Imingcele yomuntu siqu ingehlukile. Kuvuleke kakhulu - lapho umuntu izincwadi "ukuze avakashele emphefumulweni" wawo wonke umuntu, akakwazi ukusho ukuthi "cha", wesaba ukubonakala ubonakala unenhliziyo, uyacasula. Lokhu kwakhiwa kusukela ebuntwaneni, ngenxa yabazali abaziphatha imihlatshelo, bakhohlwe ngezifiso nangezidingo zabo, cabanga kakhulu abanye; Kwezengqondo kukhona ngisho nethemu ekhethekile - "Gxila kwabanye."
Uqinile kakhulu - lapho umuntu esaba ukuvumela umuntu. Njengomthetho, lokhu kungumphumela wokulimala kwezingane, ngenxa yokuthi umuntu anqume ngayo 'ukuba athembele', "okungcono, akubuhlungu kangako."
Ububanzi kakhulu - lapho umuntu ekhona nxazonke abheka impahla futhi ezama ukuthatha isikhala nomuntu wakhe. Kwi-Psychology, lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi "ukuntuleka kokuziqapha kanye nohlelo lobukhulu," okuvame ukutholakala kulabo bantu abangazange bafundise umqondo wobungcweti ebuntwaneni - "lokhu okwami, futhi kungumkhawulo ophilile kunoma yini.
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Kuyadingeka ukuvikela imingcele yakho, futhi leli khono libekwe kubazali bengane. Vele, ngesikhathi sokuphila komngcele kungashintsha. Lapho ebusheni, sivame ukunika isikhala sethu sibe nzima ngokwengeziwe. Njengoba ebudlelwaneni, ikakhulukazi ekugcineni kwabo, kwesinye isikhathi chitha ngokuphelele kumlingani, okungathinta kabi impilo yesikhathi esizayo lapho isikhathi esithengelwe ngokuhamba kwesikhathi sidlula, futhi imithetho ethile yokuxhumana nokuxhumana sekuhambile ngendlela yamanga. Futhi nokho, akukephuzi kakhulu ukukhumbula imingcele yomuntu siqu.
Amandla okuvikela abe nobungane yisibonakaliso esikhulu sokuvuthwa nokuqonda. Udinga ukwenza lokhu ngosizo lwemishwana enobungane. Kwesinye isikhathi futhi okuqinile, kepha, okubaluleke kakhulu, okungafundile.
Uma sinomuzwa wokuthi noma ngubani okusebenzisa kabi imingcele yethu, awudingi ukucabanga ngokuthi kungani umuntu enza. Mhlawumbe isizathu nje sokuntuleka kwemfundo: Umuntu uyakufakazela, kepha akazami ukuthi "ungaphansi".
Kulokhu, ngitshele: "Unelungelo lokuhlola imingcele yami, futhi nginelungelo lokwenqaba, ngicabanga ngezifiso nezidingo zami."
Endabeni yemingcele evaliwe kakhulu, futhi futhi ucabanga ngokufiphala kakhulu, kuyini ukuzuzisa imingcele enjalo kuwe? 'Ulivale nini' isango 'okokuqala' ngomphakathi? Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu: Cabanga ngawo, kuliphi lezo zokuziphatha zisiza ngasiphi isimo, futhi kulokhu okuvimbela. Lesi isihluthulelo sokubona izinzuzo nokubi ngokuziphatha kwabo okuhlukile. Futhi akukaze kube kamuva ukuziqeqesha ngokwakho okwakuphuthelwa ebuntwaneni.