"Sawubona! Angazi ukuthi indatshana yami izokufanela yini noma cha, "i-Eugene yaqala incwadi yakhe. Le ntombazane ikhumbula ukuthi le ndaba yenzeka kanjani ebusheni bayo, yashintsha njalo impilo. Lapho ufunda okokuqala, ucabanga: "Ingabe kwenzeka ngempela empilweni yangempela?" Ngemuva kwakho konke, kuphela ochungechungeni namafilimu, sasivame ukubona izigcawu zendlela abantu abathandana nabo bafika ngayo iminyaka eminingi. Kodwa-ke, emlandweni waseZhenya, kwakungekho ndawo yokuwa kwesimilo komfana futhi inqwaba yokubuya kobuhle obunzima - umlando wabo waphetha ngokuphepha ngezingalo ezinobungane nokwamukelwa kwamaphutha anobungane. Ufuna ukwazi ukuthi kwenzekeni ku-heroine yale ndaba? Funda ngezansi.
"Kubukeka kimi ukuthi ngisanda kungena ngo-16 - icala nje lalingemuva kokuhlolwa kweziqu kusuka ebangeni le-9. Phambili uhlale iminyaka emibili ngaphambi kokungeniswa eyunivesithi, ngakho-ke kwabonakala sengathi ngenkathi ujabule futhi awuzange ucabange nganoma yini. Ngokuvamile, ihlobo lami lidlulile - lahlalwa nabangane emabhentshini amabhentshi futhi bagqekeze kakhulu eGorky Park futhi baye ezikhathini zokugcina kuma-movie nabangane - ngakunye nesoka lakhe, labe lisacabanga ukuthi kungenzeka kwabadala - Sebeqede isikole baye eyunivesithi. Konke kuhambe kahle uma ngabe sengibe sekwephuze ngephutha umhlangano nabangane - izingcingo zivele kuphela, asisekho. Ngihlala, ngilinde esitolo eduze kweMetro - 5, 10, 20 imizuzu - akekho. Kamuva nje wafunda ukuthi ngaleso sikhathi base beke baba epaki kanye nabangane bethu - bakhubeka kimi ngenxa yezaba njalo futhi banquma ukufundisa. Ngamafuphi, ngihlala ngokulandelayo, ngase ngivele ngizosukuma ngibuyele ekhaya, njengoba umfana wangithinta. Mina, bese ngisemncane, kepha hhayi washisa kakhulu, wavuma ukuhlangana naye. "
Lapho sebekhulile, i-ofciead kunzima ukusinda
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Ngaphezu kwalokho uZhenya ulandisa ngendaba ende yokuthi umfana wakhe omusha, futhi, u-Eugene, ngendlela, ikusasa landiswa kuye. Inoveli yabo yagqamile, kepha yaphela ngokushesha okukhulu - umfana wathuka imizwa yentombazane ngesikhathi esiseduze kakhulu. I-heroine, noma ngabe i-schoolgirl, njengamantombazane amaningi aseminyakeni yakhe, igqoke i-sconium enongqimba kathathu we-FADO - ihlose ubukeka ipholile ukuze ubhiya webele "zero". Faka isigaba ngemininingwane esondelene ngasohlangothini lwethu kungaba futhi - ake sithi ngesikhashana esishubile ngaphansi ngokomzwelo. U-Evgeny, esebonile unqunu othandekayo, ohleke ngawo: Kusolwa ukuthi wayengeke acabange ukuthi iZhenya, eyayinamakhandlela ayindilinga, mhlawumbe hhayi okhalweni olukhulu kakhulu, mhlawumbe "isifuba esishubile
"Angikaze ngikhale empilweni yami njengakulo lawo masonto amabili - ngemuva komzuzwana lapho igqokwa ngokushesha futhi yaphunyuka efulethini lakhe. Angikwazanga ukucabanga ukuthi, umfana ohlakaniphile wangaphandle, ungasho intombazane eneminyaka engu-16! Ngisho nama-goosebumps manje aqhutshwa esikhunjeni - ngakujabulela ukutshela le ndaba ukuthi ngitshele abangane bami, ngibhekise eqinisweni lokuthi nale ndoda ebenayo imigomo ehlukile empilweni. " U-Eugene ubhala ukuthi waqala ukukholwa emazwini akhe futhi walengisa ukubukeka kwakhe - wawumboza ngokweqile, waqala ukupenda ngenxa yokufihla "kabi, waze wanqikaza umjuluko wesikhombisa." Ukuzivocavoca ukuqeda ama-buttocks ayindilinga. Uphuphe ngeqiniso lokuthi, kudlula kancane, kwaphela ngokushesha ukuhlinzwa ngopulasitiki. "Kepha, ngiyabonga uNkulunkulu, umama wasindisa. Wangiyisa ngokoqobo ngesazi sengqondo. Sabandakanyeka eMarina cishe unyaka, ngaze ngathola ukuthi wonke umuntu ngendlela yakhe eyinhle futhi akekho onelungelo lokungigxeka ngenxa yami ngokwemvelo. Ngemuva kwamakilasi anodokotela wezengqondo, ngangihlaba umxhwele izincwadi zikaFreud, iJung, iPiaget. Angikaze ngibone nokuthi ngidlula kanjani izivivinyo futhi ngangena kwi-Faculty of Psychology kwiNhloko Yezwe. Ukusho ukuthi ngiyazithanda futhi ngikhohliwe ngopulasitiki, ngeke ngize - ngaphonsa wonke ama-bras amadala futhi ngayala ngokwami amasethi entambo. "
Ngubani ozokwazi okulinde i-heroine ngemuva komhlane wakhe
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"Sahlangana noZhenya iminyaka emihlanu, mhlawumbe, lapho ngiseminyakeni yesithathu yeNyuvesi. Sekuyisikhathi eside ukumqeda, wasebenza lapho ummeli futhi kubonakala sengathi unguchwepheshe omuhle. Kwavela konke kuyahlekisa futhi kungathi ngisho kuchungechunge lwe-TV - Ngidlulise i-internship nge-psychologist emtholampilo wangasese endaweni yehhovisi. Wenza izivivinyo zezokwelashwa ukuze athole izimpendulo, izivivinyo zonyaka zabasebenzi futhi kwesinye isikhathi zithatha izingane. Abantu badlula ezinqwaba, ngakho-ke akubonwanga ngokukhethekile ngokungezwani kwabo komunye nomunye, lapho efika ehhovisi. Ngisanda kuhlanza ifoni esikhwameni (ngaso sonke isikhathi ngikwenza ngaphambi kokuthatha, ngithule ethule), waphenduka waphonsa umhlathi phansi. Phambi kwami kwakungumuntu engangizonda eminyakeni emihlanu edlule. Muhle, wavinjwa - wabuya nje eSpain evela eholidini nentombi yakhe futhi wahlolwa emzimbeni waminyaka yonke ngokulandelana kwekhanda - konke kwakubanjelwe isikhathi eside. Bengingalindele kimi ukuthi ngingajabula ukumbona. Esikhundleni sokuhlola, saxoxa le mizuzu eyi-15 - waxolisa ngamazwi akhe, wathi wabona ukuthi ngiqiniseka ngani. Futhi angizange ngibe nentukuthelo - ngaze ngamgona. "
Lapho eqeda udaba lwakhe, u-Eugene wasicela ukuba sinikeze wonke amantombazane ahlukane naye ukuze azithande kanye nomzimba wawo, ngenxa yakhe, ukuthola ithuba lokuphila nokuzwakala kwezwe lakhe. "Ngaya ku-16 yami kimi angisoze ngazinikela, kwathi ngo-21 ngabona ukuthi ngeke ngikwazi kuphela, kodwa mina uqobo bengingazukukhulisa. Nsuku zonke ngivuka ngimamatheke, ngibheka ukuboniswa kwami bese ngithi: "Kuzokwenzekani kuwe, unamandla futhi ungabhekana. Zithande futhi ungalokothi ungabaze ukuthi muhle. "
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