Imfundo ngokwayo iyinqubo eyinkimbinkimbi, noma kunjalo, ukukhuliswa kowesifazane omncane kudinga ukunakwa okukhethekile kwabazali ngenxa yedivayisi enhle ye-psyche kunabafana. Iningi labazali lizenza amaphutha amakhulu, futhi alazi ngisho nalo. Sizokutshela ukuthi yiziphi izikhathi okufanele zinake kakhulu noma zicabangele indlela.
Intombazane ayidingi ukugcwala
Lokhu kusebenza kokubili kumantombazane nabafana, noma kunjalo, "amakhosazana" akhule kaningi, okuvela ebuntwaneni babo, bathola ulwazi lwanoma yimuphi umsebenzi wesikole, izinkinga futhi bahlunga ngokucophelela umbuthano wokuxhumana phakathi kwendodakazi. Ngenxa yalokho, ingane iyakhula, iqiniseka ukuthi abantu abaseduze bazonquma zonke izinkinga zakhe, ngokwemvelo, iqiniso le ntombaza labantu elizobhekana nalo, linganyakazisa kakhulu ukuzethemba kwentombazane. Akudingekile ukuvumela ukuthuthukiswa kwesimo esinjalo, ngakho-ke yeka ukuqopha ngokweqile futhi wenze yonke ingane ekhanyisa.
Thanda ingane, kepha ungavumeli ukufakwa okungalungile.
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Ungayekisi intombazane ukuthi iyinhle kunazo zonke
Le nto ilandela kahle kusuka kwangaphambilini. Vele, wena, indodakazi yiyona enhle futhi enhle, kepha odokotela bezengqondo baxwayise - lo mbono ngokuzayo uzolandelwa bonke abantu abazohlangana endleleni yendodakazi yakho. Intombazane engenakuhlola kahle ikhono layo nokubukeka kwayo, izingozi zokubhekana nokushaqeka okukhulu, imbangela yazo kuzoba ukufakwa kwakho.
Ungabi umngane omkhulu wendodakazi yakho
Ngokungangabazeki, ukuze alondoloze ubudlelwane bokuthembana nengane kubaluleke kakhulu, nokho, abazali, iningi labazali, lihambisa lesi sici bese liqala ukuxhumana nendodakazi yakhe, njenganomngane omkhulu. Khumbula ukuthi imininingwane yesikhathi sakho esedlule ingakunyakazisa kakhulu i-Pyche yendodakazi yakho: Ngeke akwazi ukukubona umuntu omdala ongasisiza, futhi ngokuzayo intombazane kungenzeka ibe nezinkinga ezakha umndeni wazo. Shiya imininingwane yezindaba zakho zothando ngezintombi zakho zobudala.
Ungasho ukuthi: "Uyintombazane!"
Cishe iphutha elithandwa kakhulu. Ngokumemezela le nkulumo ngokuzwakalayo, ubeka uhlobo oluthile lokuziphatha, kanye nokubeka imingcele ngokungazi ngokuziphatha kwayo. Lokhu kungaholela ekuphindiseni kusuka ohlangothini lwentombazane: kungaqala ukwamukela umugqa wesilisa wokuziphatha, ngoba ngokuqonda kwakhe abafana bancishwa imikhawulo enjalo. Ungenzi nge-Accent Ohlelweni lwezocansi, kodwa ezimfanelweni zomuntu siqu zengane.