Ngisho nakumabhangqa anamandla kunabo bonke, kungahle kube nomuzwa wokuthi omunye wabalingani ayeke ukubiza imizwa efanayo njengoba ngaphambili, ekuqaleni kobudlelwano. Umbuzo uphakama - Kungenzeka yini ukuthi uhlale ufiseleka kumuntu owazi konke ngawe? Sizokutshela izindlela eziningana.
Ubheka kanjani indoda yakho
Imvamisa intokazi imane nje ibheka nje isimo sengqondo kumlingani. Amadoda azizwa emnandi. Cabanga ukuthi ubheka kanjani umphefumulo wakho womshado? Amehlo akho ashise? Angakwazi ukufunda ukunconywa kuzo? Khumbula ukuthi kwakunjani ekuqaleni kobuhlobo lapho wawungeke uhlukane. Zama ukuvusa leyo mizwa oyikhanyisela.
Ungakhohlwa ukufenda
Vele, indlela elula kakhulu yokuthandana ne-Flirt ene-bar kunokuba nomphefumulo ocishe uhlobene, ohamba endlini amabhulukwe wezemidlalo. Kodwa-ke, ungagijimeli ukudumazeka. Shiya inothi elidlalayo lendoda etafuleni lakhe, uvule inganekwane, vumela ukuxhumana "okushisayo" kube yinye indlela yokukhulula uthando embhalweni wakho.
Hlala ngaphandle
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-Hlolo
Lapho wena ndawonye isikhathi eside, indoda iba bolder kanti enye inhlawulo inganikela ukuze ubone ifilimu exakile. Njengomthetho, isiphakamiso esinjalo sihlangabezana nokusabela okusheshayo kowesifazane, futhi hhayi okuhle ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ungaphuthumi ukwenqaba uma uswele izinhlansi, funa noma yiziphi izindlela zokukhanyisa ubuhlobo, futhi kulokhu, izivivinyo zimane nje zinesidingo.
Zihlale kunoma yisiphi isimo
Inkinga ejwayelekile yabesifazane abashadile ukulahlekelwa yintshisekelo. Amadoda athandana nabesifazane abavutha ibhizinisi labo noma abazithandayo, bazizwa ngamandla abalulekile. Kepha, njengomthetho, konke kushintsha, kuwufanele umfazi ukwenza umndeni. Zama ukuthola ukuyekethisa phakathi kwezinto zakho zokuzilibazisa nezindaba zasendlini, into embi kakhulu ukuguqula isithunzi uqobo.