonelo, kungaba ukubhukuda inkukhu noma ukondla. Yabelana nomyeni wakho ngezinkinga zakho bese usho ukuthi ukhathele. Awugcini nje ngokuthi "uhleli ekhaya" - unezingane ezi-2 ezinomehluko wobudala obuncane kakhulu.
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3. Khetha okubalulekile manje. Khumbula ukuthi omama abahle bayinganekwane engekho lutho ngempilo yangempela. Akuyona yonke into esidinga ukuyenza namuhla ibaluleke ngempela, okuthile, uyabona, ungahlehlisa. Ukuphathwa Kwesikhathi Kwesikhathi Sokulawulwa Kwezikhathi Zasekhaya Izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu lapho unezingane ezimbili ezandleni zakho, omunye wazo osanda kuqala ukuhamba, kanti umzuzwana osanda kuvela. Bobabili badinga ukunakwa okwengeziwe, ukunakekelwa kanye nomama, okungapheli ekukhathaleni. Beka izinto eziza kuqala: Amacala angaphuthuma, aphuthuma kakhulu nokuthi yini engahlehliswa kusasa (noma ungalokothi wenze). Igcina isikhathi namandla.
4. Fundisa abadala ukuthi banakekele omncane. Noma ngubani owakhuluma naye, kepha ingane yokuqala ingumsizi wakho othembekile kakhulu, noma ngabe kwenzekani iminyaka emingaki. Ngisho nengane eminyakeni eyi-1-1,5 ingahle inikele okuthile, ngokwesibonelo, ikubize lapho umfowethu omncane noma udadewenu evuka. Cela usizo, ungakhohlwa ukudumisa futhi ukhumbule ukuthi izingane ezinomehluko omncane eminyakeni yobudala zivame ukuba nobungane kakhulu futhi zikhathazeke ngomunye nomunye, ngoba zijwayela kusukela esemncane.
Qiniseka ukuthi uphumula - ungakwazi ngezingane
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5. Udinga usizo abasizi. Ikhishi neminye imishini yasendlini isindisa umama isikhathi. Ngenkathi kusulwa umshini, izitsha zokugeza zihlanza izitsha, futhi i-multicooker ilungiselela, unesikhathi sokuphumula kancane noma ukwenza okuthile okuwusizo ukuzikhulula. Cabanga ngeqiniso lokuthi ikhaya lakho linethezekile - ungazenqaba okuthile kuwe, hhayi ukuthenga imvunulo eyeqile yezingane, kepha ungathola ithuba lokukwenza konke ngokushesha.