"Abafana bagqoka okwesibhakabhaka, amantombazane apinki," kuphole kakhulu ukuthi imishwana enjalo iphume emcabangweni wabazali abancane nezihlobo zabo ezindala. Ngokwengeziwe, ukunakwa kukhokhelwa ukungaphazamisi ingane yakhe ukwakha umbono wakhe nokwethulwa kwezinkinga ezahlukahlukene. Enye yazo ukuthi kufanele agqoke kanjani. Ubhala ngokuthi ungasiza kanjani ingane inqume ngesitayela.
Naka imvelo yayo
Akuzona zonke izingane ezikhathazekile ngalokho abagqokwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuziphatha okunjalo kungahle kubhekwe kuze kube yintsha, lapho ziqala ukuthandana futhi zizibheke ngaphandle, zihlola ukuheha umlingani. Uma ingane yakho ingakhombisi intshisekelo ngezingubo ezinhle kakhulu zezesekeli zemfashini, azenzi zikwenze. Lapho isikhathi sifika, uzocela usizo lwakho - kukho konke udinga isilinganiso esingenabudlova, noma umgomo omuhle. Futhi kunalokho, uma kwenzeka kusukela eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila, ingane ifuna ukukhetha izingubo, ingakuphikisi lokhu - shayela yona ezitolo, uyiyekelele kuphela kwinani lezinto ezintsha ezithengiwe.
Amantombazane akufanele ahambe ngombala opinki kuphela
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Art - Ugqozi Oluhle kakhulu
Ukuthuthukisa umuzwa wokuhle kakhulu enganeni ngumsebenzi wakho oqondile. Mkhombise izithombe eminyuziyamu futhi utshele izindaba zabo, ukushayela enkundleni yeshashalazi ekusebenzeni nasekuhambeni nasekuboniseni ubuciko bokwakha - konke lokhu kubonakala kungelutho ngenkathi ingane yakho ibhekana nezinye izingane ezijwayele ukuthi zihlale esifanekiso. Mnike isibaphu somoya omusha futhi ungivumele ngicabange kabanzi, ngiqale ekuqaleni, bese uMdali. Kwakuphakathi kwalezi zikhathi lapho ebona abantu emazweni ahlukene abahlala manje nalabo abaphila ngaphambili, uyakuqonda lokho okuzayo, futhi okungekho ngokwengxenye.
Ngokoqobo kanye nobuntwana, ingane ikhulisa umuzwa wokunambitha
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Ube yisibonelo sengane
Akwenzeki ukuthi wenza indodakazi yakho noma indodana yakho igqoke izingubo ezihlanzekile ezihlanzekile, bese uyobuyela ekhaya e-T-shirt eyeluliwe ngokuphekwa kokupheka kwe-borscht. Ngokusebenzisa abazali, izihlobo nabangane abalandelayo, ingane izokwazi imithetho yokuziphatha, kubandakanya nemikhuba yokutholwa ngezingubo. Kungakho ebudlelwaneni obunomusa wezingane bazama ukukopisha isitayela sabazali noma abafowethu nodadewethu abaphezulu - amantombazane amancane apenda izindebe, njengomama, futhi abafana bafunda ukubopha uthayi njengobaba. Musa ukuhlekisa ngalezi zikhathi futhi ungavumeli ukuhlolwa, kuya kuwe ngezindlela ezihlukile.
Futhi ubamba kanjani umuzwa wesitayela ezivela ezinganeni zakho? Bhala ngesipiliyoni sakho kumazwana angezansi.