Ngosizo lwamavoti, awukwazi ukwenza umbono nje, kepha futhi uzuze izinguquko ezibalulekile empilweni. Skno ukushayela izwi, uyakwazi ukuvela emehlweni womuntu ngqo ongathanda ukuba yikho.
Ngasikhathi sinye, abaningi bethu banamahloni okuveza imicabango ngenxa yokwesaba ukwesaba abakwazi ukubhekana nenjabulo, ngakho-ke bazame ukungadonseli ukunakwa. Ngenxa yalokho, umuntu onjalo uvame ukuphuthelwa amathuba amahle empilweni yakhe kanye nomsebenzi wakhe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, bambalwa abantu abafuna ukuxhumana nomuntu okhetha ukudonsa. Ungesabi ukuveza, ake ungabi nesipika esiqeqeshiwe, kepha konke kusezandleni zakho, kufanele nje ufune.
Ngabe umsindo wezwi lethu uncike kuphi?
Lesi sici sithonywa yizici eziningi - kusuka ku-physology kusendaweni yethu. Kodwa-ke, emandleni akho ukuthatha i-timbre yethu, i-inconation ngaphansi kwamandla, avume, ekhanda lenkampani noma, ngokwesibonelo, inhloko yoMnyango ibalulekile ukukwazi ukuphatha izwi labo ukuze bahole abantu. Uma uthatha isikhundla sobuholi, enye yezinto okufanele inake, ukhuluma kahle kanjani izwi.
Ungesabi ukuveza imicabango yami
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Izwi nempilo yomuntu siqu: Ingabe kukhona ukuxhumana?
I-timbre yabesilisa ejulile ikhuluma ngamandla omuntu, akwaziwa ukuthi ngifuna ukulalela, okungenani ingxenye enengqondo yobuchopho bethu ayikwazi ukuvumelana nalokhu. Ezingeni lokuqonda, lona wesifazane unomuzwa wokuthi umuntu onjalo angakhulelwa inzalo enempilo, ngakho-ke, ngakho-ke abantu abafaka isikhalazo ngezwi ngezwi labo eliphansi bathandwa kakhulu nabobulili obuhlukile.
Ngasikhathi sinye, akunakwenzeka ukuthi ungacabangi umjikelezo wabesifazane: njengoba izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zithole, ezinsukwini ezahlukahlukene umjikelezo wabesifazane zingakhangwa amadoda ahlukahlukene, ngokwesibonelo, ngesikhathi sokubopha, owesifazane unaka amadoda anawo Izwi eliphansi, futhi ngemuva kwesonto ngemuva kwe-ovulation kungadonsela amadoda ezolile abonisa imizwa emnene kuye futhi abe noshoko oluthambile.
Yini abesifazane?
Iphansi elibuthakathaka livame kakhulu ukuzwakala kwezwi eliphakeme kunaleso labesilisa, futhi ngenxa yemvelo - abantu besilisa banwebeka nabesifazane abaphakeme, ngezwi, njengoba befuna ukuzivikela, okuyinto, eqinisweni imisebenzi yamadoda maqondana nengxenye yesibili. Kodwa-ke, okuphezulu, ngomqondo othile, izwi lezingane, lingaba ukuphazamiseka okukhulu ekuthuthukiseni isitebhisi somsebenzi, ngoba kunzima impela ukucabanga umphathi ongenalo izwi lakhe. Kuyiqiniso, uma ungakhuli emsebenzini, icala alihlali livela kwizwi, kodwa nokho, uma ufaka isicelo sesikhala, lapho kunikezwe khona izimfanelo zobuholi, ukuze kudutshulwe ngezwi Izimo ezicindezelayo futhi ngaleyo ndlela zizwa ukuqiniseka hhayi emabuthweni akhe kuphela, kodwa futhi zigqugquzela umbono kubasebenzi bazo, ukuthi uyindoda ofuna ukuya kuyo.
Ngokuqondene nobudlelwano bomuntu siqu, ngisho nokungafani okunjalo, njengezwi eliphansi lowesifazane kanye nesibalo esithambile, ngeke kuthonye ukuheha indoda uma inentshisekelo kuwe, ngakho-ke akufanele ukukhathazeka kakhulu ukuthi I-innonation yakho ayisho ukuthi, ake sithi, Umlingisi wakho othandekayo - umuntu othanda ngeke ubeke icala uma ubiza kuye.
Ingabe kufanelekile ukusebenza kahle ngezwi lakho, uma kungenwe nakho kwenelisekile ngokuqonda kanye ne-timbre?
Vele, kunzima impela ukuguqula lokho okunikezwa ngemvelo, kepha kungenzeka uma ushayela isifiso esinamandla. Manje usungathola izifundo eziningi ku-Skill Skill, kufaka phakathi insizakalo eyenziwe ngezwi enikelwe ezifundweni ezisebenzayo ezinkundleni zemidlalo - kodwa ngeke ufunde hhayi ngezwi elifanelekile, kodwa futhi ukhiphe ama-clamps we-physiological okukuvimbela ukuthi uthathe isinyathelo sokuqala empilweni yomuntu siqu kanye inkambu yobungcweti. Ungesabi futhi uzishintshe, uzobona ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani kuzoba nezinguquko ezinhle!