Impilo ngenxa yokuxhumana nomphakathi mhlawumbe ngale ndlela kungenzeka ukuthi ithambekele ekuziphatheni kwabantu abaningi abafuna ukuhluka. Ongawenzi ama-blogger kumakhasi ethu - kusuka ku-Challetsess Challet kusuka kubantu abanele kuyazungeza. Ukubheka bona, abantu abaningi banokungakhethi phakathi kwabo ngendlela yabo futhi bacabanga kahle. Kuchaza ukuthi kungani kungafanele ulwele ukungabi "wonke umuntu" nesikhathi esithe xaxa sokunikela ngentuthuko yethu njengomuntu, hhayi i-clown emphakathini.
Isifiso Sokubeka Engcupheni
Ngenkathi umuntu oyedwa ezilahla emigwaqweni, ukudansa nokucula izingoma nabangane bazo, indlela abanye abaziphatha ngayo ibonakala ingamile, yize zibonakala zinamakilasi ajwayelekile wokuzijabulisa. Ukuphishekela umuntu nge-adrenaline kusikisela ukuthi empilweni akukho okuthile okubalulekile empilweni: imindeni, izingane, izinhloso ezinkulu. Ngezikhathi ezithile ubungozi besikhathi - lokhu kuyinto evamile, ngoba wonke umuntu ufuna ukuguqula inqubo, ngokwesibonelo, ngesikhathi sokuphumula. Kepha into eyodwa yokuthola i-adrenaline, igxume ngeparachute nomfundisi, futhi okuthile okuhluke ngokuphelele lapho umuntu egxumela olwandle edwaleni, ngaphandle kokubheka amandla okushaya komoya ongalungile ukweqa inqubo. Lapho umuntu ethola ukubaluleka kwempilo, uzobuyekeza izinto zakhe zokuzilibazisa ezingcebelweni ezilungiselelwe noma izindlela eziphephile zokushayela.
Ungayi engcupheni engenanjongo
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Izinwele ezinemibala, tattoo nokubhoboza
Kulesi sigaba, "Ukuxilongwa" okufanayo akunakwenziwa kubantu: Ngoba izinguquko eziningi ngokubukeka kwenzeka ngenxa yesifiso sabo sokuhlolwa, hhayi ukulimala kwengqondo. Kodwa-ke, kuyo yonke indlela ebalulekile - yiyo ngokuqondile inquma ukuthi umuntu udinga ukubonisana nge-psychotherative. Abafundisayo abamboza i-tattoo iningi lomzimba babhoboze yonke into ezindlebeni ezindlebeni ezindlebeni, baningi abantu abavela emindenini ebincishwe amathuba emphakathini. Ngemuva kwezingubo zabo ezesabekayo kanye ne-hairstyle kufihla amanzi omphefumulo wendoda eyayingaluthola uthando olwanele kwabathandekayo futhi isetshenziselwa ukubiza okungenani imizwa ethile evela endaweni ezungezile.
Ukulahlekelwa yibuntu obuthile ekufuneni ukuhluka
Okunye okwedlulele yisifiso samantombazane ukushintsha ukubukeka kwawo ukuze sikhange kwabesilisa. Amabele e-Silicone, andise izindebe, eshintsha ukwakheka kwesilevu, ekhaleni kanye nesihlathi, ukunwetshwa kwezinwele kanye nama-eyelashes - konke lokhu, njengoba kubonakala kubukeka njengekhulu. Yiqiniso kuphela ukuthi umfazi wesithathu abheka lokho, futhi ngenxa yalokho, ngokuvamile, leli qembu lizofana nalo. Ubuntu bakho bangempela ukufana nawe wazalwa. Ungakhohlwa ukuzinakekela thina, kepha ungazibeki engcupheni impilo, wenze imijovo yokuhlinzwa nokwakha ubuhle bepulasitiki. Umlingani wakho uzokuthanda nakancane okhalweni ophelele kanye nesifuba esihle, futhi ngenxa yomphefumlo wakho - ubudlelwane bakho - kuphela obukhona isikhathi eside ngaphezu kwezinyanga ezimbalwa uze uzithole "wena.
Uma ufuna ukudansa - ukudansa, kepha ungayenzi kulo mdlalo weshashalazi
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Amanga abonakale kumamayela
Vula umuntu ukuhlukanisa kusuka koyedwa ofaneleke ngokuqondile, mhlawumbe ngisho nengane. Lapho uzama ukuziphatha njengohlanya emphakathini, ukhohlwa ngamazinga wokuziphatha, akusho lutho ngesibindi nobunye bakho - kukhuluma ngokungazethembi. Ama-blogger adlale indima embi, adubule ividiyo eningi engenanjongo enezingcweti zokudweba nezihlekisayo nabantu abadlulayo. Khumbula ukuthi umehluko phakathi kokuvuleleka nobuphangi ukuthi owokuqala ubheka imithetho yokuziphatha emphakathini futhi ayithinti izimpilo zabanye abantu, kanti okwesibili ngomphakathi kuzama ukubonisa okwakhe "Mina". Yebo, abantu ngaphandle kokucindezela badonsela ukunaka okwengeziwe kobulili obuhlukile - bavulwa bobabili ekuxhumaneni nasekuxhumaneni okukhulu kakhulu. Kunguwe nje, okusho ukuthi abaphoqelekile ukufanisa imibono yomunye umuntu futhi bazithobise ezifisweni, futhi lokhu kuziphatha kuzokwenza abanye abazungeza imibono yamanga ngobuntu bakho. Yiba ngokwakho futhi uzithande njengoba unjalo, kepha ungakhohlwa ukuzikhulisa nokulwela okungcono.