Ukuhlukanisa kuyingxenye ebalulekile yempilo yethu. Zingenzeka ngezikhathi ezithile. Ngokungangabazeki, lokhu kuyingcindezi enkulu yokuthi, naphezu komthunzi ongemuhle, kwakha ubunikazi bethu. Ungayenza kanjani?
Eminye yemithetho eyinhloko: Qondisisa ukuthi isikhathi asisabuyi.
Akunasidingo sokunamathela ezinkumbulweni. Ubudlelwano baphela, futhi leli iqiniso lokuthi kufanele wamukele, makube nzima. Vumela umbono wokuthi lo muntu akasekho empilweni yakho, okusho ukuthi udinga ukumvumela ukuba ahambe. Kunezimo lapho, ngemuva kwesikhathi, owayekade esebenza nabo bashintsha futhi bavuselela ubudlelwano futhi, kepha lezi zisevele zikhona abanye abantu - hhayi labo ababekhona ngaphambili. Qaphela ukuthi endaweni yamanje nobabili nje awuzange ube nokuphuma okuphuma. Vumela uma umuntu oyithandayo umahhala uma unenhlonipho encane ngobuntu bakhe.
Qondisisa ukuthi isikhathi asisabuyiswa
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Phuza imicabango ecindezelayo
Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi kunokulimala okwengeziwe kithi akusikho isimo esingaka njengemicabango emibi eyaba ngokuningiliziwe ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Bazala ukudumala ngokuphila, baqala ukunxusa ukuthi ekugcineni kuthinta ikhwalithi yempilo. Cabanga nje - 90% Ungathathi ukuhlupheka kwangempela ekubeni yinto engenakwenzeka ukuba eduze komuntu, kodwa imicabango thina uqobo futhi sivule. Isizathu sale micabango silele kulaka olucindezelwe futhi sithuke kumlingani wangaphambili. Yebo, ungazama ukususa imibono ebonakalayo ngezinto eziyizintandokazi zokuzilibazisa, kepha indlela ethembekile kunazo zonke ukuthethelela umuntu futhi imfise injabulo ebudlelwaneni obusha. Ungakholelwa, kepha le ndlela isebenza ngempela.
Phuza imicabango ecindezelayo
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Bona ilungelo lakho lokujabula
Inani elikhulu labantu abanenduduzo lihlelwe esikhundleni salowo ohlukunyeziwe. Ngemuva kwakho konke, kulula - asikho isidingo sokuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo ngempilo yakho. Ngakho-ke, imvamisa sizwa kusuka kulabo osebenza nabo futhi ozakwabo "akekho ongithandayo, angidingi muntu." Ukuziphatha okunjalo kuwuphawu olucacile lwezinsana. Ngomuntu ophilile engqondweni akunasizathu sokuziphatha okunjalo. Kuyadingeka ukujabulela okwenzekayo lapha futhi manje - yize ehlukanisa. Udinga injabulo esondelene nobungqabavu. Cabanga nje ngeqiniso lokuthi awunasizathu esibalulekile sosizi, ukhona kuphela ekuqaphekeni kwakho, empeleni ungumdala, umuntu ophilile onakho konke ukujabulela impilo. Nakanjani uzohlangana nomuntu futhi ongeke avuke imicabango emibi okufanele izalwe ekhanda lakho.
Bona ilungelo lakho lokujabula
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