Muva nje, ngiya ngokuya ngithola izincwadi zabafundi ngesicelo sokucacisa ukuhunyushwa kwamaphupho ngabathandi bakudala noma abayeni. Ubudlelwano baphela, kwesinye isikhathi eminyakeni edlule, futhi imiphumela yahlala.
Amaphupho ethu azama ukubhekana nale miphumela, yize kaningi ezihlokweni zokubhala zabesifazane bangibuza ukuthi uma isithandwa sangaphambili siphupha, khona-ke kusho ukuthi ngisakuthanda?
Hhayi empeleni. Iphupho lethu liyindlela eya kokuhlangenwe nakho esihlangene, esixhunyiwe. Lapho ubudlelwano buphela, iqiniso elichobozekile libhidlizwa ukuthi manje kufanele sikubeke lodwa lolu hlelo. Ngosizo lwamaphupho, siyazisiza thina "dop" it, sabalalisa amandla nezinsizakusebenza ngendlela entsha.
Isibonelo, nansi incwadi evela kowesifazane obhala ngenoveli, esevele iphele, kodwa imiphumela asabhekana nayo.
"Angikaze nginqume ukusho isikhathi eside ukuthi yonke into yaphela phakathi kwethu ukuthi ubudlelwano buye bakhule. Kwakuyinto elula futhi ehlala njalo, ngisho nami bengicabanga lokho ngokuthembekile. Kepha ngolunye usuku ngathola ukubambezeleka. Yeka ukuthi izinsuku ezimbalwa zaphenduka impilo yami! Ngibonile ngokusobala ukuthi angifuni izingane ezinaye lo muntu, ngoba izingane zizoxhumana nathi unomphela. Ukukhathazeka kwavela kwamanga, ngangingakhulelwe, kodwa ngalinyazwa yiqiniso lokuthi lezi zinsuku ezimbalwa ngangingafuni umntwana. Mina! Ngithanda izingane futhi ngihlala ngifuna eyami. Futhi kungazelelwe ngabona ukuthi angifuni ukuzihlanganisa nale ndoda. Sahlukana, ngokweqisa, sinelungelo lobuhlakani, angizange ngizisole. Futhi ngemuva kweminyaka eminingi kamuva, ngiphupha amaphupho engiphenywa ngawo, engisabele ngawo umntwana. Futhi ngithi kusuka kumyeni wami, ngikhuluma kalula. Ephusheni, isithombe sesithandwa sami sangaphambili siyaphakama. Futhi ngesizathu esithile ngifudumele kuye, yize empilweni yami angizange ngicabange ngakho iminyaka eminingana, ngaphambi kwalobuthongo, futhi uma kwesinye isikhathi ngikhunjulwa, bese kuba yilapho ngikhunjulwa, kube mnyama empilweni yami. "
Mhlawumbe, iphupho libonisa ukuphupha kwethu ukuthi usazama ukubhekana nomcimbi onzima kuye. Ngenxa yecala ngokubambezeleka, wathola konke kwalasha phakathi kwabo, ukuntuleka kwamathemba owakhelwe okwaba nakho kwababumba ubuhlobo nabo ke abathandekayo. Futhi ngaleso sikhathi ama-Illusion yakhe ngathi awa, ngaye, ngezingane ezingaba khona, ngekusasa. Futhi kube sengathi uzama ukusho ebuthongweni, ukuthi konke ukwenzile kunjalo, ukuthi manje konke kufanele kube: umndeni, izingane. Futhi manje, lapho konke kulungile, angabheka ngemfudumalo esikhathini sakhe sangesikhathi sakhe. Manje akasabi yisikhathi esizayo, kodwa azinze. Futhi lapho iba ukumelana ngokwengeziwe, ingakubonga kakhulu ukukhumbula lawo macala okucekela phansi, ukuqonda, ngisho nosizi olubuhlungu, ngosizo alukhetha ukudala ubuhlobo bothando lapho izingane zizoba khona ngokwemvelo futhi ezifiselekayo. Yebo, izivivinyo ezinjalo zikuPhila wonke umuntu. Futhi izikhathi ezibuhlungu kakhulu kwesinye isikhathi zingaba yi-swivel kakhulu yekusasa uma zenza kanjalo.
Noma nasi isibonelo. Lona wesifazane akazange adlule isikhathi eside ngesehlukaniso esibuhlungu. Cishe noma iyiphi isehlukaniso, lalihambisana nenani elikhulu lezimfihlo ezahlukahlukene, iqiniso elibuhlungu, ekugcineni lathi komunye nomunye, izinqumo eziningi zithathiwe, ukwahlukaniswa kwendawo nokwakha impilo ehlukile komunye nomunye.
Futhi iphupho lakhe lithi: "Ngizikhethela indlu ethembekile. Ngibheka efulethini endaweni ephakeme, endlini ehlonishwayo. Ngizogubha izinketho ezingathembeki nezingathandeki. Ngibheka kuphela lokho okuthembekile futhi isikhathi eside. Ngithola, ngeluleka, ngifaka inkomba. Amakamelo, lapho omakhelwane beshintsha njalo ngeminyaka emi-4, abangifanele. Ngibuka izindlu ngokucophelela futhi isikhathi eside. "
Leli phupho ngaphandle kwezingathekiso eziyinkimbinkimbi libonisa ukuthi iphupho lifuna indlela yokwakha isisekelo esiqinile. Mhlawumbe ngisho nedijithali 4 kudlala inani. Mhlawumbe kakhulu washada, futhi mhlawumbe lesi sibalo akusona isikhathi esisemthethweni sobumbano lwaso, kodwa ngesikhathi lapho inyunyana yaso isisekela ngempela khona.
Ephusheni, ufuna futhi edala isisekelo esithembekile, hhayi komunye umuntu, kepha sakhe usizo kuye uqobo.
Ngiyazibuza ukuthi uphupha ini? Izibonelo zamaphupho akho athumela ngeposi: [email protected]. Ngendlela, amaphupho kulula kakhulu ukuwaveza uma encwadini eya kumhleli uzobhala izimo zokuphila okwandulelayo, kepha okubaluleke kakhulu - imizwa nemizwa ngesikhathi sokuvuka kuleli phupho.
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