Ubulili, okuningi kuleliZwi. Sihlaziya, sifunde. Njalo lapho sizama ukwazi okuthile okusha. Sizama ukufanisa okulindelwe ngumuntu futhi asikutholi lokho esikufuna ngempela. Sinamahloni, sesaba ukuxoxa ngalesi sihloko. Ngeke senze ingxoxo ngakho. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, sinamahloni ezifiso zethu. Ukwesaba nokukhathazeka ukuze kungaqondakali, kuyahlekisa futhi kungatholakali ngathi empilweni yezocansi. Isikhathi siyeza, futhi kuyizakhiwo ezikhona kithi, imibuzo engaxazululiwe kanye nobunzima obuthi be-Psycho bukhula kuphela futhi bahlehliselwe ibhokisi elide.
Izeluleko eziningi, izincwadi zezengqondo okuhloswe ngazo lokho okudingayo indoda, kanjani ukumheha, uzokuthanda, njll. Futhi yini okufanele yenziwe ngowesifazane? Ungayiyeka kanjani yonke izakhiwo? Ungayikhulula Kanjani Ngocansi Futhi Uzinikeze amandla, Vumela Okufuneka Ngempela, Kuyesabeka Kakhulu Kakhulu?
Umsuka wokwephulwa kokuziphatha kwezocansi nokubona kwabo kwabesifazane kuvame ukuncika ezintweni ezimbili ezibalulekile:
Ubuntwana - I-Paradigm yomndeni yezindikimba zobuntu besifazane kanye nobulili, ubunikazi bobulili. Intombazane yabona kanjani? Ngabe amanothi akhe okukhanga? Ngabe isimo sowesifazane sanywe? Ingabe abazali babeyibonisa imizwa yendodakazi yakhe, ingabe bekuyalimaza omunye nomunye? Futhi kwenzeka ukuthi kubonakale kanjani ukuveza lonke uhla lwemizwa ehlukene nemizwa yengane? Futhi nesici esibalulekile yindlela abazali ababenakayo futhi balawula ngesikhathi sokuthomba. Ingabe bekufanele ukunakwa ngempela? Zonke lezi zinto zigoqa ndawonye futhi zakha isikhundla sobulili obunempilo.
Isipiliyoni sokuqala se-sexy - Lesi isici esibalulekile lapho kwakhiwa khona impilo yezocansi. Futhi kubalulekile hhayi inqubo yokwenza imisebenzi, kepha impendulo yezengqondo yalo mcimbi. Le yi-adventure ye-psyche yowesifazane, evalwa ngokunetheleleke ngokuphelele, ekhoneni elikude le-psyche, eyakha inani elanele lezinkinga zezocansi nezinkinga zobulili. Noma, kunalokho, kukhulula umuntu wesifazane futhi kwenza kube nokwenzeka ukuzizwa futhi uzizwe konke okuzayo kuzoba yingxenye yempilo yabesifazane.
Yini okufanele yenziwe uma zombili lezi zinto ezibalulekile bezingabonakali kangangokuba owesifazane uyazibona, izifiso zakhe futhi aze azifaki impilo yezocansi ukuze angahambisi imizwa engemihle?
Amadoda ayathanda lapho owesifazane ethanda ukusondela
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Nayi imithetho embalwa ezokuvumela ukuthi uvale ama-Fookbye ezabalalelo zabesifazane unomphela:
1. Imfihlo ebaluleke kunazo zonke eheha ubulili kwabesilisa ukuthi owesifazane uthanda ubulili futhi uyakujabulela ukuyinikeza yonke inqubo, ngaphandle kokucindezela futhi ubheke noma yiziphi izinto ezincane. Akazange anqikaze ukukhombisa isinyathelo kuqala futhi asebenze embhedeni. Hhayi injabulo yakhe kuphela, kodwa yedwa.
2. Owesifazane uyinto enobuhlakani lapho eqonda futhi ezwa izidumbu zakhe. Futhi lokhu kudingeka uqonde kahle futhi wazi ukuthi ukuphi futhi unjani, futhi kuphi - cha. Musa ukubala kuphela kubuchwepheshe besilisa. Futhi uyilungu elilinganayo lenqubo.
3. Indlela elula yokwenza wena nobulili bakho ukwamukelwa komzimba wakho obude. Lala unqunu, ume enqunu phambi kwesibuko, uhambe ngaphandle kwe-lingerie, ekugcineni, ngesikhathi esikhethekile - lapho udinga ukukhanya okukhethekile emehlweni.
Ukunaka okwengeziwe komzimba wakho
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4. Qala Ukunaka kakhulu Umzimba Wakho Emzimbeni wakho: Ukunakekelwa Komzimba, Izicucu, Amabhati, Ama-Massage, Ukuqeqeshwa, Ukudla Okunempilo. Umzimba ungazi lutho. Futhi uyamnaka, uzisusa ezintweni eziningi, ezembula impilo iminyaka.
5. Misa ukufunda nokuqeqesha ngendlela yezocansi. Umsebenzi oyisisekelo wowesifazane ukuthola injabulo ngokobulili, hhayi ukulayisha ikhanda lakho, umlomo nezandla kuwo wonke umuntu, ukumhlaba umxhwele yena. Zinake wena nenjabulo yakho. Tshela umlingani wakho ukuthi kufanelekile kuwe nalokho engingakuthandi. Akekho umuntu ocabanga noma yini. Funda kancane ukukhuluma ngezifiso nezidingo zakho. Futhi into ebaluleke kakhulu ukudala imizwa yezocansi ngokwakho, ungasuki konke kumahlombe ozakwethu.
Tshela umlingani wakho ukuthi kufanelekile, kepha engingakuthandi
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Izakhiwo zabesifazane ngocansi oluvame ukususwa kakhulu umlingani olalelayo futhi onothando, noma isici esiphakeme esingokomzwelo (utshwala, uthando, ukuhlukanisa), lapho kunendawo ethinta wena, lapho kungekho khona indawo yokwesaba nokungabaza. Vumela into esemqoka ecansini - ukuze ube ngokwakho, hhayi uhlobo olubi lomuntu, khona-ke kuzoba lula ukukhulula.