Imvamisa ingqikithi yemali ibuhlungu ebudlelwaneni phakathi kwabashadikazi, futhi labo abadlula ngesehlukaniso bayazi ukuthi imali iyisici esibaluleke kakhulu sobudlelwano.
I-heroine yesihloko sanamuhla muva nje idluliselwe ehlukaniso nomyeni wakhe, yathuthela kwelinye idolobha, yashiya impahla ebanzi yalowo owake eshade naye. Kubukeka sengathi balungile, banobungane futhi ngaphandle kwamahlazo. Kodwa-ke, inkinga engaphelele yemali yahlala phakathi kwabo. Ngokuzenzakalelayo, isehlukaniso siyisinyathelo somkakhe, yena nokubhekana nezindlu ezintsha, ukugeleza kwezimali, isabelomali esizimele. Futhi umyeni wangaphambili kuthiwa uthintekile ohlangothini, ngenxa yalokho, ngekhwalithi yesinxephezelo, wahlala ehlala khona kanye nezinye izinzuzo ezingezona.
Kodwa-ke, ngamaphupho amaphupho ethu, elinye iqiniso ngobuhlobo babo, ngokusekelwe kwimibono yayo yangempela yokuthi babeyihlukana kanjani.
Ngakho-ke lala:
"Umyeni wangaphambilini wayephuphe. Sisendlini yethu, kubonakala sengathi siphila, kepha ngisemalungelo ezihambeni. Ngimtshela ukuthi kukhona okubandayo kimi, ngisendlini yonke indawo iMerznu. Ngivele ngithi kunjalo, hhayi ukubala impendulo. Futhi kungazelelwe ngiza ngibone ukuthi isusa isithombe sangemuva ngezindonga ngamashidi aphelele kanye namashidi athile abangu-Fenzere, lapho lezi zindonga zinamathiselwe khona, ziqonde phezulu kwe-denism, futhi zihlongoze futhi zibona i-natilas yalezi zindonga. Umbuzo: "Wenzani?" Uyaphendula: "Uthe umakhaza, ngingumuntu onke, ngizobe ngifaka yonke indawo futhi kungabinda." Ngishaqekile ukuthi okuncane kwami "ngiyabanda" isenzo esinjalo esinjalo, ikakhulukazi selokhu ngazi ukuthi ukulungiswa kusha futhi izindonga zifudumele. "
Ukulala kwe-heroine kukhombisa ukuthi kufana kanjani nezinga lakhe lezimangalo empilweni yangempela. Ephusheni, umyeni wakhe wakudala ukulungele ukumnakekela, ukumhlomisa impilo yakhe, ukuphendula ocingweni lokho akusizi, kodwa ngokunakekelwa okulula komuntu. Mhlawumbe i-heroine yethu ayazi ukuthi ingabuza noma imemezele kanjani izidingo zabo ezinelungelo. Kulula kuye wedwa kunokuba ube sesimweni sokubuza. Le yinkinga ejwayelekile yabesifazane abathanda uhlelo "Mina uqobo".
Ikhono liyasebenziseka, kepha libonisa ingxenye kuphela yezimfanelo zomuntu siqu ezidingekayo. Thembela kuwe - lokhu kungenye yamaqembu ekuzimele kwethu. Kodwa-ke, memezela futhi ugcizelele emalungelweni abo futhi yikhono elidingekayo lomuntu omdala. Ngaphandle kwawo, kunzima ukwenqaba, athi "Cha", ukufuna okufanelekile nokuvikela isikhundla sayo.
I-Dreamy yethu, kungenzeka kakhulu, imvamisa iphansi empilweni lapho kudingekile khona futhi akudingekile. Kodwa-ke, ukulala "kuyakuqeqesha" okuhlangenwe nakho okusha ukumemezela izidingo nezifiso zabo. Isibonelo, yazisa umyeni wangaphambili ukuthi kuyadingeka ukuletha ukuhleleka kwezindaba zabo zezezimali, ukuthi akhulume, njengoba inkontileka yawo yemali kufanele inakekele isehlukaniso, ingabe kukhona impahla abangahlukanisa ngomthetho. Izothola indlu "efudumele", futhi izokhululeka emqondweni wecala ngempahla eyengeziwe, eyabelwa yona ngokwakho.
Njengomthetho, uma kunomthetho ebudlelwaneni kanye nesinqumo esingalungile sanoma yiluphi uhlobo, lokhu akuvumeli ukuthi abalingani bangaphambili bahlukane ngempela futhi bakhe impilo emkhakheni ohlanzekile. Izimangalo ezingashiwongo, intukuthelo nentukuthelo zizobopha iminyaka eminingi, zigxeka isizungu noma zokwakha nomlingani omusha, kodwa endala ".
Sincoma ubungozi bokuthi bathembeke futhi baphikelele ukuba sengozini yokuba qotho nokuphikelela, ukuletha ebudlelwaneni nomyeni wangaphambilini futhi uzilungiselele ubudlelwane obusha uma ephuphayo.
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UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin