Lapho esondela okokuqala ngoSepthemba, lapho abazali abaningi belahlekelwa khona ukuthula kwangaphakathi. Noma ingane ingaseyona eyokuqala i-grader, abazali abanendaba noma kunjalo, nango-Septhemba 1, kanye nezingane, ziqala ukuqeqeshwa. Ungasenza kanjani isikole esibangelwa yimizwa enhle kakhulu? Ake sizame ukuthola.
Kwesinye isikhathi abazali ngokwabo bayasaba izikole. Imvamisa lokhu kwesaba kukhula kusukela ebuntwaneni, ngenxa yokuhlangenwe nakho okungekuhle. Ngokuvamile abazali bayavuma ukuthi abasodwa, lapho bezomdala behamba nomgwaqo wesikole, futhi uma behlangana endleleni yomqondisi, kanye nenhliziyo iyahamba. Ezweni lethu, lesi sikole sibonwa njengento ethile phakathi kwentuthuko ehlakaniphile kakhulu, esidingekayo lapho okuzayo kuzoncika ekutheni impilo yomuntu iqala ngayo ngokuphelele ukwesaba kwalesi sikhungo. Kodwa-ke, akufanele uhlanganyele nalokhu kwesaba nengane, kubalulekile ukuzisiza. Kunokufakwa okuningana, ukuqeda okuzoba lula ukuphila lesi sikhathi esinzima ngobude obuyi-11.
Qonda nje: Akuwona wonke umuntu onikezwayo ukuze afunde 'okuhle kakhulu'
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Okokuqala: "Ingane kumele ifunde" emnandi "
Futhi lalinjani ekilasini lakho? Bonke babehle kakhulu? Ngokunokwenzeka, abantu abaningana. Futhi akuxhomekile esifisweni sabazali. Qonda nje: Akuwona wonke umuntu onikezwayo ukuze afunde 'okuhle kakhulu.' Iphuzu akuyona iqiniso lokuthi othile uhlakaniphile, kunalokho, akuwona wonke umuntu ofunwa. Akunandaba ukuthi uzama kanjani ukukholisa ingane, uma engekho, ngeke ukwazi ukumenza abe ngumfundi omuhle kakhulu. Kungenzeka ukuthi awuzange ubonile ukuthi ezikoleni zethu ziwukucindezela umoya ocindezelayo. Izingane ziya lapho njengokuqaphayo, hhayi ulwazi. Imfundo yethu izama ukulingana nolwazi oluthile, kodwa ngasikhathi sinye akunandaba nalolu lwazi. Zama ukungafaki ingcindezi enganeni, futhi uzobona ukuthi ubudlelwano bakho buzobuya kanjani.
Okwesibili: "Ingane kufanele yenze izifundo ngeyakhe"
Akunjalo. Ebangeni lokuqala, akufanele ucele izifundo, kepha usabuza. Cishe yonke indawo. Zilungiselele kusihlwa ngokuhlangene ngemuva kwezincwadi nezincwadi zokubhalela. Lapha into ebaluleke kakhulu ukukhombisa ukubekezela nokucashunwa, ngoba ingane ngeke icace ngokushesha. Okusobala kuwe akucaci nakanjani futhi kuzobe kungukuqala kwengane yakho. Akakafiki iminyaka yokuqhathanisa nawe emcabalweni nasekucabangeni. Imvamisa abazali bayaqhubeka bekwenza izifundo nengane futhi esikoleni esiphakeme.
Esigabeni sokuqala akufanele kubuze izifundo
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Okwesithathu: "Ingane kumele iqonde ukubaluleka kokufunda"
Esikoleni esincane, akufanele uphakamise izingxoxo ngesidingo semfundo enhle ukuze uthole inhlala-kahle ebudaleni. Ingane ayiqondakali ukuthi ngempilo yabantu abadala futhi lapho ifika, uhlala lapha nalapha. Ngakho-ke gxila kulokho ongakuthola (noma okuphambene nalokho - ukukhipha) esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Isibonelo, ukuhlolwa okuhle kokulawulwa kwehora lokuhamba nabangane.
Okwesine: "Ukuhlola kukhombisa izinga lolwazi"
Izingane eziningi, ngeshwa, zifuna ukuba ngcono kunawo wonke umuntu futhi zithole "okuhle" kudayari, kuphela ukwenza abazali bathokoze, hhayi ezintshisakalweni zabo. Sonke siyaqonda ukuthi "ukungagculisi" kumane kungukuhlola, kepha kunzima ukuzigcina ezandleni zakho lapho ubona ama-red uthisha ama-lisps encwadini yokubhalela. Lokhu kuholela eqinisweni lokuthi ingane iya ebhodini njengenhlawulo, futhi kwesinye isikhathi ithola izifo ezinovalo. Cabanga ukuthi othisha nabo bantu, futhi bangaba nephutha futhi badinga kakhulu. Ngakho-ke zama ukumdumisa ingane ngisho nezimpikiswano.
Ingane ingaba nezintshisakalo ezihluke ngokuphelele.
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Okwesihlanu: "Lapho nje angikwazanga, lokhu kuzokwenza ingane yami"
Akunasidingo sokukhuthaza ukwehluleka kwakho nezinhlelo ezihlulekile. Ingane ingaba nezintshisakalo ezihluke ngokuphelele. Samukela - ingane ngeke igxume ngenhla kwekhanda. Ubengathanda ukubhekana nezindaba zakhe kunokuchitha isikhathi kulokho obekulahlekelwe yikhanda ngasikhathi sinye. Njengoba nje awufuni ukwenza lokho abazali abaphoqelekile.
Into esemqoka ubuhlobo bakho abathembekile nengane nempilo yakhe yengqondo. Ukuthula kuzoba yingane yakho, kube lula kuwe ngawe kuzodlula le ndlela ende yesikole