Ngemuva kweminyaka eminingana yokuhlala ndawonye, unomuzwa wokuthi impilo yakho obuseduze ayifani: imizwa yakhubeka, uzama ukugwema izikhathi lapho kufanele uhlale wedwa. Ujwayelene, akunjalo?
Kodwa-ke, kunezimo, futhi kaningi, lapho abashadikazi bakwazi ukuthola indlela yokuphuma kulesi simo esibucayi. Sikhethe amathiphu amaningana asebenzayo kusuka kokuhlangenwe nakho okuhlangenwe nakho kwabashadikazi kanye nobudlelwano bomndeni.
Isimo sengqondo ngocansi sihlobene ngqo nesimo sengqondo emshadweni
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Okokuqala, ucansi lususelwa ekuzwaneni
Ngokwemvelo, ngeminyaka ubuhlobo, nocansi uqobo, lushintsha. Uma ebusheni bakho, ungakwazi ukunyamalala ubusuku bonke ubukeke okusha ekuseni, khona-ke ngemuva kokuthi abantu abangamashumi amane baqala ukulahlekelwa ukuzethemba ekukhange kwabo. Ikakhulu lapho indoda ihlala ikhomba owesifazane ngokungapheleli komzimba wakhe. Ngisho nomsebenzi wesikole, izingane ... Ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthi umzimba uzolala amahora ambalwa, mayelana nocansi esimweni esinjalo kanye nenkulumo akuhambi.
Ochwepheshe bathi isimo sengqondo sokuya ocansini sihlobene ngqo nesimo sengqondo emshadweni. Ngokuphikisana nesizinda sendawo yokuhlala emnandi yokuhlala, ukwaneliseka kwempilo esondele kakhulu kuzalwa.
Phendula Ngokweqiniso: Ngabe umshado wakho uvumelana kanjani na? Zama ukuthola indawo lapho kudalwa khona khona ebudlelwaneni, bese uqala ukusebenza ngale nkinga.
Ube nomusa ngokomzwelo komunye nomunye.
Okuxakile ngokwanele, ngababili bahlale behlambalaza omunye komunye, nigxeka nabangane. Ubumnene baphathwa kuphi? Abantu abangaphuthelwa ukubonakaliswa kwemizwa nothando kuvame ukweseka izinga lemizwa nasembhedeni.
Khombisa ukubamba iqhaza okuthe xaxa: Letha ikhofi yomuntu embhedeni, uhlele kusihlwa sothando noma uhambe ngezinyawo ebusuku. Thola izindlela zakho, ngaleyo ndlela uqinise ukuxhumana kwezocansi.
Ukhathele kakhulu ngocansi
Kwenzeka ukuthi ufuna ukulala, umyeni wakho ngokuzumayo "asebenze". Kubukeka sengathi kunzima ukwenqaba - kuyakhubekiswa, kodwa futhi ngokwakho ukumelana nawe kumnandi. Kwenzeka futhi okuphambene nalokho.
Kulesi simo, okukhona okuningi: Uma kukhona izingane, zithunyelwa kugogo wakhe, umuntu udlulisela ucansi ekuseni ngaphambi komsebenzi nokunye. Kwabaningi, akuhlali njalo, kepha ikhwalithi yezocansi.
Hamba ngezinyawo ebusuku
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Musa ukuphatha abasebenzi emndenini
Shiya abasebenzi ehhovisi. Uzohlala unesikhathi sokubuka izinkontileka kusasa noma lapho kuzoba nesikhathi esithe xaxa. Cela intombi ukuthi ibuye emuva kwesikhathi uma ifuna kakhulu ukuxoxa nge-Uhager elandelayo. Ngezingcingo ezibucayi, thola umshini wokuphendula. Uma izindaba zomsebenzi ziphuthumayo, cabanga ngokudlulisela kusihlwa uthando ngolunye usuku - awukwazi ukuphumula, ukulanda ikhanda lakho ngomsebenzi.
Yenza amacebo
Cabanga ukuthi imizwa ingashintsha kanjani uma umemezela ngokusemthethweni umyeni wami ngesidlo sasekuseni ukuthi ucansi lumlindile kusihlwa. Vuma, hhayi ukuqala okuhle. Enye into yilapho upela ngokupela, yenza ucingo lusebenze, hlela isidlo sothando futhi sihlangane ngemuva komsebenzi. Lokhu kuzosheshe kulungise umyeni wakhe ngendlela efiselekayo.
Khumbula ukuthi le ndoda akuyona intombi wena
Kufanele kuqondwe ukuthi le ndoda idinga ukunqoba nsuku zonke, noma ngabe uhlala kangangani.
Kwenzekani ngokoqobo? Abafazi bahlala bekhalaza ngamadoda ngezinguquko ngokubukeka kwazo: Bangaki amakhilogremu abawatholayo, baphi izinkinga ngesikhumba ababonakale bemibhatjhani. Abesifazane bakwenza ukuze umuntu wabo anqatshelwe wathi: "Umuhle!" Kepha lokhu akwenzeki, ngoba le ndoda ayiqondi la macebiso. Ukholelwa kowesifazane ngezwi. Ngenxa yalokho - indoda igwema ukuxhumana okukhulu. Cabanga, ingabe uzuza umphumela?
Khumbula ukuthi le ndoda akuyona intombi wena
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Into esemqoka akuyona ukuphelelwa yithemba, ubudlelwane obusondelene namaqiniso impela ukusungula, udinga kuphela ukwenza umzamo omncane.