Konke empilweni yethu kwakhiwa othandweni. Indima yayo inkulu kakhulu kangangokuba kunzima kakhulu ukuwela ngokweqile. Cishe wonke umuntu ufuna ubudlelwano obuhle. Futhi labo ababatholile bangayisebenzisa ngokuphepha wonke amanye amakhono abo namathalente abo.
Uma uzama "ukuvala" ubudlelwano empilweni yakho - basuswe kusukela ekuqaleni. Umbuzo wesikhathi ukuthi bazohlala malini. Kuliqiniso, ngendlela, kwesinye isikhathi bayaqhubeka kuze kube yilapho i-Coffin Board. Futhi hhayi nhlobo ngoba zilungile, kepha ngenxa yokuthi imikhuba ilukhuni futhi ingakhululeki, futhi akuyena wonke umuntu olungiselelwe ukuguqukela.
Ukubheka ubudlelwano obuhle, akunakwenzeka ukusho ukuthi kungani behle kakhulu - wonke umbhangqwana ojabulayo uneresiphi yawo. Kodwa-ke, ake sizame ukwaba izimiso ezijwayelekile okufanele zilandelwe ukuze zilethe ubudlelwano bakho
munye. Ungagxili emphinjeni wengoma yakho Lokho wukuthi, awuphoqelekile ukuzishintsha kuphela ngoba lokhu kufuna umlingani wakho.
2. Ekuqaleni, ukusetha ukusesha, ukuqoqa izindlela ezibaluleke kakhulu lapho okhethiweyo okufanele aphendule khona. Kufanele ube ntofontofo naYe. Lapho uthola eyodwa ephendula Imibandela Eyisisekelo Isicelo sakho, sibuyisele nabanye. Musa ukulinda ukushaya okuphelele. Ngandlela thile, ngeke uhlele. Ungazami ukuphindiselana - hhayi umkhuhlane owodwa wothando ophahlazeka emizameni enjalo.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi akekho umuntu okufanele
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3. Zifezeke Kulokhu, uzoba nezikhalazo ezimbalwa emhlabeni, futhi uyalile, ngaphandle kwezinzwa eziningi nokunganeliseki, ungakha ubuhlobo obuhle.
ezine. Khohlwa ngokufunwa . Uma sivame ukusebenzisa imishwana: "Kufanele", "unesibopho" - isici sokuqala sabekwa kule modeli. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukuqhekeka kuzofika ebudlelwaneni obunjalo. Okokuqala, ngoba akufanele sibe ngubani umuntu. Uma ulithanda ngempela igama elithi "kumele", lisebenzise wena - kufanele wenze lokho ukuthi umlingani wakho ajabule ukukwenzela lokho okumbuzayo ngakho.
5. Enye into ebalulekile - isibindi ngaphandle kwakhe nomaphi. Uma kungenjalo, impilo ehlangene izofana nesihogo. Noma nini lapho ukhombisa ukungathembani, cabanga ukuthi uwe ngedwala eliphakeme. Umphumela uhlala wedwa, futhi akuxhomekile kwinqubo yokudonsa.
Zivame ukucabanga ukuthi umlingani wakho uzizwa kanjani eduze kwakho
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6. Zithande "Uma ngaphakathi kwakho uzithanda kakhulu, ungayakwabelana ngakho."
7. Ekugcineni, into ebaluleke kakhulu yilokho engingathanda ukudonsela ukunaka kwakho. Ngokwalokho okuhlangenwe nakho, ngiyazi ukuthi lesi sici imibhangqwana ikhokha ukunakwa okuncane. Kwabanye kuzoba ukutholakala kweMelika. Ngabe ucabange Imiphi imizwa eduze kwakho ibhekene nomlingani wakho? Hhayi wena naye, futhi unawe. Unethezekile futhi ulungile eduze kwakho? Lesi yinto esemqoka, ngombono wami, kanye nosimende ohlala isikhathi eside kakhulu kunoma yibuphi ubuhlobo.
Vele, izindlela zokupheka ze-Universal akwenzeki - bheka ezakho. Into ebaluleke kakhulu empilweni isipiliyoni, ngenxa yaso, sonke silapha futhi sabuthana. Futhi mayelana nokuthi owesifazane ufunani, funda lapha.