Imvamisa, lapho sizama ukunquma ukuthi yiliphi i-design, inganekwane lisikhawulela izincazelo zendabuko. Ubuciko bomculo, izingoma, ukudansa, ukupenda. Eqinisweni, akunjalo. Isipiliyoni sami sibonisa ukuthi abaningi banekhono elikhulu lokudala elifihlekile ngaphakathi. Abantu abanezinkinga zokudala ezifihliwe ngokujulile baphila impilo ejwayelekile, zama ukwenza umsebenzi. Kepha ngasikhathi esithile banenkinga yezengqondo yobunzima, ngoba i-inner yangaphakathi ye- "i" ayikwazi ukuthola ukuphuma.
Kusukela ebuntwaneni, sizwa ngabazali kanye nezihlobo eziphakeme ngokubaluleka komsebenzi "wangempela". Ngesinye isikhathi, ingane iyazwa ukuthi ungummeli, noma isazi sezomnotho, noma unjiniyela uzothola isinkwa sakhe. Futhi izingoma nemidanso - inkatho kaFreak, umdwebi uzofunda kuphela ngemuva kokufa, futhi ngokuvamile, noma yimuphi umuntu wokudala uyaphela, njengombuso, onesidambi esidabukisayo. Ukufaka okusungulwe kuholela eqinisweni lokuthi abantu bayasaba ukuzibonela ngandlela thile
Abantu abanjalo bazizwa babuhlungu kakhulu, baphawula ukuthi imvelo yangaphandle ayikwazi ukwamukela. Kwabanye, abantu abanjalo babhekwa njengabazinzile ngokomzwelo. Inkinga yabo ukuthi bahlukile, futhi, bedlala imithetho engathandeki futhi enobuhlungu, "abantu abacashile" abantu abadala abakhuli amandla abo.
Ukucwaswa, okubekwa ebuntwaneni, kuholela eqinisweni lokuthi i-stereotype yokwehluleka komuntu onobuhlakani ibekelwe ekujuleni kokuqonda.
Ubunikazi be-Creative Profession By Deffect Cliders behlulekile
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Ngizothi "cha", umuntu wokudala akahlali enziwa ngokuphelele, kunalokho, kunalokho. Yebo, izinkinga zakhe aziqondakali ngokuphelele, kunzima ukuxhumana naye.
Le ndoda ingumqondo onemizwa ye-exacerby eyakha umhlaba wangaphakathi ocebile, hhayi njalo ukuba nekhono lokulinganisa ngaphakathi nangaphandle. Ngenxa yalokhu, umuntu onjalo uqala ukungenela ukungqubuzana nomphakathi noma abathandekayo. Uma ungasishintshi isimo ngesikhathi esifanele, khona-ke ukungaqondi kwezedwana nokungaqondakali kwendawo yonke kuyakhanya.
Izifundo zami ezihlobene nokuhlaziywa kwezimbangela zokunganeliseki komuntu ngamunye, umphakathi ubheka ukungazinzile ngokomzwelo futhi unciphise ngokungemthetho, kukhombisa ukuthi isizathu esiyinhloko sokuthi ubunye babuntu abusetshenziswanga
Umuntu ngamunye unendawo yawo eya owamulwa kuye ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwakhe. Phambilini, inhloso yaqondakala nje futhi nakanjani, njengenhloso yezenhlalo njengendlela yokuphila, ebekelwe wena ngomndeni nangemvelo. Namuhla, umqondo wenhloso ushintsha kakhulu.
Okomuntu, ubuciko baqonde ukuthi yini indawo eya kuyo, futhi yimithetho eyinhloko yokusinda nokusungula ubudlelwano obulinganayo nabanye. Umuntu wokudala ekuqinisekiseni kwakhe okubuhlungu, ofakwe ngumphakathi, azazi ukuthi uzoqala kuphi. Abanye baba uhlobo lwezidakamizwa "zokuqeqesha izidakamizwa". Inkinga yokuncika okunjalo ukuthi ukuxoshwa kwesikhathi, lapho, ngani futhi indlela yokuqhamuka, amasu angenangqondo futhi angenangqondo ayavinjwa. Ukuqeqeshwa kuyaphela, futhi ngemuva kokuthi umnyango uvaliwe ngemuva komqeqeshi, umphumela omuhle womcimbi onjalo uyaxoshwa.
Ifomula yokusinda komuntu wokudala ukuveza amandla ayo
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Vele, ukuqeqeshwa kungaba wusizo, kepha kuphela lapho kungakhombisa ukuthi ungayithola kanjani injongo yayo.
Ngizonikeza elinye lamacala: omunye umngane wami, eqeda ukulondolozwa, wabona ukuthi ngeke akwazi ukukwenza ngokwanele ukwenza umculo. Wayezifunela isikhathi eside, wasebenzela isikhathi eside ekuthengisweni. Ukungeneliseke, ukungakwazi ukwenza ubuhlakani kuholele ekungqubuzaneni kwangaphakathi okungathi sína.
Ngemuva kokuhlaziya izizathu zokuhlushwa kwakhe, sakwazi ukuthola indlela yokuphuma. Namuhla, isikole sakhe se-Vocal yibhizinisi elivumelekile futhi eliphumelelayo elimsiza ukuthi asebenzise amandla akhe futhi aqinisekise umndeni walo konke okudingekayo.
Ngakho-ke, kusho ukufingqa, kungaphawulwa ukuthi ifomula yokusinda komuntu wokudala ukudalula amandla ayo. Futhi umsebenzi wesayensi yezengqondo ukusiza ngesikhathi ukunikeza umuntu oqiniseka ukuthi indawo yakhe ayixhumekile njalo nalezo zindima zenhlalo azenza emphakathini.
Ukwakha kanye nokwakha umkhiqizo uqobo kuyiso kuphela isixazululo esanele esizosiza umuntu wokudala ukuze alondoloze ubuntu bawo, ukumelana nalezo zinselele umphakathi ozungezile.