Mhlawumbe cishe eminyakeni eyi-10-15 edlule, othile wayengamangala yilesi simo "Somsebenzi Wowesifazane", kodwa hhayi manje. Emhlabeni wethu wanamuhla, indawo ebuthakathaka ibamba izikhundla eziphezulu, abesifazane abaningi baqala ukuba sezinkampanini zabo, izitolo ezivulekile, ama-salon ubuhle. Ngamanye amagama, isikhala sebhizinisi ekugcwalisweni kwemakethe. Ake sikuthole lapho inqubekela phambili enjalo (noma i-regress) yenzeka engcupheni yowesifazane futhi inzuzo?
Kuqala, sonke siyazi ukuthi owesifazana uzalwe ukuqhubeka nohlobo, lapho uya khona lapho sekurekhodiwe ukuze abe ngumama, umkakhe, inkosikazi enhle, ukuphendula induduzo endlini. Yilokhu umuntu afuna kukhethwe kuye. Futhi nansi umsebenzi? Iyiphi indawo empilweni yowesifazane enikezwa umsebenzi?
I-Psychology of Faranity yabesifazane kufanele iqine, ikwazile ukubala wena, ngamandla abo. Ngokwemvelo, owesifazane kufanele enze ukukhetha, iyiphi indlela yokuphumelela empilweni yakhe ngumndeni noma umsebenzi? Akunakwenzeka ukuyeka ezihlalweni ezimbili, ube nesikhathi sokwenza amacala ayi-1000 ngasikhathi sinye.
Kungani owesifazane edonsela ukusebenzela okwengeziwe, hhayi emndenini? Kungahle kube nezinketho eziningana lapha.
Emhlabeni wanamuhla, abesifazane abaningi ngokwengeziwe bakhetha ukwenziwa emsebenzini, hhayi empilweni yomndeni
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Okokuqala, lokhu kungeyona umndeni wakho, indoda ethandekayo empilweni yowesifazane. Ngenxa yalokhu, indawo ebuthakathaka izwa indlala engokomzwelo, ukudabuka futhi ufuna ukushintshela kokunye, zizinikele ngokuphelele - hhayi ukubhekana neqiniso. Yize bekuzonengqondo ngokwengeziwe ukuhlukanisa lesi sihloko, noma ngabe ihhovisi likadokotela wezengqondo: kungani ngisangedwa?
Okwesibili, i-SNAG ingaba sesimweni sowesifazane. Isibonelo, uma indodakazi ibona umama oqinile, ongokwezifiso, ngokwakhe athole konke, adonsela umndeni wonke, khona-ke isibonelo sikamama sesivele sibekwe eHerring. Yebo, kufanele uqine futhi wenze konke kulempilo uqobo, uma kungenjalo ngeke uphile! Kuliqiniso, umama uzokugcizelela: bathi, bheka, ndodakazi, bafunde, indoda manje ebuthakathaka ihambe.
Okwesithathu, isifiso sokwakha umsebenzi noma ukuthola ibhizinisi laso kungenxa yethalente lowesifazane, isifiso sokuphila. Omunye owayekade ephuphe ephupha ngokuba yijaji kusuka eminyakeni eyi-12 futhi ngokuqiniseka wakhulisa isitebhisi somsebenzi ngaphambi kwesimo sakhe samanje.
Futhi nokho ngikwazi ukumemezela ngokuzethemba ukuthi kunezinkinga zomuntu ezingalungiswa zemisebenzi yomuntu siqu yokuqashwa kwaphakade kwabasebenzi besifazane. Ngivame ukubona abesifazane ehhovisi lakhe ngezikhathi zengqondo, isicelo sabo sihambisana nokuntuleka kwempilo yomuntu siqu noma ukunganeliseki ngendoda eseduze.
Kodwa-ke, izazi zengqondo ziyaqiniseka: noma yiziphi izikhulu zomsebenzi zinezinkinga zomuntu siqu
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Okufanele ngikwenze?
Kunomkhuba olula ukukhomba izidingo zayo zangempela. Kwanele ukuthatha ama-watman, omagazini abaningana bese uqala ukusika izithombe ngesithombe somsebenzi kanye nezinto zomndeni. Lapho uhlangothi olulodwa lomndeni wanamathisela "impilo yomndeni", futhi komunye - "umsebenzi". Hlala ngokuthula bese uqala ukubuka eyodwa, bese ngaphesheya kwehora, usuku, izinsuku ezimbili. Futhi ngasikhathi sinye esifanele uzobona ukuthi iqiniso liya kanjani ebusweni, futhi ungakuqonda ngokunembile lokho wena nenhliziyo yakho okufunayo ngempela.
Ukuhlangenwe nakho kwami kwengqondo kukhombisa ukuthi isilinganiso samaphesenti phakathi komndeni ne-Quarry kungenzeka ngesilinganiso sama-70% ngu-30%. Into esemqoka ukuba nebhalansi nenduduzo emndenini.