Abanye abantu bafisa ukugcwaliseka, kanti abanye abanomqondo bahlala ezilinganisweni zezifiso. Kuncike kuphi? Hhayi-ke, hhayi kusuka kumasiko angaqondakali njengokubhala amaphupho abo ephepheni, ukuwashisa ngaphansi kwempi yama-chimes futhi kugwinye umlotha engilazini ye-champagne.
Ngemuva kwakho konke, kaningi ezingcucu ezinjalo babhala izifiso abazibonela kakhulu, njengokudalwa komndeni, ukuzalwa kwezingane, ukuchuma emsebenzini. Akunakwenzeka ukuthi okumanzi okumbalwa kusiza. Kepha abantu baphelelwe yithemba, unyaka nonyaka bazama le "milinalicous". Futhi hhayi kuphela.
Kulesi siko lokuhlaselwa kwezifiso, okushiwo okukhethekile okushiwo. Kususelwa kokukodwa kokuvikelwa okubaluleke kakhulu kwengqondo okubizwa ngokuthi "ukucabanga komlingo". Ukucabanga okunjalo kungamandla ethu okucabanga okunye okungokoqobo nokuphupha komhlengi. Sifunda ukuthi singaphunyuka kanjani engokoqobo, lapho emhlabeni ezungeze umhlaba akuphephile, kuyesabeka, kunesizungu futhi akekho ofuna ukusekelwa.
Isibonelo esihle sokubuka kokucabanga okunjalo yi-assol evela ku- "Scarlet Sails". Empilweni yakhe yansuku zonke kwakukhona izizathu ezimbalwa zenjabulo, ukuziqhenya okuningi kanye nesizungu, ukubhekana nakho avumele khona iphupho mayelana nomuntu okuwukuphela kohambo lwakhe. Futhi ngakho-ke isidingo sincane: ukuqhubeka nokuphila kanye nokuphila, nokulinda. Indlela efanayo nayo isebenza ezifundweni zethu: Ngokushesha noma kamuva umkhathi noma umthetho ophakeme wezobulungiswa uzokwakazeka ethonyeni lakhe lomusa futhi alinikeze. Kumuntu uqobo, akukho lutho oludingekayo, ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuze lubuze kahle futhi lubekele. Ngamanye amagama, hhayi ukwenza noma yini ezoletha ukwenziwa kwalesi sifiso.
I-ASOL iyisibonelo esibonakalayo somuntu ophuphayo osanda kulindela ukugcwaliseka kwezifiso zakhe. Uhlaka oluvela kwifilimu "Scarlet Sails".
Ungabuza ngempilo yabathandekayo bakho nabathandekayo, ngenkathi uphuze itafula lamaholide ngaphezu kwesilinganiso, kuyingozi, kepha ukholelwa ngokuqinile ukuthi isifiso sizofezeka.
Ungenza isifiso 'sokuyeka ukubhema', kepha ubusuku bonke ukusunduza isigaxa kuze kube sekupheleni. Noma ukuphupha ngenkosana enhle, ukulahla umkhosi nabangane enkampanini enkulu ethanda abazali. Ngaphandle kwalokho, kwehla! Futhi hlala etafuleni emndenini nge-tangerines ne-olivier, sengathi "ukukhanya okuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka" kuyathakazelisa. Ngamanye amagama, ukwakheka kwesifiso ngaphandle kwalezi zinyathelo kuyindlela yokuzivikela kwezakho. Zonke izifiso zethu, ezingabulawa, kusho ukuthi asisebenzisi izindlela zokukufeza. Futhi ukuze ulethe ilitshe, kulezi zindlela kuyadingeka ukwenqaba noma ukubuyekeza. Futhi lokhu akusafisi, lezi ngezenzo ezithile.
Futhi ngenkathi iningi labantu abaseduze nje balinde nje ukugcwaliseka kwezifiso, abanye basathatha izinyathelo zokuzisebenzisa.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, linda futhi wenze izakhiwo zeminyaka ehlukene yengqondo. Ungaba ngumalume omdala / umalumenti, kepha kholwa esimangaliso. Zingaki izingane ezikholelwa emandleni namandla kubazali bazo, kanye nalezo ngandlela thile ziqonda kahle futhi zenza konke okudingayo ukuba yizingane. Le ngxenye yezingane ihlala kithi ngamunye wethu. Uma sikhula nabazali abazwela futhi abanakayo, lapho-ke isidingo sethu sokunakekelwa sigcwele. Ngokuvamile sithemba umhlaba nabanye. Inkinga ukuthi ngomuntu okhulile ngokusemthethweni, ungabambelela ebuntwaneni, ulinde amabutho angaphandle ukufeza isifiso sakho, kufanelekile kuphela. Yize kubantu abadala kuphela lokhu akwanele. Kukhona nezinhloso, izinhloso, izenzo, izibopho, isidingo sokushiya imikhuba ebhubhisayo neyonakalo ebhubhisayo ukuze sihlangabezane nemisebenzi yabo, zama, iphutha, izivivinyo. Uma uphila ngempilo ejwayelekile, ngaphandle kokuyiguqula kuyo, kepha yithemba okuhle kakhulu, khona-ke akukho lutho oluzoshintsha kakhulu nangonyaka olandelayo, kunoma yini "yomlingo" ophendukayo.
Ngakho-ke ufisa futhi wenze!
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin