Uma uqala ukubheka nje, umbhede akuyona indawo efanelekayo yezingxoxo eziqotho. Okungenani ngesikhathi senqubo esondelene. Noma kunjalo, ngokuya ngemiphumela yezifundo zochwepheshe emkhakheni wezengqondo, ukucwiliswa ngokuphelele kuthule, ngokungalungile.
Ngakho-ke yiziphi izihloko okufanele zixhase ngesikhathi sex? Ingabe ukuxhumana nomlingani kuthinta ikhwalithi yezocansi iyathinta? Kulolu daba, kufanele sibhekane nakho.
Kuyiqiniso, akudingekile ukuxoxa ngakunye ngobuningi, kepha izingxoxo ezakhayo okuhloswe ngazo ukwenza ngcono ikhwalithi yocansi ku-pair. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuhambisa iphuzu kumlingani wakho, ngenkathi ungathinti imizwa yakhe.
Sizokutshela ukuthi ungayishaya kanjani indoda ukuya ecansini, nokuthi yini okufanele ungabulali.
Umthetho wokuqala : Ungalokothi uqhathanise indoda yakho nabalingani bangaphambilini. Akukho okunye ngaphandle kokudumala, ngeke umlethe. Okufanayo kuyasebenza ezingxoxweni nabesifazane. Ngakho-ke, uma ufuna umlingani wakho wamanje ukuphinda amanye ama- "Chips" asondele kakhulu, okulethe injabulo ebudlelwaneni obudlule, basikisela izifiso zakho, ngaphandle kokuthuthela ebuntwini bendawo yangaphambili. Mhlawumbe indoda kuzofanela icubungule kabusha indlela yabo yokusondelana nawe, kodwa uzokwenza uma efuna ubudlelwane obunye obungavumelani, kubandakanya nocansi.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ubuchopho babesilisa nabesifazane ngesikhathi sezocansi busebenza ngezindlela ezihlukile
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Akunasidingo sokusolwa , ngemibala ebiyelwe ngqo lokho angakufaneli, futhi kudlulisele ukushiyeka kwayo nobuthakathaka bakhe. Ngaphandle kwalokho, ubeka engcupheni izakhiwo eziningi zamadoda, futhi esikhundleni sokulungisa isimo, uzobheka umuntu ongeke amhlaze.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ubuchopho babesilisa nabesifazane ngesikhathi sezocansi busebenza ngezindlela ezihlukile. Iqiniso Elithakazelisayo: Ngesikhathi senqubo, lona wesifazane angacabanga ngasikhathi sinye ngasikhathi sinye kubantu bangaphandle ngokuphelele. Nabesilisa, isimo sehlukile: ubuchopho babo bubuliwe ukwenza umsebenzi owodwa ngesikhathi esinikeziwe. Ngakho-ke, kunzima ukuguqula ukunaka kwakhe kokunye lapho kulungiselelwe ukushaya amarekhodi ocansi. Lapho ukhombisa imizamo yokukhuluma ngesikhathi socansi, kungaphenduka ukuntuleka kokwenziwa futhi kukhishwe phansi.
Kodwa-ke, akuyona yonke into embi kakhulu. Kwabesilisa abaningi, akunzima ukukhuluma kancane kwinqubo. Kepha ukulandela ngokucophelela ukusabela kwakhe: Uma kungalungiselelwe engxoxweni, awudingi ukuphoqa. Uma kwenzeka ufuna ukuthola ukuhlolwa kwakho, khuluma owokuqala, ngaleyo ndlela ake siqonde ukuthi akuphambene nalombhangqwana wamagama.
Kwabesilisa abaningi, akunzima ukukhuluma kancane kwinqubo.
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Kubalulekile ukuthi owesilisa abone ukuthi wenzani kahle, udinga ukusabela kwakho. Ubuchopho besilisa bubona hhayi kuphela izinto ezibonakalayo, kepha futhi udinga ukukuzwa. Imibhangqwana eminingi ihlolwe yathi yathi icwila nemikhosi nokumemeza, okuthinta umthamo we-orgasm. Lapho umlingani edlala i-Partisan, kukhona ukungabaza: Ingabe ngenza konke okulungile?
Ngakho-ke, nikeza umuntu ukuzethemba emandleni akhe owesilisa: basabela ngenkuthalo kuzo zonke izenzo zawo, abathuli. Kodwa-ke, akudingekile ukuphinda usebenzise - ngaleyo ndlela unamahloni umlingani, futhi kuzoqala ukungabaza ukwethembeka kwakho.
Futhi-ke, kubalulekile ukudumisa omunye nomunye. Cishe ngamunye wethu kokungabaza okuthile, ngakho-ke ukuncoma kuyindlela enhle yokususa ukungezwani nokungaqiniseki.
Ukuncoma kuyindlela enhle yokususa ukungezwani nokungaqiniseki
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Amagama amnandi asemqoka kwabesifazane, ngoba ngokuvamile bayangabaza ukuphelela kwabo. Ukusuka emizweni yabo nasekuthembekeni kwabo kuya ngokuthi umhlangano wakho osondelene naye udlula kanjani. Khuluma naye, njengoba ujabule ngezingxenye ezithile zomzimba, ukhuphule (noma wakhe) amakhono ocansi.
Izwi elifanele kangaka lizokwakha isimo esifunekayo, esizosiza ukunikela ngemizwa futhi siphumule, futhi le yinto ebaluleke kakhulu esakhiweni esivumelanayo sempilo yezocansi.