Muva nje, incwadi enemiBhalo engcwele ngesimo se-1380 ewusizo eSoviet yafika ezandleni zami. Akunakusho ukuthi angihlazikhi inkolo. Kepha umcabango ohlakaniphileyo oshunyiswe kule ncwadi wangizalela kimi ukubhala le ndatshana. Nakhu okukhishwe okuncane: "Kungani kubalulekile ukuzungeza ngokubhala endlini nakuyo yonke indawo lapho ukhona? Ngoba zonke izihloko emhlabeni kanye nanoma yimuphi umbono wesihloko ubiza umuntu kumuntu noma eminye imicabango, imizwa nezifiso, enye noma eminye imisebenzi, amakhonsali ngalezi zinto ezivelayo. Kungakho kunesidingo sokuzizungeza ukuze wonke umuntu akutholile. " Silula futhi impela!
Ngiphakamisa ukuthi uthole Ukuhlolwa okuncane , Ziphendule ngokweqiniso:
- Uzizwa kanjani ngegama elithi "induduzo"?
- Yini ozizwayo, esebenzisa ibinzana elithi "induduzo endlini yami"?
- Ubucabanga ukuthi kungashiwo ngekhaya lakho?
- Ngabe ucabanga ukuthi abanye abantu bahle kakhulu, basebenza, bacebile futhi bakhululekile kakhudlwana?
- Imiphi imicabango yakho iphakama lapho ubheka ikhaya lakho?
- Ingabe abangane bakho bazosifaka ngenjabulo ukuvakashela? Noma ngenye indlela unikeze izikhungo zomphakathi noma ikhaya labo?
- Ingabe uyamthanda umlingani wakho, umndeni wakho kusihlwa kusihlwa? Ingabe uyajaha ekhaya?
Lolu hlu lungaqhubeka. Kepha, ukuphendula kulemibuzo, kuyacaca ukuthi liyini ikhaya lakho kuwe, lingajwayelekile futhi likhono kanjani isikhala sempilo nokuzilibazisa.
Uma amagama athi "Ukuzwa Kwekhaya" kuyigama elingejwayelekile kuwe, kanye nokuholwa kokuhleleka endlini kungumsebenzi nje; Uma uhlala nemicabango engaguquki ukuthi udinga ukuhlela kabusha, ukubuyekeza, ukuphindisela, kepha izandla zakho azifinyeleli, "khona-ke sekuyisikhathi sokukwenza! Musa ukuphupha, kepha hlala ekhaya elihle futhi elinethezekile, zonke izinsuku zibe sesimweni esikhethekile nomndeni wakho, ozakwethu, abangane kanye nawe. Phila efulethini lamaphupho akho! Kuyaziwa isitatimende esithi indlu yethu lapho sikhona. Uyinqaba yethu, umthombo wokushisa namandla. Abaningi kini bazothi "Into esemqoka ihlanzekile futhi i-oda," futhi ngizovuma! Kepha futhi konke okunye okusendlini, kuthinta izimpilo zethu. Uma uqhubeka nawe imicabango yami ngenduduzo nobunye bakho, okunzima kakhulu ukuba ngumnikazi ekhaya lakho, ukusebenza okunzima ukusebenzisa isipho senduduzo, ukusebenza, ubuhle, izinsiza, ukugqama. Ikhaya lakho elincane likhangelwa impilo, futhi wonke amaphupho akho ngendawo yokuhlala ephelele angagcwaliseki.
Uma kunjalo, khona-ke ngifuna ukukukhuthaza ukuthi ubuyekeze isimo sengqondo ekuhleleni izindlu zakho. Qala ngokucophelela bese wenza kancane kancane isikhala osidingayo. Lalela imiyalezo yakho yangaphakathi, bangabasizi abahlakaniphile. Naka izinto zakho zokuzilibazisa, imikhuba yakho, ekukhuthazeni wena futhi ungumthombo wamandla nobuciko. Ukuze uthole lokhu, kunezindlela eziningi zokuklama kanye namasu wokuhlobisa. Ngezindwangu, imibala, amalambu, ukwakheka nezinye izinsimbi, ungaguqula ingaphakathi lakho libe isikhala esisha, dala isitayela futhi ugcizelele ubuntu bekhaya lakho. Phonsa konke okungadingekile. Shiya kuphela okujabulisa wena nezinzuzo.
Ngizokutshela icala empilweni yami. Ngake ngahlala efulethini lapho sonke lapho ngifuna ukulungisa udonga, futhi "izandla azifinyelelanga." Ngemuva kwesikhashana, nganquma ukushintsha indawo yokuhlala, kepha azikho izinketho ezifanele. KwakunoSuku lukaDisemba, ngangiya esitolo ngathenga isitsha esikhulu ngopende omhlophe, ama-roller, ama-tassels, abizwa ngokuthi abangani azosiza. Siphinde sakhulisa "singihlupheke kakhulu izindonga zodonga, ngaboshwa, kwaba lula ukuphefumula. Futhi ngemuva kwenyanga ngenza isiphakamiso mayelana nefulethi elisha elihambisana nesicelo sami, futhi lapho engangenanga khona. Kunamacala emdlalweni wami lapho, ngemuva kokulungiswa, amakhasimende senzeke ukuthi agcwalise umndeni. Othile wahlelwa ngomsebenzi omusha futhi omuhle kakhulu.
Vumela ukuthi uphile ngaphakathi kungakufanele, uthuthukise imvelo ohlala kuyo, uzizwe injabulo nenjabulo kusuka eqinisweni lokuthi usekhaya!
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