Iklayenti lami langaphambili nentombi yamanje uNatasha atshela ukuthi ozakwabo babuzwa kanjani: Futhi yini, uzohlala ukhetha imibala efanayo manje? Futhi kufanana nezinye izinto?
Futhi lo mbuzo waphinde wavuka ukuthi kwakuyisidina kanjani, ukubonisana ngowesifazane ohlukile "nsuku zonke". Futhi ngaleso sikhathi sengivele nginombuzo: Ngabe ucabanga ngempela ukuthi izingubo zikwenza uhluka?
Ubuso bempilo yethu yonke buyefana, kepha nokho sonke sahluka nsuku zonke. Ngokubona kwami, into ebaluleke kakhulu ukugcwaliswa, lokho esikugcwalisa ukwazi kwethu. Azikho izingubo ezizokwenza umuntu aqhakaze futhi athakazelise uma engahlangene nalutho. Kepha kunethuba lokugqoka, ukugcizelela umlingiswa wakho, ukuhlukahluka, nokuthi ukuheha kanjani abantu bakho. Izembatho ikhadi lakho lebhizinisi, ngakho-ke wenza umbono wokuqala.
Kungani ungabakhumbuli abanye abantu ngemuva kokujwayelana kokuqala? Isithombe sabo asibonakali kakhulu uma ufuna ukugqama - vumela izingubo zakho zikhulume ngomlingiswa wakho, imvelo kanye nemvelo yakho.
Mhlawumbe kuyesabisa ukuthi izingubo zizoqala ukukhuluma nawe futhi zinikeze zonke izimfihlo. Kodwa-ke, ake sithi ngeke usadinga ukugqoka imaskhi njalo lapho umhlangano nabangane noma abantu obajwayele abasha.
Ngomhlangano wakho, ngathola umsebenzi wokuqashelwa kwami, amandla okufunda ukubukeka kwakho, futhi, ngokufanele, khetha izingubo ezifanele.
Ukuzivocavoca lokhu: thatha isibuko, kungaba mncane, ngokwesibonelo, kubafazi, bese umbheka. Funda ukuthi ubuso bakho budonswa kanjani, yimiphi imigqa oyibonayo, Amehlo akho, ekhaleni, umlomo, lapho amakhona ezindebe namehlo aqondiswa khona, njengeshiya. Chaza konke okubonile ephepheni - Amagama, Thesees. Isinyathelo esilandelayo ukwenza ikholaji, usike kusuka kumagazini wemfashini lezo zinto, ngombono wakho, phinda imigqa oyibonile ebusweni bakho. Linganisa ukuthi uthanda kangakanani ikholaji ephumela, imiphi imizwa nemizwa ekwenza.
Ukuvivinya okunjalo kungakuvulela izinto eziningi ezintsha, kuzosiza ukukwenza ukubukeka kwakho uma kukhona okungakweneliseki ngaphambili.
Futhi imiphumela yethu ihlanganyela kumazwana kule ndatshana. Ngizojabula kakhulu ukubabona futhi ngixoxa.
UKarina Efimova, uchwepheshe ngokwakhiwa ikhabethe labesifazane eliqiniso